Emotional & logistical problems of an open marriage

[CallMeLoki]

Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98

Ditto that!

[2plus2fun]

Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98

lol

[WannabeSif]

CLOSE THIS DAMNED THREAD ALREADY! How do I unsubscribe to it? I am so sick of seeing all the BULLSHIT about me already! Takes two to tango, and one to plant the suggestion.....Boundaries my ass. The whole friggin scene was past my boundaries.....I was not emotionally equipped to handle it.

Thanks.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by WannabeSif

CLOSE THIS DAMNED THREAD ALREADY! How do I unsubscribe to it? I am so sick of seeing all the BULLSHIT about me already! Takes two to tango, and one to plant the suggestion.....Boundaries my ass. The whole friggin scene was past my boundaries.....I was not emotionally equipped to handle it.

Thanks.

User CP

Edit email/password.

Change the email to something invalid.

Never see another email from SB again.

Profit.

This thread is far to valuable a lesson to close, in fact it should be stickied.

[MrkLin]

Originally Posted by WannabeSif

I was not emotionally equipped to handle it.

FINALLY - a factual statement in this thread...!


Suggestion - delete the bookmark to this board and never look at it again, and by all means, quit coming back. Seriously - if it pisses you off that much, why do you keep coming back to read it? Delete your profile, eliminate the bookmark to this site from your web browser, then forget this place even exists.

I doubt you'll do that. You both love the attention. I have a feeling that you're both reading this and loving every minute of it.

The only way to prove me wrong is to never reply to this thread again.

[ANGEDKY(mr)]

I'm speechless.

You're tired of seeing our opinion to a situation that YOU WANTED, DEFENDED and RECIEVED, all against our advice? The IRONY being said advice was soliticed by YOU ??? (read: you as a couple--you both did post here correct??)


Talk about Bullshit Your condescending tone really really pissed me off--How about taking some responsibility for your actions??

motherofgod my head hurts


............Think of the bunny

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by WannabeSif

CLOSE THIS DAMNED THREAD ALREADY! How do I unsubscribe to it? I am so sick of seeing all the BULLSHIT about me already! Takes two to tango, and one to plant the suggestion.....Boundaries my ass. The whole friggin scene was past my boundaries.....I was not emotionally equipped to handle it.

Thanks.

User CP (top menu) - scroll down you will see a list of your "subscribed threads" and the option to "unsubscribe" to any of them.

[theboy]

I just read this entire thread. Epic. Reminds me of another forum I post at where a lot of personal advice is often asked, and ignored. Here's what's often posted to summarize it, and always makes me laugh:

OP: "Help! HELP! I'm stuck in a well!!!"

posters1-4: "Climb! Climb up and take our hands!"

OP: "I'm thinking I should dig... should I dig?"

poster5: "NO! I was trapped in a well, and digging is a bad idea! Climb out!"

posters6-8: "Were lowering ropes! Take hold of a rope!"

poster9: "I've even tied a harness to the end of this one!"

OP: "I can feel the ropes, but I don't want to hold onto them... should I dig?"

poster10: "No! If you dig, you'll hit water, and then you'll be proper fucked. I should know, I almost drowned."

OP: "I dug a little bit just now, and I haven't hit water. I'm gonna keep digging..."

posters11-18: "No! Climb! Climb out!"

OP: "Guys, I'm seriously stuck in this well! Help! HELP!!!"

poster19: "I was trapped in a well once. It took me two years, but I managed to build a climbing machine that pulled me to safety out of a well bucket and a pocket watch. I'm dropping the blueprints, extra buckets, and an assortment of pocket watches."

poster20: "I've engineered a jet-pack that will rocket you to safety. Stay where you are and we'll lower it down!""

"OP: "Thanks for your help, guys. I'm gonna keep digging. I'll find the Mines of Moria and I'll just walk to the surface."

**posters1-20 piss in the well**

poster21: "Guys, seriously... stop peeing in the well.""

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by WannabeSif

CLOSE THIS DAMNED THREAD ALREADY! How do I unsubscribe to it? I am so sick of seeing all the BULLSHIT about me already! Takes two to tango, and one to plant the suggestion.....Boundaries my ass. The whole friggin scene was past my boundaries.....I was not emotionally equipped to handle it.

Thanks.

[ncmd_couple]

Originally Posted by 2inSanDiego4u

Haha, I have one of those on my desk!

[azaria_lyn]

Wow, I just read your playtime agreement and it almost brought tears to my eyes! This could be adapted for ANY type of relationship where each person is committed to loving the other and helping them grow. I'm going to share it with my fiance....I think it's a great "contract" to read together

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by azaria_lyn

Wow, I just read your playtime agreement and it almost brought tears to my eyes! This could be adapted for ANY type of relationship where each person is committed to loving the other and helping them grow. I'm going to share it with my fiance....I think it's a great "contract" to read together

Please, for the love of Jebus, read the thread.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Please, for the love of Jebus, read the thread.

AMEN!

[CallMeLoki]

Originally Posted by azaria_lyn

Wow, I just read your playtime agreement and it almost brought tears to my eyes! This could be adapted for ANY type of relationship where each person is committed to loving the other and helping them grow. I'm going to share it with my fiance....I think it's a great "contract" to read together

As said, read the whole thread. Believe me, that agreement brings tears to my eyes too, but for a different reason. Commitments only work when they are kept, and commitments aren't always kept when emotions (and other factors) become involved.

Loki

[Oleg&Lena]

Hmmm.... Quite edifying story....