New guy who doesn't have much time.

[DeRick]

I'm new here and i basicly need advice on how to look for a "friend with benefits". I'm 40 years old, i live in Cozumel, Mexico with my mom, and it's kinda hard to meet young attractive women who don't speak the same language.
Through no choice of my own, i am a virgin....and I HATED EVERY MOMENT of it. My original plan was to find a good young attractive woman to be my wife. Unfortunatly, life's tragic circumstancees in which i won't get into has stopped all that. First of all, i have aspergers, which is gonna make things harder. and number 2 how the hell you go about asking a woman if she'll have sex with you and still be your friend, how's that work??
If only i could find an open minded attractive female here in Cozumel who would like me for that. I could go to a bar, and i do have money but i just don't have access to it...my mom does. So that's a problem there. Now, i'm a bit desperate to have to go to this level, but ...i just don't have much time.

[VegasLee]

Originally Posted by DeRick

Now, i'm a bit desperate to have to go to this level,

Sorry about the turns in your life but you are looking at the wrong level.

Swinging is not the low level of people that will fill your needs at all.

Swingers don't deal will with "desperate" people in any form.

If things are what you say, the money in the bar sounds like your way out. Best hit mom up for a loan.