Going to a club for the first time....

[Mrz. Pac Man]

Well the New Canadian couple is heading out to a swing club here for the first time...I am a little nervous but excited...anyone have any advice for us?
Thanks

[ncmd_couple]

Be yourselves, relax, have fun together with no expectations, and the two of you will be just fine.

Welcome to the Swinger's Board!

S

[fun4Ds]

We hope you enjoy your visit, just take time and absorb the atmosphere. Watch the drinks and don't be discouraged if you don't find a match. Although for us, we just couldn't contain ourselves the first night at a club, so we can understand if ya do find that match.

I noticed in your introduction you had some experience with friends. Will they be Joining you ?

Be sure to let us know how it goes, with perhaps a good experience post, or even a club review.

Either way, enjoy and be safe


Fun4ds

[Additude]

Yeah,

Don't do anything stupid...and stay out of trouble.

If the cops call and want us to come pick you up then you can just spend the night in jail!! That'll teach you...

hehehehehe...all in fun of course....oh and, go with the flow and have some fun!!

[Japafloridian]

Please go there knowing you have the option not to participate...many at those places are mere voyeurs, which is a blast in itself.
perhaps a first step is to just play w/ each other amongst others..then progress from there.
no decent club has any minimum expectations of participation!

[monkeycouple]

Our first experience at a club event, was a hotel party in the downstairs ballroom. It was within the first 10 minutes were there, my ex made a pass at the club owner's male of the couple. We were told we didnt need to take the beginners' class, it seemed we was doing this for years, we fit right in--in fact we hadnt been swingers very long.

Then years later, finally attended our first on-premise club function, and started DJ'ing their events the very next weekend and asked to write their broadcasts. I guess we have this gift.

Now I am writing for the Lifestyle.

So, goes to prove, you never know where you fit in, until you give it a try and never judge a book by its cover. Attending the clubs, only proved, that we totally understand the Lifestyle.

Now, we own a swingers club created from scratch, all after five years of lightly being in the Lifestyle.

Proof of the pudding, go, and have a BLAST!

Originally Posted by Japafloridian

Please go there knowing you have the option not to participate...many at those places are mere voyeurs, which is a blast in itself.
perhaps a first step is to just play w/ each other amongst others..then progress from there.
no decent club has any minimum expectations of participation!

[sxmcouple]

We're thinking of making our first venture to a club and would love to hear your recounting of your first trip. Thanks