mfm joys

[rachan]

I love the attention of having two men and I love it when the three of us can sleep together but I don't get much sleep.

R

[Cowgirl]

MFM was my main reason for giving swinging a try, as MFM obviously requires an extra guy!! I am totally in love with my husband and he is a wonderful lover. We decided to try swinging to add a little spice to our life. We are new to Swinging and have only swung a few times. We haven't "hooked up" with a "single male" yet. It seemed easier to start out with couples. That said, having two men all to myself, both of them happily pleasing me, is so delicious !! When we first got into the lifestyle, I assumed (wrongly of course) that the single men were only out for the sex. It is great to hear that some of you want to feel a connection, be friends, etc. It would be hard for me to enjoy being with someone that I didn't feel a connection for. By the way, JacobSky, I love your pic. I happen to like "Cowboys"!

[younger1]

Originally Posted by JacobSky

Being a single male that has been in mfm threesomes with a couple, maybe I can share one more perspective.

First off, having sex with a man's wife while he watches or joins in with pleasuring her is very exciting. Yes, the purely physical side of it is a major part of the satisfaction, but not all of it for me. I get much of my satisfaction in a mfm threesome for playing an important role in a woman's fantasy. You see, I have always gotten really turned on by women's fantasies and the stories of their fulfillment. I've noticed in many (but not all) swingers ads that they are looking to have similiar fantasies fulfilled. The well endowed single male, the elusive bi female, the younger male, the orgie, the gang bang, and the friendly party couple are the most common fantasy roles that I've seen over many years of reading. The only one that I fit in at this time is the younger male role. I don't know what I'll do once I'm no longer in my twenties, but I hope to be married and be the husband getting to watch by then. Actually, my biggest fantasies involve me watching a woman that I love have sex with a well endowed male or with another woman. So now, intead I enjoy fitting into the mfm experiences. I will admit, I have some new hot erotic ideas that I've yet to fulfill in mfm threesomes with me being the single guy. At first, it was a fantasy just to be in a threesome, now I want to try various positions, places, ideas, etc....

Just as an aside, since I've mentioned swingers seeking fantasy fulfillment, I've noticed that newer couples seek fantasy fulfillment more than couples that have been swinging for a longer period of time. Experienced couples are more likely to seek singles or couples that they can be friends with outside of the bedroom as well. It makes sense that newer couples seek ideal fantasy lovers at the begginings. I think that the experienced couples still keep an eye out for rare experiences, but experienced couples usually look more at the person "as a whole person" than newer couples.

So, there's more to enjoying a mfm, even for the single male, than just having sex with a wife. At least in my case there is more to it.

Oh, about the "stunt dick" title. I wouldn't get upset over being referred to as that, but I'd hope to mean more to the couple than that. I'd like to be seen as a friend.

JacobSky, I would still like to sit close and watch you doing my wife. She always wants to hear about anything you write. She says that you sound so down to earth and your kind make good lovers.
Younger1

[spectraschain]

We haven't "hooked up" with a "single male" yet. It seemed easier to start out with couples.

The opposite is true for us...as much as we enjoy the dynamics of couple's play, we've found MFM much easier.
Two guys, one focus, it doesn't get any easier than that. Everyone is on the same page going in.
We tend to cater to the young guys in MFM. They always seem to be more grounded that their older counter-parts...
In that, they've no time for drama and such, hell, they've got classes.
Not to say some great friendships don't blossom, I think she's adopted a couple of them...LOL.

[spectraschain]

I think she's adopted a couple of them...LOL.

I believe, Mr.JacobSky, you would be next on her list of adoptees...

[luv2buck]

Originally Posted by JacobSky

I don't know what I'll do once I'm no longer in my twenties,

Having once been a young man in my twenties,
I'm extremely well qualified on this subject.
Please follow these instructions precisely.


1) Do NOT get any older! Stop right now!


You have to trust me on this one. - you do not
wanna become an old fart. Your prostate gets bigger
and harder and you're running to the bathroom every 15 minutes.

The worst part is getting up full head of steam takes alot more work. When I was in my twenties, I got hard just thinking about onya. I could not go soft unless I smacked that puppy with a hunk of rebar.

In your fifties, your partner may need to give you a little help to turn your crank over manually. r


2) Money - a dangerous commodity


You sound like a young professional. Good
job I bet :ppl You are liable to join the "more
money than brains " club. Very dangerous.
So to protect yourself, send me all your money.
I'm only doing this for your own good.

Besides, young chicks your age dig guys
for their macho good looks, Women don't
care if you're poor so as you can do it three
or four times in one nite..


3) Younger women rock!


You young dudes do not deserve all those
beautiful 20 something women. They should
be worshipped like goddesses.

So I want you to put those beautiful girlfriends
on planes and let me know when they'll arrive.
I promise I will cherish them and take good
care of them. I will fuck them regularly

As Groucho Marx, the great 20th century philosopher once said:

You are only as old as the women you feel!!


best regards,

buck

[aaaflirt]

Buck ... your an arsehole and I think I love you.

[josephanthony69]

For two cents worth..it is so wonderful to see a woman being satisfied over and over by 2 lovers..the sensuousness of watching her cum multiple times..and to aid in her ecstasy..dayum if it doesn't keep it hard longer..
And yes..fulfilling her fantasy is what it is about..must be getting old here

Originally Posted by mfmyeahbaby

I'm curious as to what everybody out there truely thinks about their mfm. I can say for us that has been one of the best sexual experiences we've ever had. We've been fortunate to find a trusted and friendly guy to joy in. She has opened up so much and everytime we do it, we just seem to grow more. I know that the other guy is totally respectful of my wife and would never do anything to hurt or disapoint her. Thats why for us this sexual relationship has taken off and the sky is the limit. With respect like that for your situation no matter what it is, it's hard not to jump in and totally enjoy. Thats why for us the mfm is our choice. I would like to know what it is about the mfm that keeps you coming back for more. For the ladies: is it possible for you to completely enjoy and want to enjoy the sex you get with your stunt dick. For the fella: is it possible for you to completely enjoy the visual of another man completely turned on by you woman and totally fucking her and see her love every inch and in turn she totally fucks him dry. I think most if not all who indulge in mfm play would probaly be totally turned by whatever is happening.

[cubnamy1995]

OMG, I wish I had my shit together that well when I was in my twenties! The saying goes "If I only knew then what I know now." So, I have decided to go back and have sex with all the women I could have in my twenties. And for good measure, I'm going to have sex with all women who are in their twenties, and women were also, at some point in the past, age 20. I digress.

My wife and I are the exact opposite of what someone standing on the outside would consider "conventional wisdom" for swingers. Many would think that swingers get into it so the man can have sex with other women, and vice-versa.

I prefer MFMs because I really enjoy watching my wife enjoying herself. Sex with her feels good, but also looks good, and if I'm the one in there, I can't see all the angles. Nothing hotter in this world to me than looks at me with those bedroom eyes while she has a dick in her mouth that belongs to someone else.

She, on the other hand, prefers FMFs because she really likes pussy. Hard to come up with a good argument for that. That is why other couples are win-win for us. We all get what we like, and a dude is much more likely to let you take a mulligan on the golf course if he knows your wife will probably blow him later.

The single guys out there who understand that they play a role, and are happy to do it can really go far. I have no problems with single guys either for my wife to sport-fuck, or develop a friendship with, so long as he understands the respect principle, and keeps it above board.

My wife and I have an arrangement. SHe can have a steady boyfriend if he pays on the bills, and I can have a steady girlfriend if she helps clean the house. Alas, we are broke and the house is a mess...Oh well. Maybe someday

[luv2buck]

Originally Posted by aaaflirt

Buck ... your an arsehole and I think I love you.

Wow, it's so nice to be appreciated for being such an "arsehole". I enjoy the opportunity to counteract our natural tendency to intellectualize our indecent, lascivious, lecherous, lewd, libidinous, licentious, lustful, obscene, prurient and perverted sexual behavior.

I once asked Richard Feynman about his reason for going to Brazil to teach. His answer? "Have you EVER seen the women in Brazil?" He didn't try to rationalize the reason he hung out in strip clubs, either. I admired his intellectal honesty.. and try very hard to follow his example...

BTW - Are you one of those "naturally cheeky" folks from the land of Oz? That might explain your reaction to my posts.

Sometimes I think I must of been born in the wrong hemisphere. I go drinking with some Aussies, and somehow, we always seem to end up in some kind of brawl. I can't remember the last time I had so much damn fun with my clothes on. And I swear, the ladies from Oz have got to be the naughtiest women on the whole damn planet. Sometimes they can even make this shameless ol' pirate blush.... Ya gotta love 'em!

best regards,

buck futt

[curiousagain]

I'm kind of the opinion that the "extra" male in a MFM is the "stunt dick" irregardless if he is single or part of a couple. What's wrong with that? If you swing much then sometimes you swing with people who you have a friendship with and sometimes it's just a "drive by or one night stand" situation. But you're still the extra, the one not part of the couple. I much prefer stunt dick to dildo with legs, which is more dehumanizing to me. But, we all have our own preferences,nothing wrong with any of them.