Life Lessons from The Swingers Board

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-10-2009, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by RPU3

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Originally Posted by robnbarb

Dear god in heaven, there are more fish in the sea, just get away.

I am not trying to sound overbearring it is just if there is a situation that requires more than two paragaphs to talk out on a message board, well you just need to back away from it. This is just plain unhealthy, for all of you.

You know, for me this is great advice. Not only for swinging/alternative lifestyles, but for the rest of the crap in my life. Everytime I find myself in a jam that has me asking if it's worth it, I'm going to tell myself that if it takes more than 1 page of journal space, then I better think about if it's worth it.

This came from an old thread but I read it and thought, wow what a perfectly good idea.

So what other lessons have you learned on the Swingers Board that could be applied to vanilla life as well as swinging?

sweet_tna · 06-10-2009, 09:42 PM

Hmm . . . this could be the title of a new book: Everything I Needed to Know About Life, I Learned on Swingersboard.

1) No means NO.

2) Trust your instincts.

3) Share.

4) Play nicely with others.

5) Make sure you understand the rules, and follow them.

6) Have FUN!

(I'm sure there are more, but those are a good start)

=)

2inSanDiego4u · 06-10-2009, 10:22 PM

Learn how to deal with rejection (both ways). Don't take everything personally!

ENCRYPTEDTX · 06-12-2009, 10:44 AM

Do unto others is a big thing....

I have been at on premise clubs where guys with rough finger nails stark poking places and I stop them.

Ladies I not 100% sure if it feels good or not...I just role reverse it and imagine how it would feel to me.

Kyle

Babysteps · 06-12-2009, 03:00 PM

Geez, I've learned soooo much in the time that I have spent here. One thing that quickly comes to mind is some advice given to me by Intuition, in one of my early threads she told me, and this is a paraphrase, ' Tackle the difficult things first', I carry this advice to my everyday life.

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06-10-2009, 09:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Life Lessons from The Swingers Board Hmm . . . this could be the title of a new book: Everything I Needed to Know About Life, I Learned on Swingersboard. 1) No means NO. 2) Trust your instincts. 3) Share. 4) Play nicely with others. 5) Make sure you understand the rules, and follow them. 6) Have FUN! (I'm sure there are more, but those are a good start) =)
	__________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than heaven wondering what it's like.

06-10-2009, 10:22 PM	#3 (permalink)
2inSanDiego4u ♥♥♥ Lovin' This! ♥♥♥ Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 768 Location: San Diego Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2inSanDiego4u	Re: Life Lessons from The Swingers Board Learn how to deal with rejection (both ways). Don't take everything personally!
	__________________ "Doggie Style is Mandatory." -- from a Swing Lifestyle profile we came across!

06-12-2009, 10:44 AM	#4 (permalink)
ENCRYPTEDTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 112 Location: Virgina, NY too! Status: Single MALE Swing Lifestyle Name:encryptedtransmission	Re: Life Lessons from The Swingers Board Do unto others is a big thing.... I have been at on premise clubs where guys with rough finger nails stark poking places and I stop them. Ladies I not 100% sure if it feels good or not...I just role reverse it and imagine how it would feel to me. Kyle

06-12-2009, 03:00 PM	#5 (permalink)
Babysteps Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 84 Location: Canada Status: Female	Re: Life Lessons from The Swingers Board Geez, I've learned soooo much in the time that I have spent here. One thing that quickly comes to mind is some advice given to me by Intuition, in one of my early threads she told me, and this is a paraphrase, ' Tackle the difficult things first', I carry this advice to my everyday life.

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