We found a single male for a 3some recently. it took awhile, found him on line, chatted, email and so forth for very few weeks. Then we met in a public place and ended back at his place. We had laid the ground rules that there would be no intercourse and he was a gentleman in all ways. It all went great for our first experience. He emailed shortly after and echoed the same feelings. then he went out of town for awhile then wrote us that he is moving out of town. it has been a few weeks since we have chatted on line and he showed up on line tonight. we talked about trying together one more time before he left town and started talking about some fantasies. the end of IM was this
the names have been changed to protect the guilty
US: well having you having intercourse w/o condom is not an option at this time as much as we would like it
Him : why?
US: disease, pregnancy
Him : ____, I have been very patient with you... I am as virgin and as safe as a guy that you will ever meet... if you have a women that is worried about pregancy that is her problem... STDs are all of our problems... please do not contact me again...
any thougths, i am shocked as we had plans to get together but i guess not now.