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Has anyone ever used craigslist to meet other swingers?

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We used craigslist twice and it just turned creepy people which is probably why we were even more curious. Has anyone used craigslist as a means to find someone to play with and turned out to be a good experience?

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Nope never have, never will I hear creepy people use craigslist and there's no telling what you'll find there.

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When I was a couple, we did and with mixed results. We found some great people there and I remain friends with one couple. The key is screening:) There's a great post somewhere around here that I can't find - how to have success with Craig's List. I'll keep looking...

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I sold a car via Craigslist and successfully re-homed my son's birds, but that's about it. That said, there are good people everywhere and I can see how every once in awhile you might find them in a variety of ways, including Craigslist.

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Thanks guys. We just ran into the creepy side of town lol. So we are leaving meeting couples to play with for this forum and SLS only. Its just better.

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We did and have gotten mostly fakes and guys. We met both couples we have been with on there. The first was exactly what their pictures were like. It was not the best experience but she was nice. We did rush into meeting them. The second couple was nicer but not exactly up to date pictures. We have been flaked on and had endless emails with others. That is all before we learned about other sites.

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I look on Craigslist, but only as entertainment. I have seen several couples that I recognize from SLS...and for some reason take that as a warning sign.

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It depends on what you are looking for. For us, zero luck as a couple looking for a couple. We had better luck when looking for single guys for threesome. We have a single girlfriend who seems to always find the good ones when looking for another female or a couple. Nowadays, just hearing how people get robbed and worse from CL meetings, I just don't see it as a good source for meeting people.

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I have primarily used CL to look for people online. Its free, compared to other sites that require sometimes hefty membership fees. I've been able to find women and couples who wanted some online flirty fun which was great. I've also been able to find 3 other couples who let me watch them have sex in a hotel. Another time I found 3 women who wanted a full body erotic massage, which was fantastic by the way.

 

I'm sure other sites can be good, depending on the location you are looking in and how much you want to spend. I will admit that CL is full of fakes and scams and frustrating lack of responses. However, if you put time and effort into it, be wordy with what you want and willing to post it in multiple areas, you can have success.

 

Unfortunately, in my area (Tampa Bay) CL doesn't have a lot of people interested in the things I'm looking for. Since we have such a vibrant swinger club scene most of the people here tend to do that. Not much online activity as far as I've been able to see. Of course since my wife isn't fully onboard yet, its hard anyway because most people in my area also only want another woman. Its been hard to find people who are willing to play with a guy.

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There's a terrifying signal/noise ratio problem with Craigslist.

 

Screen, screen, screen, communicate, communicate, communicate. Mandate skype video chat for verification before you agree to meet in a public place.

 

Having said all that, we're two for two on outstanding connections over craigslist, but we probably spent ten total hours screening fifty plus responses to get there. :)

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Unfortunately, creepy people are EVERYWHERE! The platform for meeting makes absolutely no difference its about screening & taking the appropriate safety measures. I've had mixed results meeting people everywhere. I've met 2 couples on CL & had every couple I planned to meet on SLS stand me up. Every single man on SLS has shown up for our meets and none of the single men on CL have shown up. So I don't think you can make sweeping generalizations about a platform, unfortunately the world contains plenty of flakes & fakes and since swingers are simply a slice of the world, odds are there will be plenty there as well.

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