Have you ever met someone that really strikes you but the situation is somehow one in which you do something unmeant or foolish?
There are so many lonely females and males out there that really have a hard time finding MR. or Ms. RIght. If there were only three people of the opposite sex that you knew, I'd bet that most of us would have the ability to fall in love with one of them.
After all, familiarity often is the main enticer for attraction. If you see the same person over and over again you begin to see the sould that thrives inside that person. You see things that you had no way of seeing without lots of time to be with him/her.
That is why so many office relationships start up. The people that work in close quarters statistically have more relationships. I can go into a club and rarely even start a conversation that is much more than light talking and joking, flirtation, whatever; leave and forget about it the next day. But if I work with someone that attracts me I will almost inevitibly fantasize about that person at some point. Often there was NO initial attraction though.
The initial attractions seem to be false in many cases. Someone looks HOT, but when I get to know her I may or may not find many negative personality traits that are a total turnoff.
I guess that is why I am such a tough person to seduce. I used to be really easy...when I was very young and resembled a junk yard dog. On the other hand I find it to be distasteful to just try to seduce someone. The word seduce seems to be thesaurasly (word? lol), associated with decieving someone for the purpose of getting something. Maybe I am rambling again though.