First time at a club

theeroticcouple · 11-30-2009, 02:24 PM

Hi, the wife and I are going to Vegas for my birthday and she and I agree on going to a swing club. She is really excited about it. I'm excited also. This will be out first time. I want to take it slow and watch or be watched then may ease into letting guys jack off on her while I play with her. She really wants that to happen. She does not mind if I hook up with another female as long as I'm safe.
This might be a crazy question but here goes.
When my wife and I have a hot session of sticky sex. Right after I ejaculate. All the nasty,lustful sex thoughts just vanishes. In about 30-60 mins it comes back. I'm just thinking if my wife and go through with some of the things we want to do and I shoot my wad. But she is still going at it. I'm not sure how I'm going to feel.
At home I can shoot a little in on her then I can lick it up like crazy. I would do just about anything. But as soon as I cum. I;m thinking. Yuck , what ws I thinking.
Sorry for the ramble..

padoc · 11-30-2009, 02:37 PM

Ha! That's because when you're doing the deed, all the blood is in your "little head" so you brain doesn't have sufficient oxygen to try to invoke the societal imposed inhibitions that otherwise governs our activities. Then too, guys are wired to work to completion while women can go and go like the proverbial bunny.

If you and the wife are on the same page and you recognize that sex under club circumstances is purely recreational, then hold out as long as you can. Once you've cum, if she's still into it, its selfish to demand that she stop and silly feel anything but joy at her pleasure. You've had yours, let her have hers!

theeroticcouple · 11-30-2009, 02:52 PM

Ahh- I have to agree with you. Thank you for the reply. I was talking to my wife about it and we both agree to take it slow and maybe I should wack it before we get there. I really do not want to I want to have a big load for her or who ever. But I do not want to wait and them 10-15 into I bust. Hmm. I guess I will see. I'm not going to worry myself about. At least try not to. Thanks again for the reply

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11-30-2009, 02:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
theeroticcouple Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 2 Location: Georgia Status: Couple	First time at a club Hi, the wife and I are going to Vegas for my birthday and she and I agree on going to a swing club. She is really excited about it. I'm excited also. This will be out first time. I want to take it slow and watch or be watched then may ease into letting guys jack off on her while I play with her. She really wants that to happen. She does not mind if I hook up with another female as long as I'm safe. This might be a crazy question but here goes. When my wife and I have a hot session of sticky sex. Right after I ejaculate. All the nasty,lustful sex thoughts just vanishes. In about 30-60 mins it comes back. I'm just thinking if my wife and go through with some of the things we want to do and I shoot my wad. But she is still going at it. I'm not sure how I'm going to feel. At home I can shoot a little in on her then I can lick it up like crazy. I would do just about anything. But as soon as I cum. I;m thinking. Yuck , what ws I thinking. Sorry for the ramble..

11-30-2009, 02:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
padoc Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 155 Location: FT Myers Fl Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:padoc	Re: First time at a club Ha! That's because when you're doing the deed, all the blood is in your "little head" so you brain doesn't have sufficient oxygen to try to invoke the societal imposed inhibitions that otherwise governs our activities. Then too, guys are wired to work to completion while women can go and go like the proverbial bunny. If you and the wife are on the same page and you recognize that sex under club circumstances is purely recreational, then hold out as long as you can. Once you've cum, if she's still into it, its selfish to demand that she stop and silly feel anything but joy at her pleasure. You've had yours, let her have hers!

11-30-2009, 02:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
theeroticcouple Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 2 Location: Georgia Status: Couple	Re: First time at a club Ahh- I have to agree with you. Thank you for the reply. I was talking to my wife about it and we both agree to take it slow and maybe I should wack it before we get there. I really do not want to I want to have a big load for her or who ever. But I do not want to wait and them 10-15 into I bust. Hmm. I guess I will see. I'm not going to worry myself about. At least try not to. Thanks again for the reply

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