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I'm not speechless, but I'll be using my inside voice.

 

I'm hoping folks who subscribe to this form of kink speak up, though, because I'm curious about how it works out of the theoretical realm.

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Nothing surprises me anymore.

 

I've seen BDSM contracts between the Dom and the sub and they are very similar. There is an extra element of humiliation in the cuckold contract...

 

I guess unless the D/S contract specifically states that. Personally, I know more about the BDSM genre than the cuckold one.

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I didn't read the whole thing, but I think I got the gist of what the contract is about.

 

I guess the key is the preface to the contract: "The contract can be changed to fit each couple's desires. We have found that each couple has their own desires and kinks. So print it out and feel free to change it to whatever works for you."

 

I'm with MJD in that I'd like to hear from those that do the cuckold thing. I don't get it, and it isn't for us, but I'm open to learning motivations and interests.

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Hmmm, thanks for posting this. It made me wonder if one of the couples that we know engages in some version of cuckold--though I'm not sure if they would quantify it as that.

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I am speechless.

 

:wow:, I support the right of people to choose their pleasure and at times we dabble in some light BDSM play but DAMN!

It's like the person walking down the street in pajamas in the middle of the winter. I support their right to do so but I still think they're a little off :duh:

 

I would love to hear from a Cuckold and what draws them to this lifestyle.

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Remember, just because you read it on a website doesn't mean anyone actually does that.

 

It is a good topic of conversation, and in the wide world of sex I wouldn't be surprised if someone did something like this, but it is not going to be the norm I think for even cuckolds.

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Hashem gave us only Ten Commandments. A cuckold gets 65? Anybody who lives in this world would be a little more than obtuse.

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Hell...to me, that's just a BDSM contract that has replaced the collar for a chastity device. Its sexual, mental, and financial domination. At least that how I read it.

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Ok, I'll speak up. My husband and I have been into cuckold play for many years. I think I may have mentioned it in some of my posts. We only know 3 other cuckold couples but plenty of guys who are in this lifestyle to dish up cuckold fantasies. From our experience, no one has a cuckold contract like that. Not to say people don't play that way but I agree with Chicup that this contract is not the norm. For us and others we know, it's a form of role play fantasy, just like dressing up as a nurse and doing that whole medical exam fantasy. We have normal lives outside of the bedroom, and when we invite a single guy over for cuckold play, we make conversation like normal people, until it's play time and we get in character. The 24/7 mental and financial domination in the contract is practically impossible to do, at least for people like us who have jobs, have vanilla friends, and on top of that balance it with a swinging lifestyle.

 

As a roleplaying fantasy, we certainly have done some of the sexual things in the contract. The most basic is really an extension of a MFM threesome, like having my husband watch while I have sex with another guy, have him eat out a creampie and get sloppy seconds. Sometimes it's an extramarital affair fantasy when I and the guy have sex without husband in the room. And sometimes the "humiliation" is taken outside like a play date. We discuss everything before we actually do it. There are some single guys who are really good at this lifestyle because they have a creative imagination to come up with new scenarios.

 

As for why we do it, part of it is a submissive game, just like people who are in the d/s lifestyle. My husband and I both have a submissive side sexually so it fits. Another reason is that my husband and I find the "humiliation" and the roleplay situation exciting. I never asked him why he likes it. It took him long enough, not to mention a lot of courage, to tell me he likes being a cuckold, although it didn't take me long to get used to the idea. :) I never felt a need for him to explain it.

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Ok, I'll speak up.

 

Thanks for sharing your experience. It always adds to the conversation when those that are involved in a scene share what they know. :)

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Reading it, reminds me of something I used to say or someone else.

 

No matter how hot a woman is, somebody is going to get tired of her shit.

 

This is not my kind of fantasy or kink. More power to those who do it.

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Just because you like to watch your loved one have sex doesn't mean you are submissive or enjoy humiliation. I can think of two other good reasons right off the top of my head.

 

1.) Sperm competition. Studies have shown that a man who watches his partner have sex will have a harder, even longer erection and ejaculate more semen (volume) a longer distance (force). This is strictly a biological function but can be like a drug to some men (meaning the extra intensity adds a rush like a drug).

 

2.) Visual curiosity. You cannot really see penetration if you're the one doing the penetration. It's much easier from a different point of view. That's why men are so much more involved with porn than women. For myself I get off on MFM threesomes when I'm with a woman I'm really attracted to physically. The more attracted the more intensity.

 

I guess enjoying a MFM threesome makes me a cuckold but I don't feel like one.

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Anything that makes me think I am having to refer to HR's Employee Handbook is a turn-off.  I can see some aspects of the cuckold/hotwife and BDSM scenes being interesting and understand why some are drawn to them, but sometimes it seems like in those scenes the minutiae takes on more importance than the act itself.

 

To each their own though, I guess if you are really into it, even the minutiae can be fun.

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Yikes!!!! A big part of what we like about swinging is that it simplifies our sex life, meaning that Mrs Doc and I have a sexual relationship within our marriage that we share with others.  We have our love making and we have recreational sex. We are equal in this and probably most other aspects of our relationship. The cuck contract certainly complicates a sexual relationship and clearly, there is no equality within  that agreement.  Clearly not for us.

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To each their own.  But for us this is a fun extra....that will not assume to restrict in any way our day to day activities....let alone daily lives together.

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I didn't read the contract because we're not into the cuckold thing, but we did modify our wedding vows to remove, "forsaking all others."  I don't know if anyone noticed, but no one said anything.

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