threesome in a hotel - etiquette

doublebed · 03-23-2010, 05:46 AM

Hi all,

my partner and I are planning to take a double bed hotel room in a city we're going to visit. Turns out we might have a threesome there with a person we found. I was wondering about the etiquette.

First, my partner does not want the other person to stay over night, as in actually sleep with us. Secondly, I've only paid for a double bed.

Is it better to sneak in the other person as a guest (not even sure if that's ok), since there won't actually be any sleeping, or do I somehow pay for a third person? In any case we would be arriving after midnight.

thanks for any advice,
db

spicylife42 · 03-23-2010, 08:22 AM

The third persons I would think would only be there for a "visit" and I would not think any extra payment would be required.

In your chats with this person are the local...or are they also coming from out of town. Just be honesty and tell them after play time is over your and your partner enjoy some time alone.

VegasLee · 03-23-2010, 08:24 AM

You should not have to "sneak" anyone into your room.

As long as they are not staying the night you are allowed to have guests visit you in your room.

I would be sure your "guest" knows you have no intention of them spending the night ahead of time.

Bringing someone to your room after midnight, playing for a hour or so many would think they would get to stay and sleep.

SecretAsianMan · 03-23-2010, 12:05 PM

The etiquette would have to be worked out between y'all and the third party that you're bringing to play with y'all.

... for example, if I was the third and I had to travel any significant distance to play with y'all, I would at least ask about accomodations for the night (especially if I was arriving after midnight).

Talk to your third and find out what they'd like ... and see how well that meshes with the desires of y'all as a couple. Most of the time, they will be pretty accomodating.

And I agree... there's no need to "sneak" someone into your room - guests are generally allowed to visit any place I've ever stayed at. The hotel / motel does not ever need to get involved in your business.

doublebed · 03-24-2010, 06:24 AM

Thank you for your answers!

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03-23-2010, 05:46 AM	#1 (permalink)
doublebed Registered User Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 2 Location: Germany Status: Couple	threesome in a hotel - etiquette Hi all, my partner and I are planning to take a double bed hotel room in a city we're going to visit. Turns out we might have a threesome there with a person we found. I was wondering about the etiquette. First, my partner does not want the other person to stay over night, as in actually sleep with us. Secondly, I've only paid for a double bed. Is it better to sneak in the other person as a guest (not even sure if that's ok), since there won't actually be any sleeping, or do I somehow pay for a third person? In any case we would be arriving after midnight. thanks for any advice, db

03-23-2010, 08:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
spicylife42 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 46 Location: Mississippi Status: Couple	Re: threesome in a hotel - etiquette The third persons I would think would only be there for a "visit" and I would not think any extra payment would be required. In your chats with this person are the local...or are they also coming from out of town. Just be honesty and tell them after play time is over your and your partner enjoy some time alone.

03-23-2010, 08:24 AM	#3 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,951 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: threesome in a hotel - etiquette You should not have to "sneak" anyone into your room. As long as they are not staying the night you are allowed to have guests visit you in your room. I would be sure your "guest" knows you have no intention of them spending the night ahead of time. Bringing someone to your room after midnight, playing for a hour or so many would think they would get to stay and sleep.
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03-23-2010, 12:05 PM	#4 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: threesome in a hotel - etiquette The etiquette would have to be worked out between y'all and the third party that you're bringing to play with y'all. ... for example, if I was the third and I had to travel any significant distance to play with y'all, I would at least ask about accomodations for the night (especially if I was arriving after midnight). Talk to your third and find out what they'd like ... and see how well that meshes with the desires of y'all as a couple. Most of the time, they will be pretty accomodating. And I agree... there's no need to "sneak" someone into your room - guests are generally allowed to visit any place I've ever stayed at. The hotel / motel does not ever need to get involved in your business.
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03-24-2010, 06:24 AM	#5 (permalink)
doublebed Registered User Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 2 Location: Germany Status: Couple	Re: threesome in a hotel - etiquette Thank you for your answers!

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