What is a "fake" swinger ?

dragonlady · 12-06-2004, 05:54 PM

I see alot of profiles on swing life style that say no fakes. But being kinda new at all of this how do you know who is fake and who is not?? Can any one please help?

Pepper & Drew · 12-06-2004, 06:00 PM

Now, if I had the answer to that, I'd be rich I tell ya! There's not really a way to know for sure, but there's ways to narrow it down. Phone conversations with both parties (if it's supposed to be a couple), web camming before meeting, never giving too much information too quickly are ways to find out who's real, but ultimately, you won't know for sure until you meet them.

Pepper

biblonde · 12-06-2004, 06:01 PM

There are some on Swing Lifestyle pretending to be couples who arent..and pretending to be single females and such...really you dont know who is real and who isnt until you meet them face to face. Just know there are alot out there in any of the ad sites. Just keep your eyes open and be careful. There are alot of great people out there to!! so if you do run into a fake just let it go as a learning experiance and move on. We all run into those at some time!! good luck to you guys!!

DBL D · 12-06-2004, 06:57 PM

Not to mention the crazy ones who steal underwear!

Male D

biblonde · 12-06-2004, 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DBL D

Not to mention the crazy ones who steal underwear!

Male D

now now MD..I only steal yours!!!! he he he he

DBL D · 12-06-2004, 07:10 PM

That's supposed to make me feel Better?

Da Male

curiousagain · 12-06-2004, 07:19 PM

I saw them on ebay.

DBL D · 12-06-2004, 07:24 PM

She told you they were MINE? Is there nothing sacred anymore?

Male D

biblonde · 12-06-2004, 07:25 PM

he he he and I got lots of money for um too!! lol they were cute! lol

northindycpl · 12-06-2004, 07:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dragonlady

I see alot of profiles on Swing Lifestyle that say no fakes. But being kinda new at all of this how do you know who is fake and who is not?? Can any one please help?

I would consider fakes to be those that don't show up... those whose wives don't know, and those that want to chat endlessly-forever.

I am not sure there is a absolute solution to tell... its just a feeling. We look for those maked certified genuine, or those who say in their ads they do meet for real or the like.

curiousagain · 12-06-2004, 07:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DBL D

She told you they were MINE? Is there nothing sacred anymore?

Male D

Well, they are suppose to be signed , but you know how many fakes are on ebay.

ALilOEverything · 12-06-2004, 07:51 PM

I find the more they put in their ad the more genuine they seem to be. If they don't put any effort into saying who they are they aren't going to be putting an effort into actually meeting. I think more thoughtful the ad the more likely they are to be real. I also think those with face pics must be genuine, otherwise why would they take the risk? Everyone I've corresponded to with face pics have been real couples truly looking for what they stated in their ad.

Spoomonkey · 12-06-2004, 08:07 PM

It may make people feel better to put "no fakes" in their ads, but fakes are par for the course. You will never weed them out totally...

Lots of guys who WISH they could get their wives into it - lots of "still live with my mommy and get my lovin' on-line" dungeon masters out there - lots of couples who think they can do it, until the e-mail comes - lots of perverts who just want to talk you into sending them pictures...

You will stumble across them...

And when you do - do us all a favor and give them a swift kick in the teeth...

Then write about it, so we can all just sit back and smile

Nothing warms the hard that the hard crack of a mouth full of teeth shattering on the toe of a doc martin...

Spoomonkey

curiousagain · 12-06-2004, 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Nothing warms the hard that the hard crack of a mouth full of teeth shattering on the toe of a doc martin...

Spoomonkey

Freudian slip?

Nymph an' Satyr · 12-06-2004, 09:47 PM

Look for certifications. Look for multiple certifications. It should mean that the other couple is at least real enough to meet.

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12-06-2004, 05:54 PM	#1 (permalink)
dragonlady Active Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 14 Location: flint mich Status: couple	What is a "fake" swinger ? I see alot of profiles on swing life style that say no fakes. But being kinda new at all of this how do you know who is fake and who is not?? Can any one please help?

12-06-2004, 06:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Fake or not?? Now, if I had the answer to that, I'd be rich I tell ya! There's not really a way to know for sure, but there's ways to narrow it down. Phone conversations with both parties (if it's supposed to be a couple), web camming before meeting, never giving too much information too quickly are ways to find out who's real, but ultimately, you won't know for sure until you meet them. Pepper
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12-06-2004, 06:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918	Re: Fake or not?? There are some on Swing Lifestyle pretending to be couples who arent..and pretending to be single females and such...really you dont know who is real and who isnt until you meet them face to face. Just know there are alot out there in any of the ad sites. Just keep your eyes open and be careful. There are alot of great people out there to!! so if you do run into a fake just let it go as a learning experiance and move on. We all run into those at some time!! good luck to you guys!!

12-06-2004, 06:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Fake or not?? Not to mention the crazy ones who steal underwear! Male D
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12-06-2004, 07:10 PM	#6 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Fake or not?? That's supposed to make me feel Better? Da Male
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12-06-2004, 07:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
curiousagain A gentleman never tells Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 2,131 Location: Southeastern USA Status: half of a couple	Re: Fake or not?? I saw them on ebay.
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12-06-2004, 07:24 PM	#8 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Fake or not?? She told you they were MINE? Is there nothing sacred anymore? Male D
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12-06-2004, 07:25 PM	#9 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918	Re: Fake or not?? he he he and I got lots of money for um too!! lol they were cute! lol

12-06-2004, 07:51 PM	#12 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,847 Location: Michigan Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:aliloeverything	Re: Fake or not?? I find the more they put in their ad the more genuine they seem to be. If they don't put any effort into saying who they are they aren't going to be putting an effort into actually meeting. I think more thoughtful the ad the more likely they are to be real. I also think those with face pics must be genuine, otherwise why would they take the risk? Everyone I've corresponded to with face pics have been real couples truly looking for what they stated in their ad.
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12-06-2004, 08:07 PM	#13 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Fake or not?? It may make people feel better to put "no fakes" in their ads, but fakes are par for the course. You will never weed them out totally... Lots of guys who WISH they could get their wives into it - lots of "still live with my mommy and get my lovin' on-line" dungeon masters out there - lots of couples who think they can do it, until the e-mail comes - lots of perverts who just want to talk you into sending them pictures... You will stumble across them... And when you do - do us all a favor and give them a swift kick in the teeth... Then write about it, so we can all just sit back and smile Nothing warms the hard that the hard crack of a mouth full of teeth shattering on the toe of a doc martin... Spoomonkey
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12-06-2004, 09:47 PM	#15 (permalink)
Nymph an' Satyr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 352 Location: Street, Maryland Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:nymphansatyr	Re: Fake or not?? Look for certifications. Look for multiple certifications. It should mean that the other couple is at least real enough to meet.

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