Does anyone use Swing Clubs as a cheap place to have sex in PRIVATE without swinging?

Mulder · 04-18-2004, 01:21 PM

Before, my wife and I were "married" we went to a local swing club several times just so we could have a cheap, private room in which to have sex. Now that we are married with a three year (who still sleeps in our bed), five dogs, and a mother in law who lives with us (and helps provide childcare) going back to these clubs for a little "privacy" seems like a good option, and much cheaper than hotels. Is this very common, and do these clubs usually consider it "unethical" to pay their fees, with NO intention of actually swingng?

MrsBliss · 04-18-2004, 01:31 PM

I don't know! But in the Netherlands the clubs are just as expensive as a hotelroom.

De and Ci · 04-18-2004, 02:08 PM

Interesting, I would have never thought of using a swing club as a motel room. However you must have found a cheap swing club. The on-premise club in our area charges $50 or so. You can get a cheap motel room for less than that.

OhioCouple · 04-18-2004, 02:17 PM

Our clubs are also between about $40.00-$50.00 per visit, in addition all require membership fees. Some will tho however allow you to stay over night, but I believe you have to request that in advance. I'm not sure. Still though, it you want to have a sexually charged evening and enjoy the company of others and have sex away from the kids, without the expectation to stay over night, it's a win-win situation.

As for the clubs thinking it would be un-ethical. There is no pressure to swing in a club (at least not the ones we have been to nor any that I've read about). I wouldn't worry about that at all.

Mulder · 04-18-2004, 03:03 PM

The last one we went to was in Indianpolis (I think it was called La Plaz) and was around $20.00 for both. But that WAS about ten years ago! I am surprised that there are not more swing clubs in RURAL areas OUTSIDE the city where there would be fewer ORDINANCES with which to harrass them. Where, I live there is not even ZONING and it's only twenty minutes from the city.

***JustAskJulie*** · 04-23-2004, 05:18 PM

I would also think that typically a swingers club would run you as much as a cheap hotel room... depending on the area... much more. But as others said there is no requirement that you have sex with others there. Although knowing the often limited numbers of private rooms you might get some dirty looks when you walk out alone (just the two of you) and others waiting in line realize there wasn't any swinging keeping that room busy.

willisensei · 04-24-2004, 01:16 PM

Not swing clubs but when we visit the inlaws for an extended period of time, we have been known to visit the video arcade of the local ABS for a place to scratch our itches. And no there aren't any gloryholes but we do get lots of offers to join us

tisha · 04-24-2004, 05:47 PM

Not us, Thats not what they are for... Mrs. K

phil52 · 04-25-2004, 02:18 AM

where are they

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04-18-2004, 01:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
Mulder Active Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 23 Location: A Red State Status: Couple Male/Female	Does anyone use Swing Clubs as a cheap place to have sex in PRIVATE without swinging? Before, my wife and I were "married" we went to a local swing club several times just so we could have a cheap, private room in which to have sex. Now that we are married with a three year (who still sleeps in our bed), five dogs, and a mother in law who lives with us (and helps provide childcare) going back to these clubs for a little "privacy" seems like a good option, and much cheaper than hotels. Is this very common, and do these clubs usually consider it "unethical" to pay their fees, with NO intention of actually swingng?

04-18-2004, 01:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
MrsBliss Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 130 Location: The Netherlands Status: Happy together	I don't know! But in the Netherlands the clubs are just as expensive as a hotelroom. __________________ Today love eachother more than yesterday but less than tomorrow

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OhioCouple Retired Mod Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Our clubs are also between about $40.00-$50.00 per visit, in addition all require membership fees. Some will tho however allow you to stay over night, but I believe you have to request that in advance. I'm not sure. Still though, it you want to have a sexually charged evening and enjoy the company of others and have sex away from the kids, without the expectation to stay over night, it's a win-win situation. As for the clubs thinking it would be un-ethical. There is no pressure to swing in a club (at least not the ones we have been to nor any that I've read about). I wouldn't worry about that at all.

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Mulder Active Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 23 Location: A Red State Status: Couple Male/Female	The last one we went to was in Indianpolis (I think it was called La Plaz) and was around $20.00 for both. But that WAS about ten years ago! I am surprised that there are not more swing clubs in RURAL areas OUTSIDE the city where there would be fewer ORDINANCES with which to harrass them. Where, I live there is not even ZONING and it's only twenty minutes from the city.

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*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 25,710 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 78	I would also think that typically a swingers club would run you as much as a cheap hotel room... depending on the area... much more. But as others said there is no requirement that you have sex with others there. Although knowing the often limited numbers of private rooms you might get some dirty looks when you walk out alone (just the two of you) and others waiting in line realize there wasn't any swinging keeping that room busy.

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