Single Male - First MFM. Any tips or advice?

[Vespertine]

Yay! Glad you had a fun time!


Did you find any good positions you care to share?

[jrt383]

Well as a matter of fact the one thing that really was cool i thought was as follows: She on her back me deep inside her legs up her hubby jo'd on her breasts which we then switched positions her taking me in her mouth and i rubbed his semen all over her chest and face..............I thought her head was gonna pop off.............lol
But as far as the position thing i'm a guy and as long as my "lil friend" is getting attention i don't really pay much attention who's where!!!!

T

[WesternSwing]

Glad it all went well! Who knows, they may make you a regular occasion.

Mr. WS

[blandomonium]

This is an excellent group of responses on a key subject for couples and especially us single "3rd" guys.

The keys for the very fortunate 3rd guy are or be:

care about people and yourself, a good listener, communicate, observer, respectful, honestly excited, yourself, as sensuous as possible, focus on her pleasure, follow his lead (instructions).....I think you get it.

But, even if you are all the things, you may just not "click" with the couple....that smell has got to be right! You personality and mind is involved somewhat too.

For the couple: Until you get naked and get it going, you really don't have the whole thing programmed....but that's part of the adventure and turn on, I guess. Communication before, during and after is key. Let it happen on your terms precisely. Feel free to control your Mr. 2 if he is getting off track.

blandomonium

[jrt383]

Yes i think the key to being the "sex toy" for the couple is that you must know your place.....that's all. Treat his wife and him the way you would want to be treated if the places were reversed..There were several times during our play that i looked to him just to make sure everything was ok....I mean it felt sorta like him and i were a team so to speak, our goal was her pleasure and we worked together to ensure that came to fruition! I may have gotten lucky on my first exp. but we all just clicked when we met and i think it just all boils down to that. Since him and I had similar backgrounds in work exp. it made for easy banter at first and that helped alot!

Hey I hope i'm not coming off like a know it all shit i'm just relaying my observations for others in the hope that someday, somewhere a bit of what i have said may click and enable another like myself to expand his world and life.
K i'll shut up now!!

T