What do the guys do in a MMF?

[Edison Carter]

Susan here: I personally have found mutual male friends of mine and my husbands to make wonderful lovers.

[rachan]

I usually leave my wife alone with the other man until they've started going at it. I join them when they've started fucking and I like to lie on the bed and have her suck me while her boyfriend does her doggie style. Most of the time we change positions and she lies down and I either stand or kneel on the bed and she sucks me while he fucks her. I love to cum all over her face and sometimes he cums on her face but usually pulls out and cums all over her tits or belly. We go bareback now because the three of us are comfortable with each other. We've tried dp a few times too and there's always contact between the males when this happens. We're straight but we've gotten used to the touching.

[fishdad]

Never had a mfm encounter but would love to give it a go. just sat back and watch the wife enjoy sex with another man and as soon as she would let me join in .HEY its all about her and what she wants ,as far as touching another man as long as ut dont end up in me am ok with it

[jaydee555]

On one occasian my wife was treated to twin penetration, with myself going anal, while her lover penetrating her vagina. It was something that the two of us discussed in a spur of the momment, and was acted upon in the heat of passion. It was awkward to position this feat, but at first I think her lover and I were self consicence as to the feeling of both being so close together, but the better half was enraptured and starting feeling the effects of an erotic situation. She started to gryrate as best as she could, and soon any feelings of weirdness fell by the way side. We were caught up in the pleasure of it all, especailly the effect that we were having on my wife. We both concentrated on her pleasure, and it was one of the best experiences we ever had. This is as close as I ever came to another man, as you could say we were only a thin skin apart. I never felt threated by this, and would probably do it again if the right person was her lover.

[19003]

If involved in a MFM with my wife, my focus is on her pleasure and not weather or not there is incidental contact. In fact, I would be far more interested in esculating her pleasure out of it than my own, that it's my reason for doing this in the first place. The spice that it adds are about her satisfaction and if she wanted to stear things in another direction I would just go with it without worrying about touching a male body part. If she asked me to hold his penis and guide it into her, so be it...what's the big deal if it's extending her pleasure.

Don't get me wrong, I would without a doubt get plenty of pleasure out of it in two ways: First, it's great sex. Second Watching her engoy the pleasure she's getting. I almost would prefer that our partner be better endowed than me with more staying power, just to watch her get off on something I might not be able to give her. Maybe I'm simply "that confident" that our swinging is about taking a part of "our" relationship to a higher level.

[CandPinSA]

Originally Posted by MrsBliss

One of my desires is to have MMF and my husband and I are talking about this a lotI would really like to read a scenario or something about MMF threesomes in which it becomes clear just how much the males would have to be touching eachother by accident.

Ok... is it just me? or am I confused. While I understand MMF does mean 2 Males and 1 Female, don't you really mean MFM?

I mean, doesn't MMF imply the 2 Males sexually involved with each other, with a female participating. While MFM means to Males sexually involved with a Female, but not necessarily WITH each other sexually. Or am I completely confused?

Mr. C

[MagicHands]

Great post MrBliss! Even greater and finely timed post MrsBliss! I envy your openess and admiration for each other! Kudo's to both of you!!
Have a great afternoon!
Magic

[MagicHands]

"and finely timed" sorry! Finger flub! This is probably much easier to understand!

[magnum]

Originally Posted by MrsBliss

One of my desires is to have MMF and my husband and I are talking about this a lot (also about the FMF but that doesn't pose a lot of questions).

Problems that we talked about are:
I would like to do it with a man I already know, my husband is in doubt about that and would rather do it with someone we only met for sex or sex/friendship.

I however think I would be more comfortable with someone I know and like.

My husband is a little bit scared about the fact that he is totally straight and does not want balls hanging in his face etc.

I would really like to read a scenario or something about MMF threesomes in which it becomes clear just how much the males would have to be touching eachother by accident.

Any thoughts on this subject?

Kiss!

I can relate to your husband, when I first got into swinging it is a little strange; the male closeness thing but you get use to it. No balls in my face.

There are plenty of fun positions in a MFM that your husband can enjoy.

Magnum

[clyde1035]

Originally Posted by CindyB

(sigh) i don't think i'll go there again. it worked for us. might not for you. we never, ever would have turned the sheets down for another man had it not been the man it was ... my bro-in-law. i guess ours is just a uniquely close relationship. my husband and his brother barely even shake hands. they love each other immensly in that "wave across the room" kind of way. thank God. too weird to imagine. but they very much enjoyed what we did ... it launched me into orbit on multiple nights ... 'nuff said.

Absolutely awesome cindy, your brother in law, that is way cool. My brother and I also service my wife.

[frankmckinley]

Ahhh geez. I'm recently divorced. And joining a couple or a wife and husband for MFM or MMF is an unrealized dream. I had to skip to the end of this thread, its doing nothing but making me super horny. As for MMF, I would not have any problem with incidental contact. But to me, the point of MFM is to double her pleasure. So if incidental contact makes it MMF ... well then so be it. Sighhhhh, maybe someday.

- Frank

[luv2buck]

Originally Posted by MrsBliss

I would really like to read a scenario or something about MMF threesomes in which it becomes clear just how much the males would have to be touching eachother by accident.

Any thoughts on this subject?

Kiss!

It depends on the activities you engage in and how distracted the guys are when they have "incidental contact"

Like if you have one of them do you doggy style while you give the other guy a BJ, everybody will have a great time and the guys won't have cause to be uncomfortable.

Besides once you get your two lucky guys focused on how fantastic it is to be boinking you, they won't give a damn about anything but pleasing you!

best regards,

buck

[magnum]

Originally Posted by luv2buck

It depends on the activities you engage in and how distracted the guys are when they have "incidental contact"

Like if you have one of them do you doggy style while you give the other guy a BJ, everybody will have a great time and the guys won't have cause to be uncomfortable.

Besides once you get your two lucky guys focused on how fantastic it is to be boinking you, they won't give a damn about anything but pleasing you!

best regards,

buck

I would have to agree...you just have to get us to the "closeness" too, it is always a little strange for me to get "to close" to the other guy. But if you ever do DP or vaginal DP, there is a very good chance for incidental contact.

Magnum

[Socialpsy]

I don’t foresee how the absence of contact would be inherently possible. One must ask why the act would occur in the first place if “squeamish” emotion was felt, or doubt was had. If such explorations are strictly for the enjoyment of one person then I would suggest the employment of other sexual devices rather than extra members. Nonetheless, if the resultant conclusion is the admittance of an additional individual, construct ground rules if masculinity is in target of being encroached upon.

[willyoats]

We have had about as many MFM and MMFM as just MF. At one of the first MFM encounters, she was getting it doggie style from the other guy. I was on my back perpendicular to them, and she was sucking me. It was wonderful right up to the point where she got so excited that she bit me hard enough to draw blood. I don’t remember much after I finished yelping and they stopped laughing, but I think we ended up just having regular missionary sex with her, one after the other.

Another time, we had a friend who sometimes stayed for the night. He would usually crawl into bed with us in the morning and start having sex with her from behind while I was still asleep. The gentle rocking would wake me up, which I always really liked. One time, shortly after they started, I got in position in front of her so that she could suck me, and damned if she didn’t bite me again. That’s the last time I let her suck me while she was getting fucked.

I both of those cases, there was no possibility of contact between the guys, but obviously there are other risks.