Brand New Here In Sc

scswingin · 07-02-2008, 09:55 PM

HI! me and my wife are brand new to this site, and to swingin in general.
Actually we have never even had a sexual experience like swingin/swapping/threesome, etc.
I think I am kind of leading the charge here, and my wife is coming along slowly. We definitely want to do something in a group setting, I dont think we could let each other run off with another partner. We definitely would do a 3some or even 4some (m&w).

Anyone have any tips on how to get her to come along on this subject and get as excited as I am?

I think she is a bet scared of being in front/around others.
we are both 25 and dont have kids yet, I just want to explore things before we get swamped with family life, etc.

Any welcoming tips, suggestions are welcomed.
And if you are in our area let me know that too! Maybe you can teach us!

**ncmd_couple** · 07-04-2008, 10:48 AM

SCSwingin,

Welcome to the board! The one piece of advice that you will get here most often, is that you move at the pace of the slowest half of the relationship. There are tons of advice and information here. Just show your wife this site and let her explore at her own pace. Good luck!

S

**rpu3** · 07-04-2008, 11:11 AM

Be sure to check out the Archives, which has a lot of good advice and information for couples in your situation/state of contemplation.

Feel free to ask questions too - there's a forum for couples just like you, Curious about Swinging.

Glad you found the Board and I hope you stick around.

gatorvol64 · 07-04-2008, 10:40 PM

Vol

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-08-2008, 04:13 PM

to the board! Make sure to show her this site as well. She may want to register her own name or just share the one you have and ask her own questions.

sweet_tna · 07-08-2008, 04:24 PM

Hi and

=)

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07-02-2008, 09:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
scswingin Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1 Location: SC Status: Married Couple	Brand New Here In Sc HI! me and my wife are brand new to this site, and to swingin in general. Actually we have never even had a sexual experience like swingin/swapping/threesome, etc. I think I am kind of leading the charge here, and my wife is coming along slowly. We definitely want to do something in a group setting, I dont think we could let each other run off with another partner. We definitely would do a 3some or even 4some (m&w). Anyone have any tips on how to get her to come along on this subject and get as excited as I am? I think she is a bet scared of being in front/around others. we are both 25 and dont have kids yet, I just want to explore things before we get swamped with family life, etc. Any welcoming tips, suggestions are welcomed. And if you are in our area let me know that too! Maybe you can teach us!

07-04-2008, 10:48 AM	#2 (permalink)
ncmd_couple Julie's Helper Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 947 Location: Maryland Status: Couple SLS Name:ncmd_couple	Re: Brand New Here In Sc SCSwingin, Welcome to the board! The one piece of advice that you will get here most often, is that you move at the pace of the slowest half of the relationship. There are tons of advice and information here. Just show your wife this site and let her explore at her own pace. Good luck! S __________________ Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!

07-04-2008, 11:11 AM	#3 (permalink)
rpu3 Doing it our way... Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,495 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female SLS Name:rpu3 Blog Entries: 2	Re: Brand New Here In Sc Be sure to check out the Archives, which has a lot of good advice and information for couples in your situation/state of contemplation. Feel free to ask questions too - there's a forum for couples just like you, Curious about Swinging. Glad you found the Board and I hope you stick around. __________________ I'll give up my bad habits as soon as equally satisfying good habits become available. A. Brilliant

07-04-2008, 10:40 PM	#4 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,342 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple & half of a quad Blog Entries: 11	Re: Brand New Here In Sc Vol __________________ He is the Gator and she is the Vol.

07-08-2008, 04:13 PM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,244 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Brand New Here In Sc to the board! Make sure to show her this site as well. She may want to register her own name or just share the one you have and ask her own questions. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

07-08-2008, 04:24 PM	#6 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,909 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Brand New Here In Sc Hi and =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

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