how did you deal?

[teenibopper27]

We're new to most of this. We've had one threesome experience with another woman and hopefully will have another one this coming week (we already had to reschedule this one due to body complications that arise every month lol). But I'm not so sure if I could handle the solo swinging thing. Soooo my question is, how did you deal with it the very first time it happened, and were you jealous at all?

[LikeMinds321]

Who says you have to go solo?

Most swingers don't swing solo. For those that don't, it is usually for a variety of good reasons that have nothing to do with being jealous.

Those that do include solo play typcially don't include it until after they've had enough swinging experience to know that they would be comfortable with it and have no jealousy issues lurking.

We didn't include solo play until well into swinging, and then, it was only with people we had already known a long while and had first swung with them together as a couple. Jealousy has never been an issue for us, even when we started out. If it had been, we would have resolved that problem before considering solo play.

Originally Posted by teenibopper27

Hi. We're completely new to this, as we've never done any swinging before and have just started talking about it. We're an engaged couple, been engaged for about 6 months. He turned 29 today and I turned 21 last monday (Memorial Day).

I took a look at your Introduction post (partially quoted above) and see that you're a young couple engaged to be married. In your other thread you have concerns about your fiance's reaction to swinging: I don't know how to respond to him... I'm concerned about you.

What is your and your boyfriend's reason for getting involved in swinging so soon in your relationship?

Who wants to swing solo, you or him?

LM