New in Bellingham

trn28 · 07-02-2009, 08:43 PM

Hi,

My husband and I are quite new to swinging, in fact we haven't even done anything yet- we've talked about trying it and have been researching it for a few years now and just in the past couple of weeks have decided to give it a go. I guess we are the subset who are interested because we settled down young and haven't had sex with other people before- I was a virgin and he had only one other girl before me. We've been together for over 13 years now and are quite stable and our sex life is still intersting after all this time....we just feel that playing with others might be intersting and educational too.

Our greatest fear I guess is that our bodies don't look perfect, I've had three kids and nursed them all....that does wonders for a figure. And both of us could stand to lose 20 pounds are so- however I think he's hot, and he thinks I'm georgous- so rather than wait around we're going to go ahead and see what happens.

We are planning our first foray on Aug 1st down in Seattle and an on-premise club. From what we have heard it is nice and a good place for a first timer. Even if all we do is each other- I imagine it will be quite titalating. On a second note we might be bringing a friend of mine too- her hubby has given the go-ahead for her to have fun while she' visiting us.

So that's us!

**SW_PA_Couple** · 07-02-2009, 08:51 PM

Very nice introduction. WELCOME to The Swingersboard. As long as you are "comfortable in your own skin", that's all it takes. Just look at me. I'm no prize. But my wife and I have great fun with this Lifestyle.

~Michael

2inSanDiego4u · 07-03-2009, 02:35 AM

You'll find that there are all types of people who swing. Some are in great shape and some are not. Like the OP said, if you're comfortable with yourself and have some self-confidence, you'll be just fine.

lascivo · 07-04-2009, 06:26 PM

I too want to compliment you on being happy with who you are. Life happens. Glad to see you two here.

Lascivo

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-09-2009, 11:42 AM

Don't worry, none of us have perfect bodies! The best we can ask for is to like ourselves

sweet_tna · 07-13-2009, 04:42 PM

Hi, and thanks for a great introduction. I think you'll find that as long as you have a good attitude and are comfortable with yourselves and each other, you'll do just fine.

=)

**LFM2** · 07-13-2009, 05:26 PM

to the Swingers Board!!
Loved your intro!! Have fun in Seattle!!

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07-02-2009, 08:43 PM	#1 (permalink)
trn28 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 14 Location: WA Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:trn2009	New in Bellingham Hi, My husband and I are quite new to swinging, in fact we haven't even done anything yet- we've talked about trying it and have been researching it for a few years now and just in the past couple of weeks have decided to give it a go. I guess we are the subset who are interested because we settled down young and haven't had sex with other people before- I was a virgin and he had only one other girl before me. We've been together for over 13 years now and are quite stable and our sex life is still intersting after all this time....we just feel that playing with others might be intersting and educational too. Our greatest fear I guess is that our bodies don't look perfect, I've had three kids and nursed them all....that does wonders for a figure. And both of us could stand to lose 20 pounds are so- however I think he's hot, and he thinks I'm georgous- so rather than wait around we're going to go ahead and see what happens. We are planning our first foray on Aug 1st down in Seattle and an on-premise club. From what we have heard it is nice and a good place for a first timer. Even if all we do is each other- I imagine it will be quite titalating. On a second note we might be bringing a friend of mine too- her hubby has given the go-ahead for her to have fun while she' visiting us. So that's us!

07-02-2009, 08:51 PM	#2 (permalink)
SW_PA_Couple Julie's Helper Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 2,286 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Status: Married Man: I post; she reads over my shoulder Swing Lifestyle Name:SW_PA_Couple Blog Entries: 15	Re: New in Bellingham Very nice introduction. WELCOME to The Swingersboard. As long as you are "comfortable in your own skin", that's all it takes. Just look at me. I'm no prize. But my wife and I have great fun with this Lifestyle. ~Michael

07-03-2009, 02:35 AM	#3 (permalink)
2inSanDiego4u ♥♥♥ Lovin' This! ♥♥♥ Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 726 Location: San Diego Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2inSanDiego4u Blog Entries: 2	Re: New in Bellingham You'll find that there are all types of people who swing. Some are in great shape and some are not. Like the OP said, if you're comfortable with yourself and have some self-confidence, you'll be just fine. __________________ "Doggie Style is Mandatory." -- from a Swing Lifestyle profile we came across!

07-04-2009, 06:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
lascivo Active Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 10 Location: Virginia Status: couple	Re: New in Bellingham I too want to compliment you on being happy with who you are. Life happens. Glad to see you two here. Lascivo

07-09-2009, 11:42 AM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 25,711 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 78	Re: New in Bellingham Don't worry, none of us have perfect bodies! The best we can ask for is to like ourselves __________________ Julie - your hostess The Swinger Manual - all the info from the Swingers Board in one convenient book

07-13-2009, 04:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,782 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: New in Bellingham Hi, and thanks for a great introduction. I think you'll find that as long as you have a good attitude and are comfortable with yourselves and each other, you'll do just fine. =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than heaven wondering what it's like.

07-13-2009, 05:26 PM	#7 (permalink)
LFM2 ~~Happy Valentines Day~~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,480 Location: State of Confusion Status: Couple Blog Entries: 11	Re: New in Bellingham to the Swingers Board!! Loved your intro!! Have fun in Seattle!! __________________ Dave & Holly

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