Bi-Friendly Nights at a club

exploringRM · 08-28-2009, 05:59 PM

Opinions wanted! A local club has a regular bi-friendly night (tonight in fact). We're considering heading over there, just because our weekend plans fell apart and simply looking to get out. But I'm (male) straight and my wife is bi-friendly at most (she's in it for the men, but does enjoy occasional lite female interaction). Give that neither of us are looking for a bi-experience, do you think it's pointless to go and consider meeting a couple?

**fun4Ds** · 08-28-2009, 06:57 PM

Don't go.

VegasLee · 08-28-2009, 07:18 PM

I would not say it is pointless but pretty much depends on the club. I am betting with it being a Friday night there will many others just like you there also. I would just be upfront with others about your choices and not waste their time since you may not be what they are looking for.

exploringRM · 08-28-2009, 08:23 PM

Thanks for the advice. We decided not go, but are heading to another club. The other club is another 30 minutes away though :/

Though the list of ppl going on Swing Lifestyle is not a full set, most couples were bi or bi-curious. It's hard enough to meet compatible couples on a non-bi night!

JandCMI · 08-29-2009, 08:23 AM

It's worth mentioning that just because a couple may indicate in their profile that the lady is bi or bi-curious it doesn't necessarily mean that these folks wouldn't want to play with a couple where the lady is primarily straight. It's all about attraction and what everyone is comfortable doing. We have one couple friend, for example, where the lady is almost totally straight but we still really enjoy playing with them, even without bi play.

So, maybe you're right in not going to the original club with the bi night, but don't give up on the other club just because the couples on the guest list have a "bi" or "bi-curious" in their profile.

exploringRM · 08-29-2009, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by JandCMI

It's worth mentioning that just because a couple may indicate in their profile that the lady is bi or bi-curious it doesn't necessarily mean that these folks wouldn't want to play with a couple where the lady is primarily straight. It's all about attraction and what everyone is comfortable doing. We have one couple friend, for example, where the lady is almost totally straight but we still really enjoy playing with them, even without bi play.

So, maybe you're right in not going to the original club with the bi night, but don't give up on the other club just because the couples on the guest list have a "bi" or "bi-curious" in their profile.

We don't worry about the labels too much in general, but when it's bi-nite at the club, and many of the attendees are bi I'm assuming they are looking to exersize that part of their desire. Which is fine, we just didn't want to be the odd man out so to speak.

Chicup · 08-29-2009, 10:07 PM

Since pretty much EVERY night at a club is female bi friendly night.

My guess is the attraction would be bi furious women.
Bi ONLY women.
And bi guys.

2plus2fun · 09-02-2009, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Chicup

And bi guys.

That would be my guess...

Rackir · 09-03-2009, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Chicup

Bi ONLY women.

OKay, whats a Bi ONLY woman? The title seems a tad contradictory.

Chicup · 09-03-2009, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Rackir

OKay, whats a Bi ONLY woman? The title seems a tad contradictory.

The new couple where the guy can't handle the thought of his woman with another man, or where the woman is trying to protect his ego.

I find my man MORE than meets my needs so we are looking for another woman to join in the fun!

Closet lesbians as well.

jessicat78 · 04-05-2010, 02:47 PM

If you are not open to m/m sex, dont go.

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08-28-2009, 05:59 PM	#1 (permalink)
exploringRM Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 850 Location: York, PA Status: Couple - he posts/reads Swing Lifestyle Name:hereforfunrm	Bi-Friendly Nights at a club Opinions wanted! A local club has a regular bi-friendly night (tonight in fact). We're considering heading over there, just because our weekend plans fell apart and simply looking to get out. But I'm (male) straight and my wife is bi-friendly at most (she's in it for the men, but does enjoy occasional lite female interaction). Give that neither of us are looking for a bi-experience, do you think it's pointless to go and consider meeting a couple?

08-28-2009, 06:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,487 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Bi-Friendly Nights at a club Don't go.

08-28-2009, 07:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,951 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: Bi-Friendly Nights at a club I would not say it is pointless but pretty much depends on the club. I am betting with it being a Friday night there will many others just like you there also. I would just be upfront with others about your choices and not waste their time since you may not be what they are looking for.
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08-28-2009, 08:23 PM	#4 (permalink)
exploringRM Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 850 Location: York, PA Status: Couple - he posts/reads Swing Lifestyle Name:hereforfunrm	Re: Bi-Friendly Nights at a club Thanks for the advice. We decided not go, but are heading to another club. The other club is another 30 minutes away though :/ Though the list of ppl going on Swing Lifestyle is not a full set, most couples were bi or bi-curious. It's hard enough to meet compatible couples on a non-bi night!

08-29-2009, 08:23 AM	#5 (permalink)
JandCMI Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 96 Location: Detroit, Michigan Status: Male half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jandcmi28	Re: Bi-Friendly Nights at a club It's worth mentioning that just because a couple may indicate in their profile that the lady is bi or bi-curious it doesn't necessarily mean that these folks wouldn't want to play with a couple where the lady is primarily straight. It's all about attraction and what everyone is comfortable doing. We have one couple friend, for example, where the lady is almost totally straight but we still really enjoy playing with them, even without bi play. So, maybe you're right in not going to the original club with the bi night, but don't give up on the other club just because the couples on the guest list have a "bi" or "bi-curious" in their profile.

08-29-2009, 10:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Bi-Friendly Nights at a club Since pretty much EVERY night at a club is female bi friendly night. My guess is the attraction would be bi furious women. Bi ONLY women. And bi guys.

04-05-2010, 02:47 PM	#11 (permalink)
jessicat78 Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 27 Location: Chubbuck, Idaho Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jessicat78	Re: Bi-Friendly Nights at a club If you are not open to m/m sex, dont go.

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