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Okay, first I'm not married. In fact I'm separated (geographically. I live in Germany, and we get along great). Second, my significant other is rather vanilla, with a bit of a curious side. I'd just like some perspective: First: she is very conservative, and just the thought of swinging makes her nervous. Even talk of the most soft swap is too much for her. I don't push it, but she's made it clear. Second: she has allowed for an open relationship on my end, but has made no mention of pursuits on her end. Third: She wants to hear about my exploits. Actually asked me to tell her what happens, with whom, and all the details. Third: A friend of hers has asked to watch next time I'm home and she is actually looking forward to an audience. Me, I'm cool with it. I'm cool with just about anything. I've explained to her that she is free to do as she pleases with whomever, and even asked that she share details with me. But she simply says she has no interest in looking or exploring; only wants to hear about mine. Now I know that no 2 people are alike, but my experience has been that this is the early phases of someone coming out of Vanilla-Land. Am I getting my hopes up too soon or is she simply extremely generous with her Beau? Thoughts?
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,679 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Status: a very married man Swing Lifestyle Name:SW_PA_Couple
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Sounds like things are working well. No two people approach this lifestyle the same way. Glad to hear from you again. I had noticed that you had not been here for a while. ~Michael |
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