Making 3-somes from 4-somes

havefuninsun · 10-04-2006, 01:46 PM

I'm full of questions this week.

A few month's ago, a couple we met and played with once emailed with an idea ... her husband never has experienced a true three-some, and she would love to give that to him. Her question to me was, did we think we would be interested in me being in the mix? She would be happy to recerpricate with Mr. Fun and me. I thought it an interesting question indeed, and because of the "summer from hell," I forgot about it until last night. We were talking about fun things

and I told Mr. Fun about the email. He said, VERY interesting question. If you were with a couple that you've played with, developed a trusting relationship with ... what a novel idea. And it could even go the other way ... if the woman (or women) were interested in a MFM, that might be fun, too.

I've read a lot and honestly only considered play with four (unless we found the unicorn), but this idea was truly an interesting one to consider ...

We're still talking about it, but I was wondering if anyone had played like this before, thought about playing like this, or any other thoughts. I know one of the biggest turnon's most couples get is watching their partner pleasured, so this would take that aspect out of the equation. But on the other hand, three people may be easier to manage than four ....

Frankly, I think it sounds intriguing and almost ingenous ... (of course, the person who brought it up is a pretty smart cookie, I must say...)

Dryon · 10-04-2006, 01:49 PM

personally dont see any problem with it but we're not the hardcore only play together types we play together or apart dont matter to us

couplefromma · 10-04-2006, 02:24 PM

We have done just what you are talking about. Once while installing air conditioning at the house of a couple we used to play with, we fell into a MFM threesome. Of course them Mrs. Couple wanted hers..

We mixed it up a couple of time with either MFM or FMF threesomes with this couple mainly due to the trust we had built over time. We still all met and played together but we believe with trust comes even more fun.

MrsVan · 10-04-2006, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by havefuninsun

We're still talking about it, but I was wondering if anyone had played like this before, thought about playing like this, or any other thoughts. I know one of the biggest turnon's most couples get is watching their partner pleasured, so this would take that aspect out of the equation. But on the other hand, three people may be easier to manage than four ....

Frankly, I think it sounds intriguing and almost ingenous ... (of course, the person who brought it up is a pretty smart cookie, I must say...)

Havefuninsun,

Most definetly! MrVan and I met a couple who we did this often. My first MFM was with the other couples husband. They both came over and the wife took pics while me and the guys had fun. We then did the same for the wife of the other couple and we went to their house and while MrVan and the couple played and gave her a MFM, I took pics. Let me tell you, by just watching MrVan and the other couple was an extreme turn on for me. So much that I was soooo wet and soooo horney by the time they were done. facelick

If all of you are comfortable with it and in agreement, I would say go for it.

Just make sure that the one who is not going to play is okay with it all.

I was just bummed that I was not able to do the same for MrVan in the end as the couple has been in the lifestyle for a long time and before I could plan anything with them to have a 3 some for MrVan, they decided to take a break from the lifestyle for a while. We still stay in contact with them and have become great friends.

But there was no regrets and we all had a really great time. And for me it was disappointing enough to look for the right single to participate, and since the other couple suggested it and MrVan and I talked we figured what better way to have a 3some facelick

MrsVan

ohcpl43952 · 10-04-2006, 03:02 PM

We've done that a time or two. It's a great idea if all are OK with it.

northindycpl · 10-04-2006, 03:19 PM

We have been in this situation before and all worked out fine. It was a good experience. I also think it is fairly common.

xxoticangel · 10-04-2006, 04:17 PM

We've done this several times MFM and FFM. One wife even "gave" me her husband for the night as a birthday present. Even playing with a couple often turns into a 3-some when one partner needs a break but everyone else keeps going.

meandher2go · 10-05-2006, 07:45 PM

quite often ours have FMF's and MFM's in the middle of our 4 some time. its always fun.

Chicup · 10-05-2006, 08:26 PM

We have done this many times but only with a VERY trusted couple.

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-06-2006, 01:41 PM

This has come up on the board many times as the best answer to making a FMF threesome happen.

WesternSwing · 10-07-2006, 12:48 AM

We don't have a problem with it at all. In fact the offer stands with several couples we know that if they want a FMF threesome Mrs. WS is available solo and if they want a MFM threesome I am. Mom always said to share.

Mr. WS

ViSexual · 10-07-2006, 04:08 AM

Anybody thought of the advantages when you both have children?

The partner, who's excluded, could babysit the kids.

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10-04-2006, 01:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
havefuninsun insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:havefuninsun	Making 3-somes from 4-somes I'm full of questions this week. A few month's ago, a couple we met and played with once emailed with an idea ... her husband never has experienced a true three-some, and she would love to give that to him. Her question to me was, did we think we would be interested in me being in the mix? She would be happy to recerpricate with Mr. Fun and me. I thought it an interesting question indeed, and because of the "summer from hell," I forgot about it until last night. We were talking about fun things and I told Mr. Fun about the email. He said, VERY interesting question. If you were with a couple that you've played with, developed a trusting relationship with ... what a novel idea. And it could even go the other way ... if the woman (or women) were interested in a MFM, that might be fun, too. I've read a lot and honestly only considered play with four (unless we found the unicorn), but this idea was truly an interesting one to consider ... We're still talking about it, but I was wondering if anyone had played like this before, thought about playing like this, or any other thoughts. I know one of the biggest turnon's most couples get is watching their partner pleasured, so this would take that aspect out of the equation. But on the other hand, three people may be easier to manage than four .... Frankly, I think it sounds intriguing and almost ingenous ... (of course, the person who brought it up is a pretty smart cookie, I must say...)

10-04-2006, 01:49 PM	#2 (permalink)
Dryon Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 28 Location: Slater,Mo. Status: Married Male	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes personally dont see any problem with it but we're not the hardcore only play together types we play together or apart dont matter to us __________________ Sanity merely gives us walls to bounce off of while the insane run free forever.

10-04-2006, 02:24 PM	#3 (permalink)
couplefromma Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 61 Location: Franklin, MA	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes We have done just what you are talking about. Once while installing air conditioning at the house of a couple we used to play with, we fell into a MFM threesome. Of course them Mrs. Couple wanted hers.. We mixed it up a couple of time with either MFM or FMF threesomes with this couple mainly due to the trust we had built over time. We still all met and played together but we believe with trust comes even more fun.

10-04-2006, 03:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
ohcpl43952 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 65 Location: Ohio Valley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ohcpl43952	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes We've done that a time or two. It's a great idea if all are OK with it.

10-04-2006, 03:19 PM	#6 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,424 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM Swing Lifestyle Name:northindycpl	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes We have been in this situation before and all worked out fine. It was a good experience. I also think it is fairly common. __________________ Mrs. Indy

10-04-2006, 04:17 PM	#7 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 367 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxoticangel	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes We've done this several times MFM and FFM. One wife even "gave" me her husband for the night as a birthday present. Even playing with a couple often turns into a 3-some when one partner needs a break but everyone else keeps going. __________________ Multiple orgasms are proof that God is a woman.

10-05-2006, 07:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
meandher2go Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 307 Location: mass Status: Couple	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes quite often ours have FMF's and MFM's in the middle of our 4 some time. its always fun. __________________ .

10-05-2006, 08:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,887 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired Blog Entries: 3	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes We have done this many times but only with a VERY trusted couple.

10-06-2006, 01:41 PM	#10 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 24,502 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 75	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes This has come up on the board many times as the best answer to making a FMF threesome happen.

10-07-2006, 12:48 AM	#11 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,913 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes We don't have a problem with it at all. In fact the offer stands with several couples we know that if they want a FMF threesome Mrs. WS is available solo and if they want a MFM threesome I am. Mom always said to share. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

10-07-2006, 04:08 AM	#12 (permalink)
ViSexual Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 217 Location: Florida Status: M. Male	Re: Making 3-somes from 4-somes Anybody thought of the advantages when you both have children? The partner, who's excluded, could babysit the kids.

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