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My SO and I (him) have for many weeks/months been talking about swinging, brought about from the fact that we didn't want to get bored with sex in any way. We are in our late 40's and find the thought of seeing each other turned on with someone else made us very interested in this lifestyle. So to make a long story short, we went to one of the more popular clubs here in CA (SO CA in fact). We both had no idea what to expect and in as much when we showed up, were taken on a tour. That was great. But didn't really have anyone in the seating area introduce themselves. So we went into an area after checking on the place that only couples can go and play, no singles (this place doesn't allow single men at all). After a couple of hours playing by ourselves, a couple (in there late 20's early 30's) came next to us and started watching. It only took about 5 mins before they too were turned on by what we were doing to each other. They asked if they could join in and we both looked at each other and said sure. We all touched each other and after a short period my girl and the other guy were paired off. My girl and I had said we didn't want to play without each other there, so we were within touching distance of one and the other (me and her). So here comes the point.... I was watching them having intercourse and kinda lost track of what the woman with me wanted to do. I was more interested in watching my girl and this guy. At first I got a major hard on and the woman that was (at this point) giving me a BJ was surprised that I could get that hard and must have been a bit bigger than her man (as she mentioned, I wasn't flattered though for some reason) but after trying to refocus on her, I started to ask how long they had been married (assuming they were but didn't know for sure). She said they weren't but just friends with benefits. And sometimes they go home with different people and did I want to try that.... Now I don't tend to make knee jerk reactions, but for what ever reason, was totally put off by this. I almost called it quits with them but my girl seemed to be enjoying herself. So I let them finished and then asked that they let us play alone again. They did with out any problem, but I felt really pissed or more so like he used my girl for just a piece of ass. To me this was a guy just talking a girl into going to a swing club to score on someone else's woman with out any connection to his FWB.... My girl said I should have stopped him if I was feeling that... But after we talked a little more came to a agreement not to play with anyone not committed to each other. Whether its a married couple or not, just be committed to one and the other. Later on that night, picturing them having sex was a major turn on still and we went after it until morning. So..... did I over react ??? My girl and I are very committed and love each other more than ever before so I'm OK with still going to swing parties and the like. Again it was a major turn on watching her but I just didn't like the fact they (the other couple) weren't really into each other. Comments please.... !!!!!!
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We were contacted by a couple whose profile volunteers the following pertinent information: They are unmarried and looking for daytime play. The overall profile is attractive, including nice photos (with faces disguised), and their bedroom objectives are compatible with ours. In our reply message, we inform them that we have some capacity for daytime meetings and we suggest that there might be a fit. We disclose a few basic facts about ourselves and we say that we would like to learn more about them (without asking any specific questions). In their next message, they volunteer the information that they are not living together. And they explain that daytime play is necessary because their children return home from school around 3PM. (They mention nothing about having evening obligations, other than the fact that they have school age children.) Okay - we consider ourselves to be selective and careful (others might apply more derogatory terminology). Yet, we generally exhibit good manners, and we certainly don’t want to insult anyone by asking insinuating questions. What’s our next move?
