Christmas House Party Ideas?

[The Fuse]

Well I searched for this and was surprised not to find any existing threads. If anyone knows of any, please point them out!

A friend is hosting an XXXMas Theme house party next Saturday the 5th. The problem is, he doesn't know what kinds of things to do for that kind of party. We are looking for adult Christmas decorations, games, music, competitions, etc. I think he is looking mainly for decorations.

Anyone? We mean to go beyond the usual "naughty ornaments and ladies in Santa's helper lingerie" sort of thing, though those things are more than welcome.

Thanks for any ideas.

[xxxboxy]

mistletoe...lots and lots of mistletoe...on belts, men's, women's, garter. That's all I've got...

[fun4Ds]

This is a tough one Fuse. I think possibly because X-mass is such a family orientated holliday....

Not sure if the attendees all know one another already ? I mean, I wouldn't want to scare anyone off. Especially someone new to swinging or rather a first time house party guest.

I know a couple of games that might be twisted into an adult atmosphere as ice breakers or getting to know one another.

(Ho, Ho, Ho, who do you know.)

Give each guest a sheet of paper with questions. Then have them go around and mingle with each other. The goal being, having someone sign off on each question.

1. Who has ridden in a horse drawn carriage ?
2. Who has their tree up already ? (since its early in the season)
3. Who is done shopping ?
4. Who knows all the reindeer's names ?
5. Who has never had a white X-Mass ? (if some guests are from the south ? )

The vanilla stuff first....... You know.

Then....

6. Who has done a soft swap ?
7. MFM ?
8. FMF ?
9. Full swap ?
10. Same room only ?
11. Separate room/ plays solo ?
12. Who own more than 6 adult toys ?

This game should include a door prize, otherwise I'd be asking people these questions anyhow (you know me. LOL) Besides, its hard not to get to know someone asking questions.

Another game might be :

Put something in a sealed X-Mass stocking like a sex toy.....(or something Vanilla even) Then pass it around and have the guests guess whats in it. (be clever) Watching others laugh and having FUN, always turns me on

Hope these ideas might help people in getting around and getting to know one another and also what each person is into

Sounds like a good party, especially if you guys are there

[spicylife42]

every one could bring a $10/$20 dollar gift and play dirty santa! That would be a blast!

[The Fuse]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

This is a tough one Fuse. I think possibly because X-mass is such a family orientated holliday....

Not sure if the attendees all know one another already ? I mean, I wouldn't want to scare anyone off. Especially someone new to swinging or rather a first time house party guest.

I know a couple of games that might be twisted into an adult atmosphere as ice breakers or getting to know one another.

(Ho, Ho, Ho, who do you know.)

Give each guest a sheet of paper with questions. Then have them go around and mingle with each other. The goal being, having someone sign off on each question.

1. Who has ridden in a horse drawn carriage ?
2. Who has their tree up already ? (since its early in the season)
3. Who is done shopping ?
4. Who knows all the reindeer's names ?
5. Who has never had a white X-Mass ? (if some guests are from the south ? )

The vanilla stuff first....... You know.

Then....

6. Who has done a soft swap ?
7. MFM ?
8. FMF ?
9. Full swap ?
10. Same room only ?
11. Separate room/ plays solo ?
12. Who own more than 6 adult toys ?

This game should include a door prize, otherwise I'd be asking people these questions anyhow (you know me. LOL) Besides, its hard not to get to know someone asking questions.

Another game might be :

Put something in a sealed X-Mass stocking like a sex toy.....(or something Vanilla even) Then pass it around and have the guests guess whats in it. (be clever) Watching others laugh and having FUN, always turns me on

Hope these ideas might help people in getting around and getting to know one another and also what each person is into

Sounds like a good party, especially if you guys are there

Yes, this is a tough theme. fun4Ds, thanks for the great ideas. Your ideas have given me a little jolt of further ideas for questions to put in the list.... who's been to this local club party or that one more than, say, five times, who's ridden the mechanical bull at a local bar, who's done other local things of lifestyle interest. People could collect names, and whoever fills in the most questions gets a prize. I like this idea because then if people want to play, they can, and if they want to ignore the game then it will be easy to do so.

There will be 25 or fewer couples at the party, and many of us already know each other. The host is careful only to invite people who will not be put off by house party antics.

[SecretAsianMan]

Most of the "theme" parties I've been to have been fun ideas to get people in the mood or to break the ice with folk and give them "something else" to focus on besides the swinging/sex.

Check with local novelty stores for sex-specific decorations & add a holiday flare to them ... Or add sex-decorations to your holiday flare (i.e., candy-canes with condoms taped to them).

...just throwing out some ideas for fun activities:

You could include a "gift-exchange" where people are allowed to be "given as presents" to one another ... (think of your office gift-exchange where "stealing presents" from those who've picked before you is encouraged)

Mistletoe

Egg Nog (or peppermint holiday drinks)

Red & Green holiday colored condoms

Have a "Secret-Santa" room set aside where a guest can volunteer to step inside a room of total darkness and the other guests get to come in and "Tell Santa What They Want For Christmas"

If you've got the $$ to rent a Sybian... put on some fake antlers and a christmas light on the front and let folk "Ride the Reindeer"

Encourage guests to bring an inexpensive present and do an ACTUAL gift exchange towards the end of the night.

Santa Hats