Bringing up the icky thing

Spoomonkey · 11-12-2004, 09:41 PM

Here's the thing - we don't play during Mrs Spoomonkey's period. I am one of those sissy boys who just doesn't like it... Heavy... Light... Doesn't matter to me...

I have a computer...

I can take care of myself....

But when your playmates are asking to get together for play - how do you tell them no without lying? What do you say when nature makes play out of the question?

Spoomonkey

20ishCouple · 11-12-2004, 09:49 PM

Never been in that situation as of yet....so I don't guess I can comment on this subject.

Sorry, I'm no help Spoo

**two4youinswva** · 11-12-2004, 09:51 PM

We just tell them the truth. It hasn't been a big deal yet. The response we got from the female half of our most frequent playfriends was "thank god I'm fixed and don't have to go through that anymore!".

**TNT** · 11-12-2004, 10:01 PM

Spoo... I am so disappointed in you...you are a wimpy monkey

Just tell them wrong time of the month, but next weekend would be great.

Teresa

Spoomonkey · 11-12-2004, 10:04 PM

It is these twiggy little arms of mine...

But that is a good idea.

I just want to not make people feel weird, you know?

Okay - I am paranoid when it comes to some things... Funny how I am the blushiest person I know when it comes to some things - but show me a pole, and I'm dancing on it; show me a room full of fun - and I am the first one naked...

Weird, huh?

Spoomonkey

20ishCouple · 11-12-2004, 10:06 PM

Spoo....That is so funny you have me

Mr. 20ish and I think you are a strangely amusing lil monkey...but we like it.

LikeMinds321 · 11-12-2004, 10:10 PM

"Mrs Spoo is menstruating...we'll have to play next weekend."

Seriously, it's no big deal to talk "period" talk. I'm with TNT, I can't believe you're uncomfy with this subject Spoo.

LM

**TNT** · 11-12-2004, 10:11 PM

I guess it just doesn't bother me...there have been times when it was that time of the month but we have kept our play date anyways as it was the perfect opportunity for me to sit back, play in whatever way I was comfortable with and be the designated camera person for the night. Ted loves having a cheering section when he's at play

Teresa

Spoomonkey · 11-12-2004, 10:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I'm with TNT, I can't believe you're uncomfy with this subject Spoo.

LM

Be that as it may...

I am one of those guys who doesn't want to tell a single guy friend that his wife is menstrating...

It's just me...

But, I must repeat...

ICK...

I guess I am just one of those guys who can't talk about it without getting a really hot blush on... And I am usually in the place of making plans with single guys - so it happens...

Spoomonkey

**TNT** · 11-12-2004, 10:14 PM

You know...come to think of it...I make a damn good fluffer.

Teresa

LikeMinds321 · 11-12-2004, 10:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TNT

You know...come to think of it...I make a damn good fluffer.

Teresa

I need training in that area Teresa! Could you please start a thread on becoming a good fluffer?

LM

P.S. to Spoomonkey...it's menstruating not menstrating.

**TNT** · 11-12-2004, 10:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I need training in that area Teresa! Could you please start a thread on becoming a good fluffer?

LM

P.S. to Spoomonkey...it's menstruating not menstrating.

Will do LM...let me find my notes...wait, Ted said I could take new ones tonight while I was practicing my techniques on him so look for the thread tomorrow.

Teresa

biblonde · 11-12-2004, 10:31 PM

poor spoo....just tell them that your wife is "broken" this week. Most know what that means and you dont have to say that horrible word you are afraid of. We have never had a problem talking about that with others...just say broken or bad week. works for us since we wont play durning that week either

11-12-2004, 11:49 PM

We have run into this situation more than once.

We let them know we are interested but Mrs naughty got her monthly visitor a little earlier than expected.

People understand these things happen and we have never had anyone stop talking to us. As a matter of fact we have even had a couple who said that doesn't bother them if we still wanted to play.

PaPasion4BiLady · 11-13-2004, 12:06 AM

Hello Everyone...this is R....That is why they have those WONDERFUL Depo-Provera Shots...a woman NEVER has to worry about those uncomfortable moments...it's GREAT!!

I'm sure everyone can agree that single ladies are not the easiest to find....I sure do not want to worry about an unwanted visitor arriving

on or around an evening when are entertaining a Lady. Take care everyone & play safe....Bi from ROur GeoCiti Homepage

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11-12-2004, 09:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Bringing up the icky thing Here's the thing - we don't play during Mrs Spoomonkey's period. I am one of those sissy boys who just doesn't like it... Heavy... Light... Doesn't matter to me... I have a computer... I can take care of myself.... But when your playmates are asking to get together for play - how do you tell them no without lying? What do you say when nature makes play out of the question? Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

11-12-2004, 09:49 PM	#2 (permalink)
20ishCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 111 Location: Indiana Status: Engaged ~he 24/she 23~ Swing Lifestyle Name:20ishCouple	Re: Bringing up the icky thing Never been in that situation as of yet....so I don't guess I can comment on this subject. Sorry, I'm no help Spoo
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11-12-2004, 09:51 PM	#3 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,600 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads	Re: Bringing up the icky thing We just tell them the truth. It hasn't been a big deal yet. The response we got from the female half of our most frequent playfriends was "thank god I'm fixed and don't have to go through that anymore!".

11-12-2004, 10:01 PM	#4 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: Bringing up the icky thing Spoo... I am so disappointed in you...you are a wimpy monkey Just tell them wrong time of the month, but next weekend would be great. Teresa
	__________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

11-12-2004, 10:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Bringing up the icky thing It is these twiggy little arms of mine... But that is a good idea. I just want to not make people feel weird, you know? Okay - I am paranoid when it comes to some things... Funny how I am the blushiest person I know when it comes to some things - but show me a pole, and I'm dancing on it; show me a room full of fun - and I am the first one naked... Weird, huh? Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

11-12-2004, 10:06 PM	#6 (permalink)
20ishCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 111 Location: Indiana Status: Engaged ~he 24/she 23~ Swing Lifestyle Name:20ishCouple	Re: Bringing up the icky thing Spoo....That is so funny you have me Mr. 20ish and I think you are a strangely amusing lil monkey...but we like it.
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11-12-2004, 10:10 PM	#7 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: Bringing up the icky thing "Mrs Spoo is menstruating...we'll have to play next weekend." Seriously, it's no big deal to talk "period" talk. I'm with TNT, I can't believe you're uncomfy with this subject Spoo. LM

11-12-2004, 10:11 PM	#8 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: Bringing up the icky thing I guess it just doesn't bother me...there have been times when it was that time of the month but we have kept our play date anyways as it was the perfect opportunity for me to sit back, play in whatever way I was comfortable with and be the designated camera person for the night. Ted loves having a cheering section when he's at play Teresa
	__________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

11-12-2004, 10:14 PM	#10 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: Bringing up the icky thing You know...come to think of it...I make a damn good fluffer. Teresa
	__________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

11-12-2004, 10:31 PM	#13 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918	Re: Bringing up the icky thing poor spoo....just tell them that your wife is "broken" this week. Most know what that means and you dont have to say that horrible word you are afraid of. We have never had a problem talking about that with others...just say broken or bad week. works for us since we wont play durning that week either

11-12-2004, 11:49 PM	#14 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Guest Posts: n/a	mr here We have run into this situation more than once. We let them know we are interested but Mrs naughty got her monthly visitor a little earlier than expected. People understand these things happen and we have never had anyone stop talking to us. As a matter of fact we have even had a couple who said that doesn't bother them if we still wanted to play.
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11-13-2004, 12:06 AM	#15 (permalink)
PaPasion4BiLady Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 19 Location: PA Status: Attractive, Fit Cpl LQQing to meet another BiLady for Friendship & Funtimes	Re: Bringing up the icky thing Hello Everyone...this is R....That is why they have those WONDERFUL Depo-Provera Shots...a woman NEVER has to worry about those uncomfortable moments...it's GREAT!! I'm sure everyone can agree that single ladies are not the easiest to find....I sure do not want to worry about an unwanted visitor arriving on or around an evening when are entertaining a Lady. Take care everyone & play safe....Bi from ROur GeoCiti Homepage
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