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Partner Loans to make Threesomes happen

This is a discussion on Partner Loans to make Threesomes happen within the Threesomes forums, part of the Types of Swinging category; Some friends of ours have verbally introduced us to the concept of "partner loans". In their words, they ...

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Old 08-07-2006, 07:56 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Some friends of ours have verbally introduced us to the concept of "partner loans".

In their words, they are interested in "finding a couple that would be open to loaning us either male or female for a night and then we would return the favor by one of us spending an evening with them."

In essence, our friends are interested in threesomes - but without the single (unattached) male or female which comprises most threesome arrangements.

Has anyone here had experience with this kind of arrangement? Is it appealing?
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Old 08-07-2006, 08:15 AM   #2 (permalink)
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We had a couple we would swing with on a regular basis that we did this with as well and it worked out very well. The threesomes were just as wonderful as the foursomes...
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Old 08-07-2006, 08:54 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Never had the experience personally, but I have read about it on some swinging/sex blogs that I used to read. Seemed to work well for them. I see nothing wrong with it and it would be (I think) more convenient for some couples who have kids.

To me, it does seem like an appealing option. You get the fun of the threesome with (potentially) less drama and the comfort of a friend. As with everything in swinging, as long as everyone is on the same page, why not have some fun.

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Old 08-07-2006, 09:07 AM   #4 (permalink)
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We've done that, 2jersey. It was in addition to our foursomes, and worked out quite well. Both of our partners traveled in their businesses. The threesomes happened when one of the other couple was out of town. We had no drama problems. We did have a lot of fun!

SexyShelby makes a good point about a problem that besets couples with children.

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You know I never thought of "loaning out " my husband but it sounds like a mighty fine idea hahhaha I have about ZERO sex-drive right now hahahaha. Ok Seriously sounds good to me if all people agree upon it
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We've done it.

Friends of ours only really want to play with bi women. So every now and again I get loaned out to them. It works for us. And sometimes we play with the wife of a couple who 'loans' her out to us for the evening. Ofcourse I have been known to be loaned out to them once in a while as well.

sounds confusing. I guess if everyone is comfortable with it, then it works out fine. But these are people we know very well and feel very safe with.
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Been there and done that. With all the business travel, it was nice to find a couple you felt you could go play alone with. Since we have moved away from D.C., when I travel back, I am always asked to just stay at their place. When he was here on business she followd and they stayed with the wife while I was gone on another trip. It works, make for fun times, she has even gon on vacations with them to England for a few weeks.
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We have done this on several occasions. Sometimes friends of ours will want to fulfill a specific fantasy - like a FMF or visa-versa - and it does take the complications out of trying to find a third for this to happen.

I my previous job I traveled quite a bit and the "loaning" scenario worked real well so that Mrs. WS could go out and have some adult time away from the kids 24/7 while I was gone. We also have friends in the military and when he's on TDY he's called-up Mrs. WS and asked her if I could be loaned out to his wife.

As long as everybody involved it good with it, it can be great fun!

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Some friends of ours have verbally introduced us to the concept of "partner loans".

In their words, they are interested in "finding a couple that would be open to loaning us either male or female for a night and then we would return the favor by one of us spending an evening with them."

In essence, our friends are interested in threesomes - but without the single (unattached) male or female which comprises most threesome arrangements.

Has anyone here had experience with this kind of arrangement? Is it appealing?
I was 'loaned' out last Monday, and we have been doing that for 2 years now. Its with very good friends, and progressed sort of slowly because its a whole different comfort level.

For us its nice in that with so much going on, we can't always get together on weekends but I still find 4somes more fun.
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We have been doing this for some time and it works very well for us.

Usually, one of the couple is traveling to our neck of the woods on business and we invite them to stay the night with us. Or one of us travels out to be with the couple.

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we wouldnt be against it but it would have to be with a couple we were comfortable with and know for a decent amount of time
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we would be up for it .sounds fun
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Never heard swinging separately called "loaning" but I guess that fits. No we haven't done this but certainly hear of many situations where this happens.

To be honest our preference is still to swing together it is where we have the most fun.
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Me and my gf have found out that alot of swingers are into loaning, it's quite common.

We've done it a few times, it works quite well, Soph often gets 'loaned' to these students that live near us, about, 5 guys renting an apartment, everytime they have a long-period of tests to take and they're stressed out, they tend to ask if Soph can stay for abit, so while they're out she cleans the apartment, when they get back, the 5 guys + her will have group sex. At one point she stayed with those guys for 2 and a half weeks, theyve returned the favour with us, so it's all good.
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hmm and how exactly have these guys returned the favor?

Somehow I don't think the loaning we are discussing or intending refers to weeks at a time. Nor does it involve gangbangs but then again to each his or her own.... Though if it were my partner who left me for 2 1/2 weeks to fuck a bunch of women on his own, I don't think he would be finding me back at home waiting for him when he returned.
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