Best place to swing for the first time?

prettylady · 06-25-2006, 09:19 AM

I have heard that the best place to start swinging is away from home. If you don't like it there is no threat of meeting up with this person again. What do you think. Vacation, club, freinds, or just when the opportunity presents itself?
Thanks for your input.
Your friend,
Prettylady

EvilMJ · 06-25-2006, 01:21 PM

The best place is where you feel the most comfortable.

Personally I don't bring anyone home unless I know them very well. Otherwise I limit it to the clubs.

Pepper & Drew · 06-25-2006, 05:22 PM

We first swung on vacation while out of the country. It worked for us. Initially, we thought that would be better to let loose while we were away and we wouldn't have to see them at the grocery store if things didn't go as planned. As it turned out, we came home and then starting wondering how to find people at home to play with. Really, though, however you're most comfy is the way to go.

Pepper

WesternSwing · 06-25-2006, 08:23 PM

The first time we ever swung was out-of-town, we went to a casino in Wendover, NV for a night of partying, gambling, and sex.

However we just did that to make it a fun night, not for any reasons of worrying about seeing them again. In fact they are some of our best friends now.

I say anywhere you are comfortable. We usually end-up using the other couple's house or a hotel since we always have kids at home.

Mr. WS

discoandvyper · 06-28-2006, 01:37 PM

We started with old friends of ours who were swingers and we didn't know. Now that we've moved away from them and don't get to see them anymore we play with whatever looks good on the net or occasionally Disco will get an interest for a schoolmate/friend of hers.

Amanda69 · 06-28-2006, 04:57 PM

First time was at a club, I have never had people over to my home but have gone to other homes.

driveajeepnaked · 06-28-2006, 10:03 PM

We had our first real opportunity at Hedo II a few years ago... since we had not seriously talked about it at that time... and the resort offers 20 hr per day open bars, nudity, and open sex... it was probably not a good place to have a relationship altering conversation.

We politlely declined, had great sex with each other, and talked when we got home...

V

TheGentleman · 07-14-2006, 08:09 PM

I think the best place to start swinging is in your own mind ... It is important to be comfortable swinging rather than do it and have regrets... Take time and explore your attitude about sex... I assume most of us love sex, the pleasure of lust and having fun... Some people feel swinging is just sex...Some feel it is social and develops friendships... Some feel it makes their relationships stronger... Most important is for you, and me for that matter, to swing for our own reasons and becomes comfortable with it... The best place to start swinging is where and when you feel comfortable and have the urge to do it...

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Vacation?	14	14.74%
Club?	24	25.26%
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When and where oppotunity persents itself?	39	41.05%
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06-25-2006, 09:19 AM	#1 (permalink)
prettylady anything boys can do.... Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,750 Location: Utopia Status: Trouble maker Swing Lifestyle Name:playtoys69	Best place to swing for the first time? I have heard that the best place to start swinging is away from home. If you don't like it there is no threat of meeting up with this person again. What do you think. Vacation, club, freinds, or just when the opportunity presents itself? Thanks for your input. Your friend, Prettylady
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06-25-2006, 01:21 PM	#2 (permalink)
EvilMJ Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple	Re: Best place to start swinging? The best place is where you feel the most comfortable. Personally I don't bring anyone home unless I know them very well. Otherwise I limit it to the clubs.
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06-25-2006, 05:22 PM	#3 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Best place to start swinging? We first swung on vacation while out of the country. It worked for us. Initially, we thought that would be better to let loose while we were away and we wouldn't have to see them at the grocery store if things didn't go as planned. As it turned out, we came home and then starting wondering how to find people at home to play with. Really, though, however you're most comfy is the way to go. Pepper
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06-25-2006, 08:23 PM	#4 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Best place to start swinging? The first time we ever swung was out-of-town, we went to a casino in Wendover, NV for a night of partying, gambling, and sex. However we just did that to make it a fun night, not for any reasons of worrying about seeing them again. In fact they are some of our best friends now. I say anywhere you are comfortable. We usually end-up using the other couple's house or a hotel since we always have kids at home. Mr. WS
	__________________ "Sex is something you do, sexuality is something you are." ~ Anna Freud

06-28-2006, 01:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
discoandvyper Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 94 Location: Eastern Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:dynamicduoinohio	Re: Best place to start swinging? We started with old friends of ours who were swingers and we didn't know. Now that we've moved away from them and don't get to see them anymore we play with whatever looks good on the net or occasionally Disco will get an interest for a schoolmate/friend of hers.

06-28-2006, 04:57 PM	#6 (permalink)
Amanda69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 907 Location: Mississauga, ON Canada Status: couple	Re: Best place to start swinging? First time was at a club, I have never had people over to my home but have gone to other homes.
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06-28-2006, 10:03 PM	#7 (permalink)
driveajeepnaked SybianPartyRental Hostess Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 411 Location: Western NY Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:wnyhedocouple	Re: Best place to start swinging? We had our first real opportunity at Hedo II a few years ago... since we had not seriously talked about it at that time... and the resort offers 20 hr per day open bars, nudity, and open sex... it was probably not a good place to have a relationship altering conversation. We politlely declined, had great sex with each other, and talked when we got home... V

07-14-2006, 08:09 PM	#8 (permalink)
TheGentleman Registered Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Illinois Status: Single Male	Re: Best place to start swinging? I think the best place to start swinging is in your own mind ... It is important to be comfortable swinging rather than do it and have regrets... Take time and explore your attitude about sex... I assume most of us love sex, the pleasure of lust and having fun... Some people feel swinging is just sex...Some feel it is social and develops friendships... Some feel it makes their relationships stronger... Most important is for you, and me for that matter, to swing for our own reasons and becomes comfortable with it... The best place to start swinging is where and when you feel comfortable and have the urge to do it...

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