What do the guys do in a MMF?

[hjackson]

while its been quite some time since we did 3-somes
mmf was with me sitting back and just watching them go at it.
after about he starts 2 peter out then we just trade places
she is the one who does not get a break but she dont complainn that much

[TexasBlondie]

I reallize that this is an old post but, as a guy, I would feel kind of worried if my wife had her eyes on a specific "friend" that she wanted to MFM with. Mybe more there than meets the eye.

Hugs

[2much]

There seems to be a lot of talk about contact - I am very str8, I love women, and I love pleasing my gorgeous wife.
There is something though that gets me hot, and it is the sight of a woman orally pleasing two cocks at once, alternatly sucking them, opening wide enough to take them both in & yes, feeling and seeing the two cocks rub against each other with her tongue all over them.
Probably not most guys' cup of tea, but i find it erotic & sexy.

Does anyone have thoughts or comments?

[modrunner]

I would love to try a MMF and wouldn't be concerned with incidental contract. I'm with you 2much I believe I would find it very erotic to have my wife please two men at once.

[magnum]

Originally Posted by modrunner

I would love to try a MMF and wouldn't be concerned with incidental contract. I'm with you 2much I believe I would find it very erotic to have my wife please two men at once.

I think the correct abbreviation is "MFM" not MMF...Any how, it is fun any way you abbreviate it.

Cheers Magnum

[rachan]

We have a regular friend that we get together with for mmf threesomes. We've known him for more than a year and my wife loves the attention. I'm straight and so is our friend and we're all comfortable with each other. I usually leave them alone for a while and I'll join them. I love for her to give me a bj while she has intercourse with him. I usually finish before he does and she doesn't mind cum facials.

[evulkitty]

I'd have to say THE most exciting part for me in a MFM is to see my wife getting fucked by the other guy. It is all about HER and I enjoy seeing her have orgasm after orgasm. I have met guys who "want to be the ONLY one who gives their girl an orgasm", but I don't feel that way about it at all. As far as a woman's orgasm goes, I think its all about letting go and just enjoying yourself anyway. My wife says I am the first guy that ever brought her to orgasm, and I was not, by any means, her first fuck . . . but since then, I have watched her have orgasms with other men and other women. I think once that "barrier" had been broken and she realized what she liked, it was just much easier to make happen.

As for contact between the males, it doesn't bother me in the least. I am what can be best described as "moodily bi curious". I have had oral sex with another man both with just another guy and in the MFM situation, and I don't see anything wrong with it and even enjoy it, however on swinger sites and ads I almost always post my preference as "straight". If that is what the other participants want out of the situation, I am more than happy to keep it "straight" between the males, mainly because I've got to be pretty DAMNED comfortable before I'll go there with another guy, and there aren't many of those that happens with.

We have had a MMFM before and that was also a lot of fun. There was no sex between any of the males, but DAMN did she get the night of her life. Anal sex isn't something she has ever done before me, and its something we have worked up to slowly and carefully, and (at least for now) I am the only one allowed in her ass, but I've got to tell you, she gets her STRONGEST orgasms from anal sex, and when she is having an orgasm when I am in her ass, while her pussy is also being stretched by another cock . . . all I can say is OMFG for all of us!

I say, have MFM . . . .have them often! Getting a little weirded out because you touched balls with the other guy is nothing to get weirded out about, and quite frankly, barely noticable when your girls ass is milking your cock for all its worth!

(We like to take pictures too, when all argreeable, but lemme just tell ya the gymnastics involved to set the timer on the camera and get back into position in a MMFM situation! Lets just say its best done, pictures or not, with people you can laugh with!)

[KenSJ]

Well, only been in this situation once, with an ex. She asked if she could have both myself and this guy that she had met in bed.

Nothing went on between the males, oh we bumped arms when moving around and stuff, but nothing else.

You will see a lot. If him seeing an erect man up close is a problem, then you might want to be careful. If she's sucking the other while you're on top of her, it's kind of in your face. And I personally found that it can be quite a trun-on to watch him slide in and out of her.

[mfmyeahbaby]

our prefered mfm is with a close friend of ours. i have admit the first time was nerve wrecking, but it was great. for us respect for the friendship makes it more comfortable, the misses is able to relax and enjoy herself more because of no fears. we've other mfm's and this one is by far the best. she tottaly lets go and treats his cock like without the love. that makes for a hot situation. I mean if your gonna do it for her pleasure it might as well be something everybody can enjoy and because of the respect and friendship is there, believe me she really gets done. the best part is he never treats her as a piece ass, instead enjoys the fact that we use her pleasure with him toward us.

[magnum]

Originally Posted by mfmyeahbaby

our prefered mfm is with a close friend of ours. i have admit the first time was nerve wrecking, but it was great. for us respect for the friendship makes it more comfortable, the misses is able to relax and enjoy herself more because of no fears. we've other mfm's and this one is by far the best. she tottaly lets go and treats his cock like without the love. that makes for a hot situation. I mean if your gonna do it for her pleasure it might as well be something everybody can enjoy and because of the respect and friendship is there, believe me she really gets done. the best part is he never treats her as a piece ass, instead enjoys the fact that we use her pleasure with him toward us.

Your situation sounds a lot like mine, I am the single male in the "mfm". I play with friends and now that we are comfortable with each other it makes for fun play sessions.

Magnum

[sevenplus]

My dream is a double vaginal with my g-friend...never did it but whew it sure does do me to think of it!!!

[janaandjames]

We love MFM threesomes.
usually the mend end up taking turns with the actual sex ...
j

[MrkLin]

MFM is my wife's absolute favorite thing in the world, and she'd love to be the center of attention for a group of 5-7 men at once. While she has never seduced a friend, she has seduced a couple of men she's met through work, but not people you could call coworkers. One thing I was told when we first got into this was, "Don't make your friends swingers, make swingers your friends." We try to stick with that motto. It cuts down on issues, drama, or whatever you'd like to call it, outside the bedroom.

She lies back and just lets us go. She loves to feel a pair of lips on her nipple while another is pleasing her pussy, and can't wait to feel three mouths on her at once. She goes into orbit with four hands roaming all over her body.

When it comes to intercourse, she loves for the two men to trade her back and forth. While we don't use a timer or anything like that, basically one man takes her for a few minutes, then they trade places, and the other has a turn. The other man takes the hands off approach so she can focus on the one inside her at the time. Swapping back and forth like this never fails to send her over the top.

Sometimes I take pictures or videotape the encounter, other times I don't. Sometimes I stand back and watch for a while, and other times I'm right there in the middle of things. You can't really script these things, so you have to be open for spontaneity. She might decide a certain thing feels best to her and want you to focus on that area. Sometimes she wants a vaginal/anal DP, sometimes she doesn't. She doesn't like a vaginal only DP, as it's just too much for her, bordering on painful. While she doesn't mind giving oral to one man while the other is inside her, she finds herself concentrating on the man she's going down on and not enjoying the one inside her as much as she could. Basically, too much going on at once, except during foreplay, distracts her, so we try to keep it simple.

If you're worried about incidental contact with another male, don't even go down the MFM path. It's going to happen. It doesn't make you gay. It just means you've focused your attention on her and that's what's supposed to be happening. Don't put yourself into positions where you're looking up at his balls, and you won't have to - lol.

[eyesonus]

Mrs. E & me limit ourselves to MFM. This was always my fantasy and she is with me fully. We like "full MFM" i.e., everyone is in contact with her all the time, not taking turns. When he is busy in one place I just head to another. During play the action is constant, she is the meat in our manwich, which she loves. I don't mind the occasional MM contact, it's inevitable in such a close situation. I've not tried anything as intimate as a DP (but we get crazy thinking about it and have done it with toys): we have had both our cocks in her mouth at one time. I guess the head of mine was touching his, but it wasn't a problem for me or him. If the attitude is "if she is happy then this is a success" then the occasional rub or bump should barely be noticable.

[Bedmates]

Originally Posted by magnum

I think the correct abbreviation is "MFM" not MMF...Any how, it is fun any way you abbreviate it.

Cheers Magnum

You're exactly right. Some are confusing MMF with MFM.

The question is about MMF. In that case, there IS interraction between the men - the woman is not the center of attention, one of the men is.

In MMF, you cold have things like 1 licks her while 2 blows him. Or, 1 blows 2 while she blows 1. Or, the couple both suck and lick their new friend.

At any rate, don't confuse with MFM - that's our favorite!!