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Thread: Are threesomes better than foursomes?

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    Default Are threesomes better than foursomes?

    We are currently updating (tweaking) our online profile to better reflect our current lifestyle objectives. In the process, we have recently skimmed the profiles of a number of people in our geographic region, paying particular attention to one aspect of their profiles – the degree to which couples are seeking to meet other couples, as compared with their interest in meeting single females.

    Although unscientific – we have collected strong evidence that most couples (based on their stated profile objectives) are virtually indifferent as to whether they meet couples or single females. We, on the other hand, have a strong preference for couples play – and have been considering altering our profile to show that we have ‘zero’ interest in meeting single females (we are currently expressing minor interest in our profile).

    Mrs 2jersey is bisexual – and she has played with a female (to varying degrees) in each and every one of our swinging encounters. We certainly don’t want to open a ‘bisexual label’ debate – but we are especially intrigued by the fact that even couples with bi-curious females (and some with straight females) are expressing a strong interest in meeting single females.

    Our perspective: Put two couples in the same room (preferably on a king-sized bed) - and you can enjoy threesomes (FMF, MFM or FFM), interspersed with foursomes (MFMF) and female play (FF). During the FMF segments, one male simply takes a step back, catches his breath, and enjoys the view. This arrangement has flowed well for us in the past, and we don’t feel as though we are missing anything by not having a single female to satisfy our FF, FMF or FFM desires.

    Additionally, our general view is that married females are more attractive (from an overall perspective) than single females who have (for whatever reason) chosen to swing rather than engage in plain vanilla dating (of men and/or women). We don’t intend to offend or antagonize single females (or anyone) – our observation is very general rather than specific.

    Finally, we have heard that it is extremely difficult for couples to attract single females. We have received several messages from single females, but most of them seemed flakey, phony or immature. We went pretty far down the path with one young lady, but we determined, in the end, that this particular 22 year old female was too young for us. We had to think long and hard before reaching this conclusion – but after a few chats, we ultimately decided it was not the best thing for her (we may have erred on the side of empathy and paternalism).

    We are curious to hear the perspective of others on the board. Why do couples seem to have so much interest in threesomes involving single females – as opposed to couples’ activity in which all parties can be satisfied to a similar extent (and the females get some variety in their male activity)?
    Last edited by 2jersey; 06-13-2006 at 08:07 PM. Reason: Oops, typo...

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