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| I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female
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I have always thought full swap meant having intercourse with the people you swing with. Mr LM told me he thought it included giving/or receiving oral with your playmates. What is the definition of full swap? LM |
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| Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 44 Location: houston Status: M. Male (married to talltxlady) Swing Lifestyle Name:hytril
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From everything I have read and been told full swap is switching partners for intercourse. Now to me oral sex right now seem to be a grey area to me. I dont know if it falls into full or partial. Could some of the more exp people please clear up that issue for me. |
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| Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple
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my own opinon is that full swap is switching partners for intercourse. Everything else is soft swap. I would be interested to see how others feel on this one
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918
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I feel soft swap is oral..kissing...touching...any of those but doesnt have to be all. Full swap is oral and intercourse. Fulling doing everything with the other partner. my 2 cents for the day! |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 650 Location: Buffalo, NY Status: M. Male
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I was under the impression that full swap was any touching save kissing and hugging. While soft swap was basically smae room sex. We watch you, you watch us. We all get off and giggle over ice cream after. But then I think oral sex is in the same catagory as intercourse. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple
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I consulted our "book" of definitions (Gave Mrs Fun my opinion and she ok'ed it LOL). Full swap in our book is changing partners for intercourse, anything else falls under soft swinging to us and the few friends I polled.
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| Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 44 Location: houston Status: M. Male (married to talltxlady) Swing Lifestyle Name:hytril
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I hate to get into symantics but, If it would seem to me that oral sex falls under the umbrella of sex. If Hard swap is sex with someone that is not your partner then it would seem to me that oral sex would be hard swap. After all the mere phrase is 'oral sex' has the word sex in it. It just seems like there is a grey line here with everyones definitions on where oral sex should fall. In the end I guess as long as everyone is ok with whats going on it does not matter.
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I think there needs to be another term for the middle between soft & full swap. There is to big of a leap from soft swap to full swap. How about Mild swap? Soft swap could be anything short of oral sex and intercouse. Mild swap could be everything up to & including oral sex but no intercourse. Full swap could be everything up to & including intercourse and beyond. Sound dumb? |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:curious1918
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sounds good to me!!!!
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
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Typically Soft-Swap is anything short of Intercourse, so I would say that Full-swap is Intercourse.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 108 Location: southeastern PA Status: couple
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Of course if you read the polls they have done with teenagers that are sexually active the say that oral sex is no big deal and definently not on the same level as intercourse. And then there is our ex-president and his views on what oral sex is and is'nt. As for us, I would have to say that while oral sex is significant we would still label it as soft-swap. Just our 2 cents too. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple
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Have spoken to a few more friends and the unanimous decision was that full swap is intercourse with the partner of another, it is like the being pregnant analogy , either you are or you ain't.
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