Swinging and Coworkers

hiswhooore · 09-21-2006, 11:38 PM

There's a certain coworker of mine that I just haven't been able to get outta my mind. I know for a fact that she's a freak just like me and she know's that my BF and I are experimenting right now with the whole swinging thing...should I try and recruit her or should I leave her alone?

WesternSwing · 09-22-2006, 12:23 AM

We have a "no coworker" rule. And we should have followed it one time.

The problem is that there is too much that can go wrong and it could effect your job, negatively.

Our advice, keep work work and fun fun.

Mr. WS

Menage_a_Trois · 09-22-2006, 12:25 AM

DON'T............your job and your repution at the work place are just NOT worth the potential risk.

The Other Mrs. Menage

intuition897 · 09-22-2006, 01:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

We have a "no coworker" rule. And we should have followed it one time.

The problem is that there is too much that can go wrong and it could effect your job, negatively.

Our advice, keep work work and fun fun.

Mr. WS

Dito. We got burned once by breaking the "Don't shit where you eat" rule. It is NOT worth it.

Sweet_Candy · 09-22-2006, 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by intuition897

Dito. We got burned once by breaking the "Don't shit where you eat" rule. It is NOT worth it.

Dito to all who've posted a reply.

NandTfromCA · 09-22-2006, 11:38 AM

You probably already know that it's a bad idea but other parts of your body are playing games with your mind.

It's so much easier said then done to say "just don't do it"...but just don't do it.

We haven't done it but have been very tempted with a very hot freak that works for me. When I am not all worked up about it, it's easy to see that it's not a good idea.

There's so many other hotties and freaks out there.

Mr.

PS If you have a shitty job and don't mind losing it, go for it!

Pepper & Drew · 09-22-2006, 08:07 PM

If it's not a job that you have a lot invested in, I'd say go for it. If it's a career.....danger Will Robinson! Because if you piss her off and things go sour, she has you. She'd have to be awfully damn hot for me to consider it.

Pepper

gatorvol64 · 09-22-2006, 09:23 PM

Dito and Dito again!

Vol

Mr. Truelove · 09-22-2006, 10:22 PM

We have a certain couple we know that swings that we wouldn't mind seeing but unfortunatly they are our neighbors. Long ago we made that decision that neighbors were off limits, and as the time passes, it's easier.

But I still have hopes that someday, they'll move!

Maybe this will sort itself out with time and you won't be in the same enviroment.

curiousagain · 09-23-2006, 12:42 AM

Swinging with co-workers is like saying "hold my beer, watch this" It never leads to good things.

Pepper & Drew · 09-23-2006, 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by curiousagain

Swinging with co-workers is like saying "hold my beer, watch this" It never leads to good things.

Or like drinking and dialing....that one doesn't usually have a good outcome either.

Pepper

**good times** · 09-23-2006, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

Or like drinking and dialing....that one doesn't usually have a good outcome either.

Pepper

For "Good Times" have a drink and then call ***-***-****.

ShellyM · 09-23-2006, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by hiswhooore

There's a certain coworker of mine that I just haven't been able to get outta my mind. I know for a fact that she's a freak just like me and she know's that my BF and I are experimenting right now with the whole swinging thing...should I try and recruit her or should I leave her alone?

In all honesty? I'd leave her alone as long as you are her co-worker. I have seen so many times these relationships go up in flames (male/female), and usually someone ends up getting fired to preserve office harmony. If I did do this I would keep it absolutely secret from the rest of the staff, and ensure that she does as well......no-one gossips like people who work in offices lol, and by noon everyone will know, and the office manager may not be too pleased about it. Its completely your call, I'm just giving you my opinion from an office manager's position.

hiswhooore · 09-24-2006, 12:56 AM

Dang!!

And she looks like she'd be good too!! O' well. Thanks for your reply's guys...I appreciate it.

ShellyM · 09-24-2006, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by hiswhooore

Dang!!

And she looks like she'd be good too!! O' well. Thanks for your reply's guys...I appreciate it.

Now, don't get me wrong. Im not saying not to do it, but be very careful if you do.....discretion is key. Now, if its a job that you don't mind walking away from it may be worth the risk! But if this is your career I would say take extreme caution.

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09-21-2006, 11:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
hiswhooore Active Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 31 Location: Los Angeles Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HisWhooore	Swinging and Coworkers There's a certain coworker of mine that I just haven't been able to get outta my mind. I know for a fact that she's a freak just like me and she know's that my BF and I are experimenting right now with the whole swinging thing...should I try and recruit her or should I leave her alone?
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09-22-2006, 12:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Swinging and Coworkers We have a "no coworker" rule. And we should have followed it one time. The problem is that there is too much that can go wrong and it could effect your job, negatively. Our advice, keep work work and fun fun. Mr. WS
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09-22-2006, 12:25 AM	#3 (permalink)
Menage_a_Trois Sex is emotion in motion! Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 576 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois	Re: Swinging and Coworkers DON'T............your job and your repution at the work place are just NOT worth the potential risk. The Other Mrs. Menage
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09-22-2006, 11:38 AM	#6 (permalink)
NandTfromCA You get what you give Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 373 Location: Northern California Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:NandTfromCA	Re: Swinging and Coworkers You probably already know that it's a bad idea but other parts of your body are playing games with your mind. It's so much easier said then done to say "just don't do it"...but just don't do it. We haven't done it but have been very tempted with a very hot freak that works for me. When I am not all worked up about it, it's easy to see that it's not a good idea. There's so many other hotties and freaks out there. Mr. PS If you have a shitty job and don't mind losing it, go for it!
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09-22-2006, 08:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Swinging and Coworkers If it's not a job that you have a lot invested in, I'd say go for it. If it's a career.....danger Will Robinson! Because if you piss her off and things go sour, she has you. She'd have to be awfully damn hot for me to consider it. Pepper
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09-22-2006, 09:23 PM	#8 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,426 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple	Re: Swinging and Coworkers Dito and Dito again! Vol
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09-22-2006, 10:22 PM	#9 (permalink)
Mr. Truelove Wearing a evil grin Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,198 Location: Fort Wayne Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thetrueloves	Re: Swinging and Coworkers We have a certain couple we know that swings that we wouldn't mind seeing but unfortunatly they are our neighbors. Long ago we made that decision that neighbors were off limits, and as the time passes, it's easier. But I still have hopes that someday, they'll move! Maybe this will sort itself out with time and you won't be in the same enviroment.

09-23-2006, 12:42 AM	#10 (permalink)
curiousagain A gentleman never tells Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 2,131 Location: Southeastern USA Status: half of a couple	Re: Swinging and Coworkers Swinging with co-workers is like saying "hold my beer, watch this" It never leads to good things.
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09-24-2006, 12:56 AM	#14 (permalink)
hiswhooore Active Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 31 Location: Los Angeles Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HisWhooore	Re: Swinging and Coworkers Dang!! And she looks like she'd be good too!! O' well. Thanks for your reply's guys...I appreciate it.
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