A poll just for those who prefer separate room play.

[couplewanting50]

This poll is only for those who prefer — or choose only — to play in separate rooms.

[ShellyM]

Well, we don't fit into any of the categories; or perhaps I'm misunderstanding this. We play in separate rooms but we are both together on the premises. So we play separately but neither of us specifically plays alone.

[couplewanting50]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

Well, we don't fit into any of the categories; or perhaps I'm misunderstanding this. We play in separate rooms but we are both together on the premises. So we play separately but neither of us specifically plays alone.

You are in the first category listed. You choose to play in separate rooms, but do not play alone.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by couplewanting50

You are in the first category listed. You choose to play in separate rooms, but do not play alone.

Did I fail to mention that I went to public schools and do not read English well?
LOL, just teasing

[sexcupid]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

Did I fail to mention that I went to public schools and do not read English well?
LOL, just teasing

lmao....


I answered that we do play in separate rooms and we also play alone at times. I went to a house party by myself on Halloween...and on occasion we try to set up a separate play time with a playmate for 1 on 1 playtime. This happens rarely...but then again us going out to play period happens rarely as well. Maybe a few times a year.


Maria (who had to read the choices a few times to make sure I selected the right one...)

[undercovercpl]

We have been swinging for about a year. It started off with a few rules... No kissing (that one lasted about three minutes), Same room, and ALWAYS play together, oh and no anal and always wear condom. About six months into our new lifestyle our rules are no anal and always wear a condom. Other than that HAVE FUN!

[WesternSwing]

I won't say we "prefer" to play alone or in separate rooms, it really depends on who we are with, when, and what else is going on. But we are not opposed to playing in separate rooms and we both have the ability to play alone if we please. Sometimes its sexy from both standpoints: being alone with a partner so we're not distracted by what else is going on in the room, and meeting a playmate alone for a few hours of fun is sexy knowing each other is having a good time with someone else.

So I won't say we "prefer" it but it is "equal to" playing together, just a different sensation and a turn-on for other reasons.

Mr. WS

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

I won't say we "prefer" to play alone or in separate rooms, it really depends on who we are with, when, and what else is going on. But we are not opposed to playing in separate rooms and we both have the ability to play alone if we please. Sometimes its sexy from both standpoints: being alone with a partner so we're not distracted by what else is going on in the room, and meeting a playmate alone for a few hours of fun is sexy knowing each other is having a good time with someone else.

So I won't say we "prefer" it but it is "equal to" playing together, just a different sensation and a turn-on for other reasons.

Mr. WS

You are right, we are the same way. We do "prefer" separate room if we are asked...however, we are comfortable same bed, same room, one on the floor one on the bed, in the hot tub, well you get the idea LOL.

[Menage_a_Trois]

We play in separate rooms, but do not play alone

I picked this one because it is the closest to us - as a general rule we don't play alone. HOWEVER, there have been times we have and there will be times in the future I'm sure we will again.

For us we as a general rule don't ever seek out to play alone - however if at a club or party there is another couple there that we have played with and one of them is interested in playing and so is one of us - we are fine with that. It's someone we have a history with and feel comfortable with.

But in general we don't like the playing alone for one main reason - we don't like the distraction from worrying about if our SO is having fun - etc.

[Romalx]

Read & re-read and have to admit we play together only, really for the visual aspect of it, not to say I or her will not step out to have a drink or something, but we won't start without each other as for sure it is more fun when there is more of everything! i.e. a pair of this, a pair of that and 2 pairs of that!

[SCcpl40]

We prefer to be in the same room, but if we're at a house party with friends, it's ok to venture off.

[melways11]

I agree with the point, exy in other ways.
For reasons I do not understand, it is a big turn on to offer my gf for separate room sex.
It is the ultimate swap, and shows the greatest trust between us.

[sc4play]

We prefer same room,but sometime's if the situation is right we have done seperate room's

[cubnamy1995]

Hmmm.....

We like it all. Does that make us sluts?

[dan5619]

We play together in the same room, we play in seperate rooms, and we have played alone. The golden rules which is not broken is: We must have discussed and be in agreement with any of the different ways we play.

The main reason for us playing in the same room is either due to the type of play or the other couple with not play in seperate rooms.

The main reason for us playing in different rooms is due to the distraction caused by the other couple in the room.

The main reason for us to play alone is for the experience and or the person does not play with couples.

This is us!