The popularity of MFM among guys

[riswingcpl]

Mrs Riswing loves mmf, and even more so the couple of times we've done mmmf. She is totally in control, but gets very wild when the action heats up. I just love that look of ecstasy on her face when she has hands, tounges and lips all over her body. That "Oh God, I'm in heaven" look she shoots me is priceless!

Mr. Riswing
...who loves an ffm too, but those single ladies are sooooo hard to find!

[RosieAnne]

The idea of MFM is exciting, but I'm not sure I can do it. I know it couldn't be at the same time, but how do you pace it so you don't get tired? What does yours do when you are with the other?
Hoping to get started.

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by RosieAnne

What does yours do when you are with the other?

RosieAnne,
You are one of several recent posters bringing up the issue of how the males cooperate in an MFM.

Sometimes the hubby/SO alternates with the other M. Sometimes he takes pics or videos. However, in my experience, and in reading the experiences of many who have posted on this Board, on most occasions the hubby/SO is very involved with the woman even while the other M is pleasuring her, although there is no purposeful contact between the guys. So, in my experience it has not been a tag-team performance -- hubby, then me, then hubby, etc. -- but more of a longterm interactive woman-pleasuring session.

Assuming there is no bi-activity between the two males, there are still a lot of MFM situations where both males are pleasuring the woman at the same time. I'll describe a few scenarios below...sort of graphically. M1 and M2 are the husband/SO and additional male, and the F is the woman. Note that the roles of the M1 and M2 are mostly interchangeable.

Scenarios:
1. F is prone on the bed/floor/massage table. M1 is at her head and M2 is between her legs. M1 massages her from the waist up and M2 from the waist down while she's on her back. Then she turns over and they repeat the process.
1. M1 performs oral on F while M2 kisses her, massages her breasts, strokes her torso, puts his cock in her mouth, etc. (It might even happen that while M1 is performing oral that M2 is massaging F's clit, for instance.)
1. M1 sits on the bed, spread-legged, with his back to the headboard. F sits between his legs with her legs open. M2 performs oral on F while M1 is caressing her boobs, kissing her, stroking her upper body, etc.
2. M1 is boinking F missionary style, but he's in the "push-up" position with his arms extended. This enables M2 more room for kissing or stroking F and also allows M2 more room to receive oral from F.
3. F is giving M1 a blowjob while M2 is doing her doggy-style.
4. No penetration, but F is in a sandwich. M1 is kissing her, caressing her breasts and nether regions, and M2 is rubbing her from behind. Standing, kneeling, or prone.
5. F holds onto both erections and alternates blowjobs. Both M1 and M2 can be standing, kneeling, or lying beside each other.
6. Anal/vaginal DP in various positions.
7. Double vaginal DP in various positions.
8. Et cetera, et cetera, et cetera

I'm sure you can think of some other situations...

So, before an encounter, the guys set limits in addition to the limits the MF set with the extra M. Obviously with the DP situations there will be contact between the males, no question. If one or both aren't comfortable with DP contact, then obviously DPs aren't an option for that MFM. Still, there are plenty of things two straight guys can do to pleasure the woman, although incidental contact will inevitably happen in an MFM if all three people are working things at the same time.

I'm sure you are imaginative enough to think of some other scenarios. (I can )

Thrax
P.S. If this is a threadjack, then Mods can feel free to start a new thread. As for me, I must now take a leisurely Wednesday evening bath...and cold shower...

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

For me, I don't make a very good male for a female 3some. I am way too much of a giver to just sit back and be taken care of.

Rookie :rollseyes

You know - it is possible to be in a MFF without "sitting back"

I am a giver as well and really can't enjoy myself if my playmates aren't having a good time. In fact, if I am having trouble finishing, I will stop and go down on my playmate. When she finishes - I am already just about there.

I really felt the same way when we first started, but having been in a few MFF and knowing that I couldn't just sit back, I have found out that it is guys like you and I, Mr. Van, that are the best suited for MFF - mostly because we are givers and can take our time (based on what you're saying here). You may be surprised that you are the kind of guy who can balance two women quite well.

Hell - at least its worth a try (and then another try... And then another...)

Spoomonkey

[riswingcpl]

Originally Posted by RosieAnne

The idea of MFM is exciting, but I'm not sure I can do it. I know it couldn't be at the same time, but how do you pace it so you don't get tired? What does yours do when you are with the other?
Hoping to get started.

Thrax gave you some great examples of how both guys can be involved at the same time. The couple of times that we did an mmmf, I would sit back every once in a while and just watch...enjoying her enjoying herself. In our case, mmf isn't ever a "tag-team" deal...everyone is involved...unless one takes a bathroom or beverage break while the others carry on.

Of course, when Mrs Riswing needs the potty or a drink, we all take a break

[pagan-lovers]

Originally Posted by Mrs.PaganLovers

Hmmmm, been in several FMF and couples....never had a MFM but it sure sounds yummy!

I'll have to see what we can do about that.

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by RosieAnne

The idea of MFM is exciting, but I'm not sure I can do it. I know it couldn't be at the same time, but how do you pace it so you don't get tired? What does yours do when you are with the other?
Hoping to get started.

For us it has always been a very interactive experience. Sometimes I'll sit back for a moment and just watch, but for the most part I am involved on one part of her body or another. In one of the hottest MFM's I can remember with Mrs. WS I had a groin injury and couldn't fully participate so I was there for moral support. I paid attention to every square inch of her body he wasn't at the moment. I've never seen her cum so many times. It was erotic as hell.

The way I see it, a MFM is for her. It's her moment to be the center of attention and that is what I aim to make her, whether it is my wife or another woman. So I definitely won't just sit back and watch, then it is a M___FM, not a MFM.

Mr. WS

[JP51]

I love the MFM it give me time to enjoy the lady, not be rushed...she stay busy all the time which makes her special. I have done more MFM than FMF...and in fact until yesterday morning had really never had any real time with the FMF...what a great way to wake up and spend some time....but in the end I think MFM is great. It is nice to have a buddy to spell you and keep the lady on the edge and happy.

[Love2try]

I can only talk for myself and why I prefear MFM with my wife. The sensation of giving one you love the ultimate pleassures, and even hold her and kiss her while she is receiving the attention of two men is just an heavenly sensation for me as well as for her. Although I think it has as well something to do with the feeling of being in control. because you are the one allowing this to happen, you to some degree are controling your partner, even if it is in a very good way.

Originally Posted by wanderswing

After visiting the forums, and judging by the huge numbers of MFM scenes in porn, it definately seems that lots of guys enjoy or even prefer MFM as much or sometimes even more than FMF. I've also heard of polls saying that 40-50% of guys fantasize about sharing their partner. I just wanted to hear peoples thoughts on it.

[rpu99]

One aspect i enjoy in the MFM is getting to see my spouse in action. That is not something i get to see in the same way when we are alone together.

A second aspect is the multiple stimulation potential. Two men pleasing a woman simultaneously creates an effect that would be difficult, if not impossible to achieve by single male partner.

A third aspect is rooted in practicality: some women have a greater capacity for "pleasure" then most men. Why not exploit (perhaps maximize or utilize are better words than "exploit) this capacity/potential to its fullest. Don't get me wrong... although it would be less "practical", i would still do my utmost to exploit the pleasure potential in an FMF.

So, my personal preference in MFM is the men working together to please the woman simultaneously to achieve what might be conceived as a "multiplicative" effect. I think men taking turns would achieve more of an "additive" effect- not bad either, but not my preference.

mark

[SouthBond]

Double your pleasure, double your fun, my wife likes two men instead of just one. In the MFM situation she is the center of attraction and the star of the show. She knows that she has the power to make us do anything and she wants to do everything. She has taking care of two men at once down to an art form. The first time that we did a HWH, we call it husband-wife-husband because we only do long term married couples, my wife turned into the nymphomaniac that I had always dreamed about. I had never seen her as wet and totally released of any inhibitions. She went from being this well dressed executive very in control type to a wild sexual animal that couldn't get enough and wanted more and more. As far I am concerned, I enjoyed watching another man orally bring my wife to orgasm and hear her moaning in pleasure as he pumped her as hard as he could. And then we had to entertain the other wife. Thank God for Viagra. After that session, my wife bought a small magnetic sign and put it on the refrigerator. The sign says, Caution Men Working. Every time she looks at it she gets this big grin on her face, looks at me and smiles.

[plazmikgurl]

My guy and I tried it with his best friend and it was a disaster. Neither of them could get hard with the other there. Finally I got frustrated and called it off. But we were always more interested in FMF anyway.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

I just seriously enjoy worshipping the female body for as long as the lady will let me.
-Van

WOW, can we clone you?

[daisy girl]

Just had our first MFM experience. It was fantastic.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

I just seriously enjoy worshipping the female body for as long as the lady will let me.

That is wonderful! No wonder Mrs. Van is such a happy girl. Jay is the same way.