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After a 3 month discussion, my wife and I decided to try opening our relationship (only sex-wise). I enjoyed it, enjoyed watching her and in some ways it strengthened our bond. At the same time it also brought about a few changes, noticeably in my wife and a few things I did not pay attention to before. Before opening our marriage, when we had sex, it was normal and good. I like having hard pounding sex but my wife usually stopped me and asked me to slow down and on a few occasions she would even stop the sex. During our swinging adventure, I noticed that she had no problem letting our male partner have his way with her. I mean, he was drilling into her and she loved it and this is not sitting well with me. She knows I love the same thing and clearly it's not hurting her. Another change in her that I noticed is the way she conducts herself in the house. She started taking household decisions without me. She would come home late (I mean really late) from work and not even give me a call. She would give me some excuse the next day as if that is normal. So one day we had the conversation. I sat her down and asked her if she is seeing someone behind my back. She swore no and I have no reason to distrust her. Right now, I don't know what to do. I don't like the way things are going, sex-wise or in my family. Am I losing my family? Has anyone else seen patterns like this in their life? -
Husband Upset at Lack of Opportunities because of Kid
UnsureFuture15 posted a topic in Swingers Talk
We've been in the lifestyle on and off for six years. Stopped during pregnancy and first two years of child's life. Lately he's been getting mad that we can't swing every weekend. When we discussed getting back into the lifestyle, I said maybe one to two weekends a month. He agreed. Now he gets angry that we get messages about parties or guys that want to meet up, but we can't because his mom or my mom can't babysit overnight on short notice. Our mom's are great babysitters and love to, but I don't think it's fair to call them Saturday morning to ask if they can have a sleepover Saturday night. Also, my husband won't ask his mom, so I have to. The example that has me livid with him occurred last night. Him "so my mom can't babysit tomorrow night? " Me "no, she has your niece all day tomorrow" Him "well did you ask?" Me "no, because she said 'I'm going to be exhausted Saturday because I'm going to have ivy all day. So it'd be hard to have a sleepover'" Him "well you should ask her" Me "why? " Him "there's a party tomorrow night" Me "I don't want to pressure your mom if she has ivy scheduled, especially since your mom is having a sleepover with our daughter next weekend. " Him "fine, whatever. Don't you know anyone else who can babysit?" Me "my parents are our of town. Your sister can't (she has a heart condition), can you think of anyone? " Him "no, I guess our night is ruined. " Me "when my sister is back from overseas she can." Him " that doesn't help us right now, does it? " Me "sorry" From that point on, he didn't talk to me for the rest of the night. He was the one who wanted to start trying for kids when got married and now he's mad that we can't swing every weekend. I don't trust non family babysitters. Next weekend, I'm suppossed to take him on a ghost investigation for his birthday, but I feel like I should just cancel it so he can plan some swinging thing since that's all he cares about anymore. Am I overreacting in his behavior last night? Thanks in advance.