Cuckolding: Another form of swinging?

[MissAanHubby]

for hubby and I. it started as swinging. then it evolved into a ( AS HUBBY AND I NOW CALL IT ) A " HALF OPEN RELATIONSHIP" I can play with his knowlage and he does not play with anyone. he enjoys the satisfaction of my getting what my sex drive needs that he can not provide. Its not to say i bed hop. I don't. but a night of really really good long lasting filling sex is so wonderful now and then. He so enjoys preping helping and being involved with my pleasure. and the memmories of the night last for several exciting weeks for us. you may say its a bit submissive in nature but it does get his little "Quick Shooter" stiff thats for sure. and I love him all the more.

An honest " HALF OPEN RELATIONSHIP" Is wonderful :-)


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[Chicup]

Originally Posted by MissAanHubby

but it does get his little "Quick Shooter" stiff thats for sure.

Which falls into the humiliation category.

[it'sso]

I'm left to wonder how many women would get off on their husband getting an occasional servicing from a younger, tighter lady and his relating a "blow by blow" rundown of events?

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by it'sso

I'm left to wonder how many women would get off on their husband getting an occasional servicing from a younger, tighter lady and his relating a "blow by blow" rundown of events?

There are women that do. Count on it. How many? No way to tell.

[Alura]

When we were first married and interested in exploring swinging, Mrs. Alura and I, because of impatience probably, tried "cuckolding" when she was presented with an opportunity. Of course, she was successful; she always was, but there were some problems.

First, she felt like she was talking to a rock when she tried to explain that it would be one time and one time only. The guy just couldn't understand why she would do what she was doing.

Second, when she told me the details, there were few that stood out. The others did not produce the exciting results we'd hoped for. She felt that, had she still been single, the date would have ended after the first kiss, but she persevered for the experience. She wanted to at least get fucked so she'd have something to tell me.

Third, the whole thing was boring for both of us. We decided cuckolding was a waste of time and opted to continue our search for the right couple. Were we ever glad we did! When it happened, it turned out to be as thrilling as cuckolding had been underwhelming.

Mr. Alura

[couplers]

Originally Posted by it'sso

I'm left to wonder how many women would get off on their husband getting an occasional servicing from a younger, tighter lady and his relating a "blow by blow" rundown of events?

Hi, Petra here. I did and still do. Some are younger, I don't know about tighter, and I enjoy the "blow by blow," even more when I can watch.

[youngcouple10]

I never like the phrase cuckolding! I love sharing my wife, the smell of another guy, feeling a freshly fucked and cum filled pussy. but I hate the thought that its to embaressed about it. I have a big dick, some have had big some smaller. I'm good in bed. Some guys are as good most aren't. Cuckolding is just another made up fantasy. In reality I just love having a common intrest with my wife which is a hugh turn on for both of use and fucking the shit out of her as she tells me every detail of the nights events. Just nice to be prelubed pussy lol. The hottest thing I think is when your wife puts her self out there how much attention is waiting, and she glows for a week and self confedance goes threw the roof.

Ryan

[glassdj56]

wife likes one on one with a new partner - doesn't feel like she's putting on a show for me and I like her renewed confidence and sometimes a pre lubed sweet surprise for me! definitely a turn on for me .

[metroman]

Originally Posted by flkeyscouple

I know there are many that will agree with your situation, and get excited by it, but I just don't get it.

I would hate to portray the image of a cheater - and since the guy she is playing with doesn't know you know - he thinks she is cheating. I am SO VERY proud of my relationship with my husband - how honest, loving, fulfilling, and satisfying it is - that I don't want ANYONE to think that either of us would be in a cheating situation.

I'm sure there are many that agree with you, but I would think there are many that would agree with me too. It's not just that we play only together (and we do) but it's the whole image of our relationship - it's important to me that others know we have a great relationship.

I hope that all makes sense.

Sarah

Sarah, I like the way you think and as a guy, I totally agree with it !

[youngcouple10]

Originally Posted by flkeyscouple

I know there are many that will agree with your situation, and get excited by it, but I just don't get it.

I would hate to portray the image of a cheater - and since the guy she is playing with doesn't know you know - he thinks she is cheating. I am SO VERY proud of my relationship with my husband - how honest, loving, fulfilling, and satisfying it is - that I don't want ANYONE to think that either of us would be in a cheating situation.

I'm sure there are many that agree with you, but I would think there are many that would agree with me too. It's not just that we play only together (and we do) but it's the whole image of our relationship - it's important to me that others know we have a great relationship.

I hope that all makes sense.

Sarah

I like this Sarah. Makes very good point. I want any guy to know that me and my husband know everything, I don't want to get weirded out but I tell them my husband knows all about this and were I am at all times! I do leave out that He knows every inch of him and get great detail of the events, And leave out that he always eats me out after there done. Dont want them to be scared away you know!

Great post tho

Melissa & Ryan

[tojoe59]

I was the bull in a cockold cpuple. He knew I was working on her and she did not hide it. I would call her at home chat with her & set up a date. She would get herself ready and I would pick her up. even say good night to him. We would get a room and I would F**her. At the end of the night I would drop her off. She would tell him about what I did and then her would enjoy every thing I did and the mess I left behind. It was his & her kink. I was happy because she was great in bed. She liked it because she had 2 guys to make her hot. He liked that she was extra warmed up . Seo we all win.

[metroman]

Originally Posted by tojoe59

I was the bull in a cockold cpuple. He knew I was working on her and she did not hide it. I would call her at home chat with her & set up a date. She would get herself ready and I would pick her up. even say good night to him. We would get a room and I would F**her. At . end of the night I would drop her off. She would tell him about what I did and then her would enjoy every thing I did and the mess I left behind. It was his & her kink. I was happy because she was great in bed. She liked it because she had 2 guys to make her hot. He liked that she was extra warmed up . Search Engine Optimization we all win.

Not to rain on the parade here but do consider this. Our friends got involved in this activity with her dating with his permission & encouragement. She would come home & tell all but do to work schedules they started drifting apart; then there were meetings that were Not disclosed unless he specifally asked then they did 3 somes to supplement. After 2 yrs of this: she felt "given away", "not valued as his prize possession" - her self esteem had gone to -0- and he had turned to internet porn. They divorced. So "No" I don;t think it's swinging. If I had a million dollars, I wouldn't willingly hand it to aquaintences to play with for a night & return it & think it couldn't be deminishing with each person using it - my wife is worth a million dollars to me so what we do, we do as a "Couple" together. It's great for the Bull - No down side. Is it good for you or me as a Couple? Things that make you go "ummmmm".
The "bull" loves it but in the Big Picture is it good for the couple.

[Alura]

I have to agree with Metroman. The real attraction to swinging for Laura and me was the closeness we experienced by doing it together. I have to hand it to a couple who can endure cuckolding and even enhance their marriage with it, but (in my opinion) it cannot be swinging as Laura and I knew it.

For several years we had a regular "playcouple" who had been married thirty years. Apparently, she decided having an affair was about the same as swinging. That went on until she and her "bull" decided to leave their families (he had three young children at home) and live together. It lasted a few months until he returned to his wife and family.

In the meantime her husband, a college professor, met a younger graduate student and "found communication he'd never experienced before." They're married now and thrilled with each other.

His ex-wife lives alone in a one-bedroom apartment.

Laura and I were so appalled with the situation that we never looked for another playcouple, thinking that what we didn't know might, indeed, hurt us.

Alura

[snapps]

Originally Posted by LOL_OMG

Denlin

I don't want this to come off harsh, but in my eyes what your wife is doing is wrong on at least two levels. One, she's having sex with her boss, that scenario looks like a big minefield to me. Two, you both are encouraging a cheater, which in the bosses mind he is, even if he's single he thinks your wife is cheating on you. I hope things work out ok but my thoughts are that we will be hearing bad news from you down the road.

Mr. Lol

I agree with this..... Even thgough it seems everything is all -good right now.... this isnt gonna last long the way things are going... I see a hard dose of reality setting in very soon, and its not gonna end pretty. I mean why would you be ok with your wife giving off the perception to another man that shes cheating on you and playing you for a fool?? Even more so, its with someone at the job... Her Boss!!!.... I dont know, i mean, i consider myself to be very open-minded, but even that is a bit much for me to understand... I dont know about this man, but good luck though...

[couplers]

Hey, Petra again. Sex with someone at work, let alone someone in the reporting chain? Never.


The only people that know of our sexual arrangements other than our play partners is my sister. If we are ever outed a work there would be talk of course, but I think everyone that counts would be professional enough to not let it affect anything. I would think that many would defend it as our private lives just out of principle.


But screwing the boss or subordinate is a betrayal of workplace order.