What do the guys do in a MMF?

[CindyB]

MrsBliss, it sounds to me like you have a wise husband who is thinking this through in advance. What a very good thing! We did the same and the result was fantastic. As long as you know what each other wants and does not want you will be fine. There is no way you will be able to relax and enjoy these stunningly incredible encounters if you are worried about your husband. You sound like a nice couple. Good luck! (too bad you live in the Netherlands!)

I prefer to call it MFM rather than MMF.

It keeps the Ms from touching.

[TNT]

Originally posted by MrsBliss
Problems that we talked about are:
I would like to do it with a man I already know, my husband is in doubt about that and would rather do it with someone we only met for sex or sex/friendship.

Bringing friends into a play session can be tricky. We have done it before with no problems whatsoever but it's not something that we would recommend doing. I would suggest finding a single man you could have a sex/friendship with, basically a "fuck buddy" for lack of a better term, someone you can be friends with but who understands that the relationship is basically about sex. As others have said, should things not go good, it's much easier to break all ties.

I would really like to read a scenario or something about MMF threesomes in which it becomes clear just how much the males would have to be touching eachother by accident.

Go to the link below and read the story...all the sex scenes are true and even though there is MM contact (DP), hopefully you will see it was for my enjoyment.

Teresa

Story

[MrsBliss]

Thanks for all your comments, they are really very usefull!

[2New2it]

We've been there with three different men and none of the men were bi, including me. It was never a problem because we made it clear beforehand that I had no problem with incidental contact and we insisted that be the case with the other men.

We tried double vaginal penetration with one of the guys and it didn't cause any discomfort for either of us...and she loved it!

Our MFM experiences were entered into with the agreement that she was to be the center of attention and that's the way they played out.

I also agree with avoiding daily friends or relatives. We found our playmates on the net, so we immediately knew we had common interests in sex and discretion. Before we invited anyone to join us, we got to know them through e-mail, telephone and meeting for dinner and drinks. If the guy you find wants to jump in bed without getting to know you socially, avoid them like the plague. If you don't have other common interests besides recreational sex, those recovery times will be deathly quiet and unrewarding.

[Amy and Mike]

This is Mike, the male half...
Amy and I have recently had a threesome with a guy that she had actually dated before we met (someone she hadn't seen in a few years who we ran into). It worked out fine, because the guy seemed to be very respectful as far as our relationship was concerned. Before it happened, he was genuinely interested in just hanging out with us and being friends. He had no idea what we actually planning ...lol However, he's not someone that is a close friend to either of us...so there was no real worry about what would happen to our friendship with him if things didnt go well.

There was no issue with him and i having contact. Im sure we did brush up against one another, but I honestly don't remember. In our threesome, there was no intercourse, only oral sex. During most of the foreplay, we were lying in bed with Amy in the middle. She took turns making out with both of us while the other caressed her body. Then, while he was busy with Amy down below, I was sucking her breasts and vice-versa. She also performed oral sex on each of us while the other was touching her in some way.

The whole experience was very exciting, and the other guy was of course a big part of that. That doesnt mean Im attracted to men, or that I'd ever want to deliberately have sexual contact with a guy, but if his balls or any other part of his body had touched me or gotten close to my face, I dont think it would have bothered me at all.

When we first asked him if he was interested, i said something like "she wants to have sex with both of us." We were careful not to word it in a way that he might think there was some bisexual stuff involved.

[Vjklander]

Actually, we don't have any problem with friends and actually prefer them. These are people whose company we already enjoy for one thing. It is easier for us to get a read on them since we already know them. And they are less likely to do anything that would potentially harm us. Most of our contacts end up being friends if not starting that way. Generally, our playmates spend the night, and its a given that if one of us wakes up for any reason, soon the others will be awake too. On the MFM side, incidental contact is no big deal. On the FMF side, incidental contact is a big plus. By the time we get to sloppy 7ths or 8ths, sperm contamination isn't such a big deal.

[MrsBliss]

The guy my husband and I talked about is not a close friend of us. We know him for a couple of years, went skiing with him 3 times (with a group) and we see him maybe 3 times a year. Lately we have been calling a little bit more but I would not call him a close friend.

I like him however and I know I would feel comfortable around him. That has to do with the fact that I know how important hygiene is for him and that it seems a little bit safer regarding STD's because we know him (we still will be using condoms). I also know he is a sweet guy and I think that for my first MFM (thanks Mr Naughty) I would appreciate a guy which will also be nice, sweet and slow instead of only horny.

[Dee_Lee]

Mr.Bliss

I'm pretty new too, at least out and actively(whatever that means). But have been in MMF situations before, as far as the balls in the face while eating out Mrs.Bliss that is totally avoidable.
Just work on her breast, she'll love you for it or use a toy/hands while he's in her, I KNOW she'll love that.

By the way I always keep friends away from my girl to close to home.... Why don't you try going to a local club and find a friend first then after a few dinners invite him home. That's what we did, it worked for us.

Have fun!

-- Dave --

[Rob]

I enter into MFM situations in order to please the woman. That's my sole intent as a single man. I want her to have all the attention and please she can. Im str8, but when I enter into an MFM I accept the fact that there could be certain situations that come up. Remember, it's all about the F!

[tisha]

My Husband is straight, but has no problem with the idea of accidently getting touched, or brushed... I think he should just have a few drinks before hand, and enjoy himself
Mrs. K

[Brad_Lisa]

We have had as many MFM as we have had MMFF.

what are us men doing in a MFM - a lot of high fives, that's what.

seriously though.
I am straight as an arrow. not phobic though but would feel weird with a bi-guy naked in the same room as me.
all our experiences have been with friends with no problems at all.

One day I had some buddies over for a poker night. the wife walked by the table and got a bit fluttered (I can tell these things) she wispered in my ear. Ya know, there is only one guy at this table I havent fucked. I almost lost my beer. It stuck me as sooo funny.

back to the question.
lots of oral, lot's of caressing and for me lots of recovering

Brad

[Bedmates]

The only thing we've done so far was a MMF. Rather, MFM. He and I stayed at either end and switched periodically. The only time it was a little awkward was when she was on her back for him and I was on my knees by her head so she could suck me. Well, he started to lean forward over her and kept getting lower and lower. I got a little uncomfortable, so I just backed off and watched her get a really good screwing.

It was awesome for her, and really exciting for me. We're looking forward to doing that again!!

[jessiecm]

i agre with spoomonkey totally, my wife and i have been in a mfm for two years and it is still awsome when we can all hook up, we both are here to satisfy the f, she sure does a great job on us, have a great time, by the way we have known him for 30yrs

[magnum]

Originally Posted by Bedmates

The only thing we've done so far was a MMF. Rather, MFM. He and I stayed at either end and switched periodically. The only time it was a little awkward was when she was on her back for him and I was on my knees by her head so she could suck me. Well, he started to lean forward over her and kept getting lower and lower. I got a little uncomfortable, so I just backed off and watched her get a really good screwing.

It was awesome for her, and really exciting for me. We're looking forward to doing that again!!

We have a great time with MFM!!!

We both work on her from both ends, she is either doggie style or on her back with one of us at her head so she can suck cock. We have also done DP which is also a lot of fun.

Magnum