i'm sorry but the way we feelis that you have only been together for 5 months, and have a failed marrige. it just seems you are setting yourselves up for another failed relationship. at 5 months you still are in the infantcy of the relationship. maybe you should both take your time and learn each other.
if you did do this i would be a couple and not single playing,it could be worse off later down the road..
just our input, but mind you , you are asking couples here who have been together for longer than you and swingers have the solid relationships as well...
all we say is good luck if you decide to go thru with it... we wouldn't