The popularity of MFM among guys

wanderswing · 10-03-2006, 07:36 PM

After visiting the forums, and judging by the huge numbers of MFM scenes in porn, it definately seems that lots of guys enjoy or even prefer MFM as much or sometimes even more than FMF. I've also heard of polls saying that 40-50% of guys fantasize about sharing their partner. I just wanted to hear peoples thoughts on it.

Taylor74 · 10-03-2006, 07:45 PM

I believe the turn-on is seeing one women being devoured by two men. She's completely out of control and at the mercy of two males. That's the turn on. At least for me it is...

Spoomonkey · 10-03-2006, 07:45 PM

MFM really is a lot of fun. I am not in the least bit bi, but I am very visual. Watching Mrs Spoo is incredible - and when the playmate is good, watching her in ecstasy is mind-blowing.

Besides that - I really like to please my wife. Being the center of attention is a fantasy for a lot of women - and the pleasure can be pretty much non-stop; from physical (more hands and body parts) to mental (the power of being able to handle/please two men).

She seems to feel the same about me though - as MFF (and even, lately, the MFFF) happen quite a bit for us, too

One of the great pleasures of swinging is giving - and we just happen to be a very generous couple

Spoomonkey

PS - Our preference, though, if definitely couples.

SuAndBud · 10-03-2006, 07:47 PM

We haven't experienced FMF (yet). But Bud is not bothered in the slightest as he is more concerned about Su not being left out (even for a moment) of the fun, so is happier when Su has plenty to occupy herself with. Su is bi curious but it's not the be all and end all to her as she loves to see and feel the cock/cocks that, if she could have just one wish, she would be on the other end of for a day.

It would be nice for both of us to share another couple one day.

SuAndBud · 10-03-2006, 07:48 PM

Taylor74.

Have to disagree. Su is so in control.

VanHlebar · 10-03-2006, 08:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

She seems to feel the same about me though - as MFF (and even, lately, the MFFF) happen quite a bit for us, too

Bragger!!!!!

For me, I love to please woman and I love to see my wife pleased. Watching MrsVan be pleased for hours is extremely exciting. As Spoo said...I am not the least bit bi, but pleasing a lady for hours is way more fun to me than being pleased. I just seriously enjoy worshipping the female body for as long as the lady will let me. With another man's help, we can go for as long as possible. facelick

-Van

gatorvol64 · 10-03-2006, 08:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

For me, I love to please woman and I love to see my wife pleased. Watching MrsVan be pleased for hours is extremely exciting. As Spoo said...I am not the least bit bi, but pleasing a lady for hours is way more fun to me than being pleased. I just seriously enjoy worshipping the female body for as long as the lady will let me. With another man's help, we can go for as long as possible. facelick

-Van

Goodness, those exact words could have come out of the Gator's mouth! And I'm sure MrsVan appreciates it as much as I do.

Vol

MrsVan · 10-03-2006, 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gatorvol64

Goodness, those exact words could have come out of the Gator's mouth! And I'm sure MrsVan appreciates it as much as I do.

Vol

You have no idea how I appreciate it facelick I enjoy giving oral but also enjoy receiving and the more men to help please me the better

MrsVan

**rpu3** · 10-03-2006, 09:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wanderswing

After visiting the forums, and judging by the huge numbers of MFM scenes in porn, it definately seems that lots of guys enjoy or even prefer MFM as much or sometimes even more than FMF. I've also heard of polls saying that 40-50% of guys fantasize about sharing their partner. I just wanted to hear peoples thoughts on it.

Love 'em. I'm a good multi-tasker and like to stay busy.

It's a lot of fun and a huge turn on for the spousal unit. No complaints from either one of us when the opportunity presents itself for that kind of fun.

janda1 · 10-03-2006, 10:44 PM

Easy answer. I love to see J getting pleasure. She loves to suck and having two to work on is a treat for her -- plus all the rest. And she is very much in control!

J&A

WesternSwing · 10-03-2006, 11:38 PM

I've come to really like the MFM more than the FMF, because I love Mrs. WS being the center of attention. She deserves all the attention she gets.

Seeing her in such bliss is a huge turn-on for me.

I have read that 40% of respondents to sex surveys list a threesome as their number one fantasy. From what I've also read, and experienced, I would have to say that for men it is a FMF fantasy. Being treated like a king, and as one married vanilla friend of ours put it: "I don't want another man mowing my grass." I think jealousy is the biggest reason these men want a FMF but not a MFM... at least not with their SO, but they'll have no problem being in a MFM with someone else's SO.

Mr. WS

VanHlebar · 10-04-2006, 07:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

I have read that 40% of respondents to sex surveys list a threesome as their number one fantasy. From what I've also read, and experienced, I would have to say that for men it is a FMF fantasy. Being treated like a king, and as one married vanilla friend of ours put it: "I don't want another man mowing my grass." I think jealousy is the biggest reason these men want a FMF but not a MFM... at least not with their SO, but they'll have no problem being in a MFM with someone else's SO.

I would have to agree that I think most "vanilla" guys would love to be the male in a 3some, but not having some other guy in a 3some for their wife is a jealous thing.

For me, I don't make a very good male for a female 3some.

I am way too much of a giver to just sit back and be taken care of. During a male 3some, I can conentrate 100% of my attention on my wife and really enjoy it. During a female 3some, I just have way too much to please and I can wear myself out.

-Van

northindycpl · 10-04-2006, 07:38 AM

I am not sure how Mr. Indy would reply to this, but I feel like he is so much more relaxed and happier during a MFM then a MFF. He really likes to watch too, and there is always so much to see! During a 4-some he is occupied with another wife, so his watching is somewhat limited.

MFF's have been fun too. Although, I am not as into them as much anymore.

ItTakes3 · 10-04-2006, 09:06 AM

We've only done the FMF thing twice. One was great, one was okay, but we both prefer a MFM, and I'm straight.

My wife goes through various stages of sexual interest. There are times when all she wants is me, but at other times she gets really excited about a threesome. When she is in one of those moods, she also talks about having three men at one time, and I can't participate until she has taken all of them.

So far, our sexual interests have been pretty much compatible, even as they evolve.

Mrs.PaganLovers · 10-04-2006, 09:23 AM

Hmmmm, been in several FMF and couples....never had a MFM but it sure sounds yummy!

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10-03-2006, 07:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
wanderswing Registered Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Vermont Status: couple	The popularity of MFM among guys After visiting the forums, and judging by the huge numbers of MFM scenes in porn, it definately seems that lots of guys enjoy or even prefer MFM as much or sometimes even more than FMF. I've also heard of polls saying that 40-50% of guys fantasize about sharing their partner. I just wanted to hear peoples thoughts on it.

10-03-2006, 07:45 PM	#2 (permalink)
Taylor74 Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 69 Location: NJ Status: Single Swing Lifestyle Name:PROACTIVE	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys I believe the turn-on is seeing one women being devoured by two men. She's completely out of control and at the mercy of two males. That's the turn on. At least for me it is...

10-03-2006, 07:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,648 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys MFM really is a lot of fun. I am not in the least bit bi, but I am very visual. Watching Mrs Spoo is incredible - and when the playmate is good, watching her in ecstasy is mind-blowing. Besides that - I really like to please my wife. Being the center of attention is a fantasy for a lot of women - and the pleasure can be pretty much non-stop; from physical (more hands and body parts) to mental (the power of being able to handle/please two men). She seems to feel the same about me though - as MFF (and even, lately, the MFFF) happen quite a bit for us, too One of the great pleasures of swinging is giving - and we just happen to be a very generous couple Spoomonkey PS - Our preference, though, if definitely couples. __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

10-03-2006, 07:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
SuAndBud Has Left the Building Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 293 Location: UK Status: Couple	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys We haven't experienced FMF (yet). But Bud is not bothered in the slightest as he is more concerned about Su not being left out (even for a moment) of the fun, so is happier when Su has plenty to occupy herself with. Su is bi curious but it's not the be all and end all to her as she loves to see and feel the cock/cocks that, if she could have just one wish, she would be on the other end of for a day. It would be nice for both of us to share another couple one day.

10-03-2006, 07:48 PM	#5 (permalink)
SuAndBud Has Left the Building Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 293 Location: UK Status: Couple	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys Taylor74. Have to disagree. Su is so in control.

10-03-2006, 10:44 PM	#10 (permalink)
janda1 Registered Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Sturgeon Bay, WI Status: Couple	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys Easy answer. I love to see J getting pleasure. She loves to suck and having two to work on is a treat for her -- plus all the rest. And she is very much in control! J&A

10-03-2006, 11:38 PM	#11 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,913 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys I've come to really like the MFM more than the FMF, because I love Mrs. WS being the center of attention. She deserves all the attention she gets. Seeing her in such bliss is a huge turn-on for me. I have read that 40% of respondents to sex surveys list a threesome as their number one fantasy. From what I've also read, and experienced, I would have to say that for men it is a FMF fantasy. Being treated like a king, and as one married vanilla friend of ours put it: "I don't want another man mowing my grass." I think jealousy is the biggest reason these men want a FMF but not a MFM... at least not with their SO, but they'll have no problem being in a MFM with someone else's SO. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

10-04-2006, 07:38 AM	#13 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,424 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM Swing Lifestyle Name:northindycpl	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys I am not sure how Mr. Indy would reply to this, but I feel like he is so much more relaxed and happier during a MFM then a MFF. He really likes to watch too, and there is always so much to see! During a 4-some he is occupied with another wife, so his watching is somewhat limited. MFF's have been fun too. Although, I am not as into them as much anymore. __________________ Mrs. Indy

10-04-2006, 09:06 AM	#14 (permalink)
ItTakes3 Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 98 Location: NTex	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys We've only done the FMF thing twice. One was great, one was okay, but we both prefer a MFM, and I'm straight. My wife goes through various stages of sexual interest. There are times when all she wants is me, but at other times she gets really excited about a threesome. When she is in one of those moods, she also talks about having three men at one time, and I can't participate until she has taken all of them. So far, our sexual interests have been pretty much compatible, even as they evolve.

10-04-2006, 09:23 AM	#15 (permalink)
Mrs.PaganLovers Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 246 Location: In my house Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:paganlovers	Re: The popularity of MFM among guys Hmmmm, been in several FMF and couples....never had a MFM but it sure sounds yummy!

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