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This is a discussion on Creating an intimate atmosphere that doesn't threaten relationships within the What are your rules/boundaries? What should ours be? forums, part of the Boundaries & Limits category; Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey The best thing is if you decide to stay in the lifestyle as a single ...
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,561 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey | Quote:
Treat someone the way that you would want to be treated... Unless, of course, you have a serious verbal humiliation fetish... If you can look at the couple and imagine what your boundaries would be as part of that couple, you'll go a long way. We meet a lot of single males who will say at some point in the conversation, "I couldn't do this if I was married." Nothing wrong with them feeling that way - in fact I am impressed that they recognize that in themselves - but if they know what would make them insercure about swinging as a couple, they should easily be able to know what they should not do/say/ask/try as a single male being invited into a couple's sex lives. Spoomonkey
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 183 Location: washington dc area Status: single | Quote:
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 556 Location: off the board | Quote:
I think I might... as I really don't want to get back into a realationship and ...well... I have a really high libido. The problem is in my area, so far...my Darter is the only man who I really felt the heat for. And that begs the question... should you swing with your recent ex? I somehow think it would end up ruining a good freindship... but damn it is hard ( pun intended) not to think about carressing his body and making whoopie all night long. It is not going to be an easy transition for me in that area... I have lost my favorite food... so to speak...I can see it on the shelf... but I am forbidden from eating it. That begs the question ( and perhaps I should start a new thread) Should you ever continue to "play" with an ex? Under any circumstance ? the ever questioning ~Cat | |
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