Our declining number of rules.

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by BCinIN

Normally I agree with you Chicup, but we believe some things are better kept between us--having fun with other couples is nice, but there are some things no one else should be able to have, and they aren't all sexual either--some are social.

But have you decreased your rules since you've been swinging? If you have than Chicup's comment doesn't apply to you.

[hmr]

Rules? what are those?

[Tia Vampire]

I don't think our rules will ever change and yes we have many. I'm not going to let anyone do anything with me that I will not allow my fiance to do. So far we have not had any complaints. Sure, we know that because of our rules we're not being overwhelmed by e-mails, but we like it that way because we rather meet a couple in a club or at a meet and greet. That way we get to speak and see the couple that we are interested in.

[ShellyM]

Our rules are minimal, and have pretty much stayed the same. They are pretty standard I think in regards to safety, not taking one for the team, etc. etc.
Personally we do not play with couples that have lots and lots of rules. It just makes me nervous and I am always wondering if I'm breaking rules or pissing someone off. So when we have a couple that has what we consider to be a "laundry list" of rules we usually just stay friends. Especially the no kissing rule lol, do not like that one.
Shelly

[katcouple]

We have a few rules.

Global: 1. safe sex
2. We play together

Her rules for us - No anal (she wants to keep her ass for "us" and I agree) No guy on guy (this is a free bee for me as I am not interested in this at all)

His rule for us - She will not swallow (this is kept for us as well and she agrees 100%) However, this one may bend with a good friend, and thats fine with me.

Other than that, its a free for all.