Do I get circumcised for wife ?

[weatenan]

basically that is my question. we have been swinging for quit some time now and have had many different types of experiences. my wife prefers a man who is circumsized (and i am not) so normally our sex partners are of that nature. I know it should not matter and obviously she loves me either way she married me after all, i was just thinking if i should get it done to please my wife better.
i do know all about it and have researched the prossible risks involved i am just asking your input. thanks.

[slevin]

I sure as hell wouldn't have it done unless it was something that I also wanted to do, or something I had to do for medical reasons.

Is she asking you to do it? Now that you see her having sex with men who are circumsized are you feeling self conscious?

[sexcupid]

As you said...even though she may prefer one thing (or perhaps it's just that in this country there are so many more circumsized cocks to choose from)...but she married you (and your uncirc'd cock).

Coming from another female's point of view...I have only had 2 partners that were uncut. One guy had a much smaller cock than my SO at the time had, but I was entirely enamored of it b/c of the novelty of having an uncut partner. So sure, while most of the guys I've had sex with have been cut, I find it a pretty neat experience when I have one that isn't. (And with most men, if they are already hard...then I honestly can't tell if it's circ'd or not without playing with it or seeing it soft.

All other things considered, would you be considering the procedure if it wasn't a preference of your wife's?

[sweet_tna]

You shouldn't consider any kind procedure that isn't medically necessary unless it's something YOU really want. And it doesn't sound like your wife is even asking you to do this. Most likely, she just enjoys a little something different--which is the point of swinging, no?

=)

[JTcamp05]

Well my wife prefers Uncircumsized men...unfortunatly I am circumsized..lol

So we tend to search out for partners that are left intact.....


Check out all the reasources avaliable before considering this! Foreskin/Circumcision/Restoration Websites

[cplnuswing]

Ditto to what others have said. If it is something YOU want to do, understand any risks involved, and have really talked to each other about it, and after that you still think it's something you want, then I would consider it more. If any of those three weren't fully met, then I wouldn't give it another thought.

[Chicup]

I wanted to get here before the circumcision is mutilation people....

I failed....

But anyways I'm not doing that discussion again.

weatenan - We all do things maybe we wouldn't have done on our own for our spouse. The question is if doing this is important enough for you to want to do it for her.

While you will be told in life that you shouldn't do something like this FOR someone else, its not quite the right way to describe it.

What you should do is not do something FOR someone else unless pleasing them is more important than your own objections.

[ViSexual]

OK, my first thought was that a lot of wives get boob jobs for their husbands' pleasure.

But, like big boobs, an un-cut one is just something different.

And, isn't that what this lifestyle is all about? Exploring and experiencing something different every now and then?

Chances are that if you get 'cut', she'll start seeking out men who aren't.

Hey, my wife has big boobs and I find I'm attracted to 'other' women who are small.