Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner?

KarlnRenee · 09-20-2004, 07:45 PM

Karl and I have just gotten into swinging a few months ago (only been with 3 couples so far) and got into a conversation last night about certain types of play that we have decided that will remain sacred only to us, and not when we're playing with others. We're wondering if other couples have similar agreements with each other as we do.

For example-Karl and I will "toss each other's salad", have anal sex together, I will swallow during oral sex with him, and he won't be swallowed during oral sex by any other females. These are the activities that we came up with that we feel should just be between us.

Anyone else or are we prudes?

De and Ci · 09-20-2004, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by KarlnRenee

, I will swallow during oral sex with him, and he won't be swallowed during oral sex by any other females.

Are you sure this will be something he can control?

fun_pairTX · 09-20-2004, 07:58 PM

We don't participate in anal with anyone else, it is just too high risk behavior to suit us, everything else is pretty much negotiable.

KarlnRenee · 09-20-2004, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by De and Ci

Are you sure this will be something he can control?

Yeah, he's got the control thing down to a science-it's truly amazing-and he not having anyone else swallow was his idea so he must be confident.

sandra. · 09-21-2004, 05:59 AM

anal and w/s

CB_n_Red · 09-21-2004, 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted by sandra.

anal and w/s

Same for us. Otherwise pretty well anything goes!

CB

xxoticangel · 09-21-2004, 10:25 AM

Ditto on anal and w/s. Hubby is the only guy I have ever had anally and noone else will ever touch me there.

**Alura** · 09-21-2004, 10:36 AM

Yes, we only make love with each other.

Mr. Alura

ALilOEverything · 09-21-2004, 10:36 AM

The after sex snuggling and caressing.

cumply21 · 09-21-2004, 10:39 AM

What are "toss each other's salad" and "w/s"? Sorry, just haven't heard those terms before.
Thanks

ALilOEverything · 09-21-2004, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by cumply21

What are "toss each other's salad" and "w/s"? Sorry, just haven't heard those terms before.

I'm clueless too

fun_pairTX · 09-21-2004, 10:58 AM

Tossed Salad refers to oral/anal contact, w/s is watersports, the ol' IP on you and UP on me. Neither fit our definition of sex, but to each their own.

**good times** · 09-21-2004, 02:24 PM

We won't share our hearts or get emotionally involved with others, other than that we are ready and willing.

Note - We don't do anal even with each other though.

GeorgiaCouple · 09-21-2004, 02:39 PM

About the only thing that is off limits for us at the moment..is I dont swallow..that is only for hubby..... everything else is good to go as far as we are concerned.... if the other lady is willing to swallow.... its fine with me..Im just kind of new to the whole swallowing part of oral and only feel comfortable with hubby at the moment..maybe after I have some more practice...that will change....LOL but we do anal, oral and intercourse with other couples....

hotblonde47 · 09-21-2004, 04:33 PM

I'm with most everyone else, anal is for hubby only, pretty much anything else goes.

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09-20-2004, 07:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
KarlnRenee Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 30 Location: Metro NY/DFW, TX Status: Female Half of Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:KarlnRenee	Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? Karl and I have just gotten into swinging a few months ago (only been with 3 couples so far) and got into a conversation last night about certain types of play that we have decided that will remain sacred only to us, and not when we're playing with others. We're wondering if other couples have similar agreements with each other as we do. For example-Karl and I will "toss each other's salad", have anal sex together, I will swallow during oral sex with him, and he won't be swallowed during oral sex by any other females. These are the activities that we came up with that we feel should just be between us. Anyone else or are we prudes?
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09-20-2004, 07:58 PM	#3 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? We don't participate in anal with anyone else, it is just too high risk behavior to suit us, everything else is pretty much negotiable.
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09-21-2004, 05:59 AM	#5 (permalink)
sandra. Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 1 Location: uk	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? anal and w/s

09-21-2004, 10:25 AM	#7 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 381 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxoticangel	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? Ditto on anal and w/s. Hubby is the only guy I have ever had anally and noone else will ever touch me there.
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09-21-2004, 10:36 AM	#8 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,120 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? Yes, we only make love with each other. Mr. Alura
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09-21-2004, 10:36 AM	#9 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,846 Location: Michigan Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:aliloeverything	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? The after sex snuggling and caressing.
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09-21-2004, 10:39 AM	#10 (permalink)
cumply21 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 37 Location: Colorado Springs, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:cumply21	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? What are "toss each other's salad" and "w/s"? Sorry, just haven't heard those terms before. Thanks
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09-21-2004, 10:58 AM	#12 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? Tossed Salad refers to oral/anal contact, w/s is watersports, the ol' IP on you and UP on me. Neither fit our definition of sex, but to each their own.
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09-21-2004, 02:24 PM	#13 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? We won't share our hearts or get emotionally involved with others, other than that we are ready and willing. Note - We don't do anal even with each other though.
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09-21-2004, 02:39 PM	#14 (permalink)
GeorgiaCouple Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 48 Location: Columbus Georgia Status: couple/S. Females/M. Females/ S. Males/M. Males Swing Lifestyle Name:cpl_n_ga2004	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? About the only thing that is off limits for us at the moment..is I dont swallow..that is only for hubby..... everything else is good to go as far as we are concerned.... if the other lady is willing to swallow.... its fine with me..Im just kind of new to the whole swallowing part of oral and only feel comfortable with hubby at the moment..maybe after I have some more practice...that will change....LOL but we do anal, oral and intercourse with other couples....

09-21-2004, 04:33 PM	#15 (permalink)
hotblonde47 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 82 Location: North Carolina Status: couple	Re: Is there anything off limits with others that you only do with your partner? I'm with most everyone else, anal is for hubby only, pretty much anything else goes.

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