Party Protocol

[exploringRM]

We recently attended a party with a couple (fake names Joe & Joan) was there that we have been hanging out a bit. It's a party group we have been with for awhile, and we invited the other couple to join (at host's request) For a variety of reasons my wife has not had a chance to play with Joe, but I was with Joan last month at a party.

So we sort of thought she might have the opportunity at the recent party but we didn't have any solid plans. As the party play started Joe got entwined with a different woman, a friend of ours, which was fine. I think at one point he was into a FMF.

At some point later my wife and Joe were together with things getting going when Joe left, said he would be back. After a wait another male friend joined my wife and she had no idea if Joe was coming back or when. He eventually did but by that time wife and other male friend were having fun.

Wife felt a little abandoned as things were getting hot and he disappeared. I think Joe may have felt left out too as she was with the other guy when he eventually came back. I wasn't in the room and don't know how long he was gone.

I sent an email asking the couple if they had a good time and also said we'll get together just the four of us for some dedicated time. I've not heard back and generally I have gotten responses pretty quick. (The mail was read). So I'm wondering if he is miffed due to wife playing with other guy. His wife and I eventually played together that night.

I'm just looking for comments/opinions on how you have felt in either my wife's or Joe's shoes (well there were no shoes on, hehe). It's not as if we had spoken plans to play and also Joe was not without his own fun, though with a different woman (or women).

[WildMiCouple]

I'd send them another email with a couple dates you're available to meet. Then I'd let them know how your wife was disappointed that she didn't get to finish what Joe and her had started. Tell them that she was very worked up when he left her and the other guy was the lucky recipient when Joe didn't return quickly enough. Remind him that he has some unfinished business with your wife

Good luck.
Brett

[exploringRM]

I did get a response, other couple had been busy and I don't think there's any issues, still friends But still would like opinions on the topic.

[The Fuse]

Originally Posted by WildMiCouple

I'd send them another email with a couple dates you're available to meet. Then I'd let them know how your wife was disappointed that she didn't get to finish what Joe and her had started. Tell them that she was very worked up when he left her and the other guy was the lucky recipient when Joe didn't return quickly enough. Remind him that he has some unfinished business with your wife

Good luck.
Brett

Fantastic response!!