Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition...

curiousinNC · 11-09-2006, 01:53 AM

Let's say hypothetically the world's top dictionaries needed the definition for a swinger/swinging. Who is the final authority on what definition is used on any word? What would your best submission be for swinger/swinging? Can't wait to see what this brings up!

J&L

curiousinNC · 11-09-2006, 09:28 AM

Come on guys and gals, getting the views, but no takers on defining ourselves here? Be original, tell us all what it means to you!

gatorvol64 · 11-09-2006, 11:44 PM

OK, dictionaries don't usually have long definitions so, I'll just try giving a short concise answer here. To us, swinging is just letting others into our sex life. How's that?

Vol

curiousinNC · 11-10-2006, 12:14 AM

Sounds good, so long as that is how you see it and works for you guys, that is what matters!

Spoomonkey · 11-10-2006, 12:36 AM

I really want to answer this... I do... But I am having a problem wondering just what you are asking for as it does seem rather self-explanatory based on the forum we are on. Swinging is what you make it - but it does have some "necessary" elements that make it what it is...

So - I am not sure exactly what the question is asking...

I also want to answer it because I seriously dig your av...

Spoomonkey

HappyPeople · 11-10-2006, 12:59 AM

How about "Couples that never stop dating"?

curiousinNC · 11-10-2006, 01:00 AM

OK, take Webster's Dictionary for example. Someone has been given the final authority on what the actual definition is going to be listed and that is the final say so to speak unless it is somehow officially changed. Naturally we all have our own opinions and variations, etc. But what would your generalized overall summary should you be writing the official definition. There is no right or wrong answer, it was a food for thought, change of topic type thread for curiousity.

Thanks for the compliment on the av, check out this site, it is the official Swinger Logo with merchandise available and other neat tid bits.

http://www.ifyouonlyknew.net/main.swf

J&L

xxoticangel · 11-10-2006, 08:08 AM

My definition
Swinger - Someone (male, female, or couple) that engages in no strings attached sex with another.

Thirty years ago "Swingers" were all single. If you were married you were a "Wife Swapper". I'm sure there are at least a few members here old enough to remember "I Dream of Jeannie". Roger Healey was often refered to as a "Swinger" because of his lifestyle; parties, different girl every night.

**BiloxiCouple** · 11-10-2006, 08:59 AM

Swinging - Recreational sex between consenting adults.

**good times** · 11-10-2006, 03:24 PM

Ok, I'll give it a shot.

Swinging - Recreational sex between consenting adults outside of their primary relationship.

You can tell I liked Biloxicouples definition but didn't think it went quite far enough as it seems possible to me to have consenting recreational sex with my spouse.

Spoomonkey · 11-10-2006, 03:40 PM

I am going to go with the married versions of BiloxiCouple's and Good Times' definition. It works for me and (surprisingly) doesn't include any mention of having to set yourself on fire...

I say we vote this in while we still can...

Spoomonkey

havefuninsun · 11-10-2006, 03:58 PM

well ... I like having recreational sex within my primary relationship too!

(Monkeys swinging from limb to limb -- sounds pretty darn recreational to me!)

"

Spoomonkey · 11-10-2006, 04:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by havefuninsun

(Monkeys swinging from limb to limb -- sounds pretty darn recreational to me!)

It can be hell on the arms...

And legs...

...

...and tail...

But I go where I have to go to get what I need to get

Spoomonkey

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11-09-2006, 01:53 AM	#1 (permalink)
curiousinNC Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 36 Location: NC Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncnewcpl4u	Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... Let's say hypothetically the world's top dictionaries needed the definition for a swinger/swinging. Who is the final authority on what definition is used on any word? What would your best submission be for swinger/swinging? Can't wait to see what this brings up! J&L

11-09-2006, 09:28 AM	#2 (permalink)
curiousinNC Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 36 Location: NC Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncnewcpl4u	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... Come on guys and gals, getting the views, but no takers on defining ourselves here? Be original, tell us all what it means to you!

11-09-2006, 11:44 PM	#3 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,426 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... OK, dictionaries don't usually have long definitions so, I'll just try giving a short concise answer here. To us, swinging is just letting others into our sex life. How's that? Vol
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11-10-2006, 12:14 AM	#4 (permalink)
curiousinNC Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 36 Location: NC Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncnewcpl4u	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... Sounds good, so long as that is how you see it and works for you guys, that is what matters!

11-10-2006, 12:36 AM	#5 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... I really want to answer this... I do... But I am having a problem wondering just what you are asking for as it does seem rather self-explanatory based on the forum we are on. Swinging is what you make it - but it does have some "necessary" elements that make it what it is... So - I am not sure exactly what the question is asking... I also want to answer it because I seriously dig your av... Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

11-10-2006, 12:59 AM	#6 (permalink)
HappyPeople Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 390 Location: Tampa	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... How about "Couples that never stop dating"?

11-10-2006, 01:00 AM	#7 (permalink)
curiousinNC Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 36 Location: NC Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncnewcpl4u	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... OK, take Webster's Dictionary for example. Someone has been given the final authority on what the actual definition is going to be listed and that is the final say so to speak unless it is somehow officially changed. Naturally we all have our own opinions and variations, etc. But what would your generalized overall summary should you be writing the official definition. There is no right or wrong answer, it was a food for thought, change of topic type thread for curiousity. Thanks for the compliment on the av, check out this site, it is the official Swinger Logo with merchandise available and other neat tid bits. http://www.ifyouonlyknew.net/main.swf J&L

11-10-2006, 08:08 AM	#8 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 381 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxoticangel	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... My definition Swinger - Someone (male, female, or couple) that engages in no strings attached sex with another. Thirty years ago "Swingers" were all single. If you were married you were a "Wife Swapper". I'm sure there are at least a few members here old enough to remember "I Dream of Jeannie". Roger Healey was often refered to as a "Swinger" because of his lifestyle; parties, different girl every night.
	__________________ Multiple orgasms are proof that God is a woman.

11-10-2006, 08:59 AM	#9 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... Swinging - Recreational sex between consenting adults.
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11-10-2006, 03:24 PM	#10 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... Ok, I'll give it a shot. Swinging - Recreational sex between consenting adults outside of their primary relationship. You can tell I liked Biloxicouples definition but didn't think it went quite far enough as it seems possible to me to have consenting recreational sex with my spouse.
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11-10-2006, 03:40 PM	#11 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... I am going to go with the married versions of BiloxiCouple's and Good Times' definition. It works for me and (surprisingly) doesn't include any mention of having to set yourself on fire... I say we vote this in while we still can... Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

11-10-2006, 03:58 PM	#12 (permalink)
havefuninsun insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:havefuninsun	Re: Mind Twister for Swinging/Swinger Definition... well ... I like having recreational sex within my primary relationship too! (Monkeys swinging from limb to limb -- sounds pretty darn recreational to me!) "

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