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After posting on another topic I was wondering how many other couples have run into situations where they have been confronted with unusual "rules". Ex.... no kissing, no oral, ect.. ect... Are these couples setting themselves up to fail? or are they too insecure to last as swingers?
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 386 Location: Exit 13A Thank you very much! Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:DGrey
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I think every couple needs a set of rules that makes them feel comfortable. We typically don't like to play with other couples that won't kiss because we both love to kiss and for us, it would be an incomplete evening. That's not to say that they are setting themselves up to fail though because I'm sure there are lots of couples that share their views. E |
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,476 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun
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we went into it with alot of rules. and found many of them changed or were kinda droped as far as no kissing and such. we found ya should always respect anyones and everyones rules. cant say we ever came across any unusual rules.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 507 Location: South Beach, Florida Status: M. Half of Couple
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Yeah you start out with a thick rule book and then over time each rule seems less and less important. After a while you're more secure about everything and you don't need all of the rules any more.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 489 Location: ~~~ Status: Couple
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We have a few rules, which we spell out in our online profile - the most prominent of which is that we are not currently in full swap mode. Our full swap limitation is probably not unusual for couples in our situation - long term momogamous relationship punctuated by a relatively meager amount of swinging experience. We may be singing a different tune down the road a bit... In fact, we currently have two exceptions to our full swap rule. 1) Any couple which visits us from more than 1,000 miles away, and 2) Any couple who can guess our favorite baseball team... |
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| Has Left the Building Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 99 Location: San Francisco/Las Vegas Status: single
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Rules are made out of fear, and fear diminishes because of it's metaphisical non reality so therefore diminish the rules.. "Do whast thou will shall be the whole of the law.." Jimmy Page |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 17 Location: Northern Colorado Status: Single male with swinging girlfriend Swing Lifestyle Name:thirsten
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