Need Help Starting an MFM Threesome!

[pacollegecouple]

Hello.

My girlfriend and I enjoy participating in MFM threesomes. We have done so on various occasions with friends. One of our friends is very shy and we have trouble getting him to participate. To date we have only had one encounter with him. It was very difficult to get him to open up, however once he relaxed we had a great time.

He is a very close friend. He currently does have a girlfriend but barley sees her because it is a long distance relationship. (Sorry if we sound unethical for trying to have fun with someone who is in a relationship - if that offends anyone.) Anyway, our friend comes over often and the three of us always watch porn together. He is open enough to masturbate in his pants while he is here, but is too shy to do anything else.

The three of us will be taking a trip to a neighboring state later this month and we will be staying the night in the same room. We would really like to have a threesome with him that evening but we are unsure of how to get him to open up. Other then us he has never had another threesome experience.

Other then getting him drunk, does anyone have any good tips or advice on how to make him comfortable and understand he can trust us to keep what happens behind closed doors to ourselves? Also any tips on how to get him horney and motivated?

I figured I would ask everyone here since many have probably have much more experience then we do. Any help or tips that could be provided would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
PA College Couple

[chetthomas05]

Why don’t you have your girlfriend wear something provocative, turn on the radio, and then have them dance together? Your girlfriend can be a little aggressive at first and then nature should run its course.

[ohcpl43952]

Be blunt! Tell him you want him to join in on some adult fun.

Some people just don't take hints well.

[SableOnBlond]

First off, are you positive that he enjoys these threesomes? Maybe he feels a little reluctant because he has a girlfriend? But if you are sure that he likes participating, then you two will have to be the initiators. When me and my boyfriend had our first threesome with his good friend my boyfriend wanted me to initiate it. So I just kind of sat down right next to him while my boyfriend was out of the room and said, "Hey, we want to have a threesome." Figured I'd be blunt. Then I just kissed him. That was all it took. I'd say just have your girlfriend go up and kiss this guy, that should get the point across.

[twohots4u2]

We have found that we like to talk about our swinging experiences with the guy and get him to talk about his. That helps us find out about him and gets the atmosphere hot. Then, I kiss her, comment on how great her kisses are, and invite him to join me in kissing her. Once we start sharing kisses with her, she starts rubbing both of our dicks in our trousers. From then on there is no stopping.

[absingleman]

OP

In my opinion, I don't think this guy enjoys having sex behind his girlfriend's back. The only way to get him to join you without getting him drunk would be to have a talk with his girlfriend, then have her tell him that she would be alright with him playing with the two of you. Of course, she will probably look for a couple of her own to play with, and that might not go well with him.

Other than that, give it up. You had one threesome with him and he hasn't brought it up or tried to initiate it again? He hasn't tried to hit on your girlfriend behind your back? He hasn't asked you if you wanted to do it again? He watches porn with you but doesn't even look like he wants to do more?

Guess what. He doesn't want to repeat the experience. Maybe he felt guilty and told his girlfriend and she threatened to break up with him if it happened again. Maybe he felt guilty and is afraid to say anything because she would break up with him. Maybe sex with his girlfriend is better to him than sex with your girlfriend. Whatever the reason, he doesn't want another threesome with you. Everyone is entitled to try something once. That doesn't mean they have to like it because you like it and they have a lot in common with you.

Don't push him on the threesome thing anymore. And when you go on this trip, make sure you have seperate beds. One for you and your girl, and one for him. Better if you can get seperate rooms or can get his girlfriend to join you somehomw.

[Sico_tiko]

Simply hust tell him i dont think that will bother him but on the other sied this will encourage him as u want to do so

[iapr]

If someone was writing this about a female friend of theirs and were talking about getting her drunk and pressuring her to do something she was not comfortable with everyone would be jumping up and down saying how awfull it is to pressure her into a threesome. Why is this so much different and people are offering suggestions on attire and how to seduce him? He is obviously not into it or this dude wouldn't be here asking on how to get his buddy to fuck his girlfriend.

News flash - if guys want to fuck all they need is a green light and they are off to the races. If this guy is hestitant it is because he has some issues with it and isn't into it.

My advice is to leave him alone and let him live his own life. there are so many desparate and horny single guys out there that would jump at the chance to screw anyone that would bend over backwards and do backflips to do whatever you want them to so why are you spending so much time and energy and anguish on someone that obviously has issues with what you are wanting him to do?

[Edison Carter]

Ed here-- Let me get this straight: He masturbates in front of you and your girlfriend while watching porn and you think he's shy ? Sorry, something else is going on and you should not be using chronic persuasion to get him to have sex with you. Remember the Swinging rule that 'yes' means 'yes' and 'no' means 'no'. You have your answer from him, despite an earlier threesome.

Find someone who wants to have threesomes with you. Not someone with reservations.

[Mr. HW Sharona]

Well since the OP hasn't replied to his original post in over a month, and it was his first post, my advice will probably be mute, but here it goes.....

Why not have her do him first, one-on-one, just the two of them, with him knowing you know about it (If you're cool with that), to get him more comfortable first.

We've done that before and the results were successful.

The story:

He knew we/she wanted a three-sum with him but he had never done that before and was uneasy, but at the same time he wanted to fuck HW Sharona, but didn't know if he could do it with me there.

So we made a deal.

She would stop over on her way home from work to have sex with him one-on-one. Then later all three of us would meet out for drinks with other friends, then at the end of the night we would go back to his place for an MFM.
He agreed to that and that's what we did and it worked flawlessly.

HW Sharona fucked him on her way home from work, we went out that night with him and other friends, then ended at his place for an MFM. We offered to bring some 'little blue' to help him along and he agreed to that. He said it would help him be 'Strong Like bull'

The three of us ended up having a pretty good time that night!

But I did tell him if he fucked my wife that afternoon and didn't show up that night for drinks, even if he decided to back out from the three-sum, I'd be pissed , the deal was he had to AT LEAST show up for drinks afterwards

[lovinher]

Originally Posted by iapr

If someone was writing this about a female friend of theirs and were talking about getting her drunk and pressuring her to do something she was not comfortable with everyone would be jumping up and down saying how awfull it is to pressure her into a threesome. Why is this so much different and people are offering suggestions on attire and how to seduce him? He is obviously not into it or this dude wouldn't be here asking on how to get his buddy to fuck his girlfriend.

News flash - if guys want to fuck all they need is a green light and they are off to the races. If this guy is hestitant it is because he has some issues with it and isn't into it.

My advice is to leave him alone and let him live his own life. there are so many desparate and horny single guys out there that would jump at the chance to screw anyone that would bend over backwards and do backflips to do whatever you want them to so why are you spending so much time and energy and anguish on someone that obviously has issues with what you are wanting him to do?

Perfect.

[bethncole]

Why are you going after this particular guy so hard? Why not invite someone who enjoys MFMs and would give a great time on regular basis?