At what point do you officially qualify as being In the Lifestyle?

[TnHappyCpl]

I have to agree with mostly state of mind.

Although we have had several experiences with others over the past seven or so years, occasionally visit our local club, have been to meet and greets and the convention in Vegas; we do not consider ourselves "in the lifestyle". Why not? Because we don't live the lifestyle day to day or week to week, etc. We don't think about it all the time, we don't spend time seaching for playmate's, etc, etc. We just kinda go with the flow. Maybe we are in denial, LOL.

Whatever we are, in or out, it works for us..
Mr. Happy

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by TnHappyCpl

I have to agree with mostly state of mind.

Although we have had several experiences with others over the past seven or so years, occasionally visit our local club, have been to meet and greets and the convention in Vegas; we do not consider ourselves "in the lifestyle". Why not? Because we don't live the lifestyle day to day or week to week, etc. We don't think about it all the time, we don't spend time seaching for playmate's, etc, etc. We just kinda go with the flow. Maybe we are in denial, LOL.

Whatever we are, in or out, it works for us..
Mr. Happy

I hear ya, Mr. Happy. We're the same way -- but I'll venture to say neither of us are in denial of what we think of as having a fun time.

And we don't like labels. To me, anyway, "swing" or "swinging" is a verb. "Do you swing?" "Why, yes we do, thankyouverymuch for asking." Not an adjective or noun.

[sexcupid]

Originally Posted by Mr. Truelove

But they were beaten by 5 hours.

Here:

Mr. Truelove

dang it *lol*


Maria

[Cloud of Love]

We had our first meeting last night....no pressure, no playtime, just dinner with an experienced couple that expressed interest in us. We got along great, and they want to meet again...we're giddy.

[prettylady]

Giddy is good.
Your friend,
Prettylady