Resort Questions: Can you just watch? Are people attractive?...

[Sonny&Chanel]

We are new to this and have many questions about Los cabos Desire, anyone out there that can help us?

[rpu3]

What are your questions?

One thing, though... it's no longer Desire Los Cabos. Desire Los Cabos is now Temptations Resort Los Cabos. The new resort will run "Lifestyle Weeks" if there is a group takeover and the Desire rules apply only on those special weeks.

[Sonny&Chanel]

We are thinking about Cancun Desire and would like to speak with anyone that has been there. We are in our forties in very good shape and real attractive and would like to beable to find similar people there but have heard that isn't always possible.

[Sonny&Chanel]

We are new to this thing and just deciced on Desire in Cancun. We are glad we just found your post. Right now we are just looking to have sex in a group setting while others do the same and watch but no swapping on our part. We are in great shape and very attractive and my wife can be quite a tease. My question is will we find mayn couples that are fit and attractive and if so will it be a problem hosting a group setting in our room where we do not swap but encourage others to?

[BiloxiCouple]

Depends as always on who is there and what they want.

[CXXC]

Originally Posted by Sonny&Chanel

We are thinking about Cancun Desire and would like to speak with anyone that has been there. We are in our forties in very good shape and real attractive and would like to beable to find similar people there but have heard that isn't always possible.

Sonny and Chanel

There are two things that you must answer. when are you planning on going and what activities are you looking forward to pursuing.

Desire Spa and Resort in Cancun is one of the most erotic, sexually charged resorts we have ever been to. Unlike Hedo, the "Couples Only" requirement keeps the Vinnies and Wallies away.

The resort is cleaner and more upscale. The service and food is top notch. The people range from late 20's(very few) to the late 60's(very few) The average age group that we experienced was in the late thirties to late fourties.

I would suggest looking for groups on yahoo for people who are going at the same time you intend to go. That is how we met many of the people we became friends with at DSR.

It is a fantastic resort with many great people attending. I wish I was there right now! So too does Mrs. CXXC!

[Sonny&Chanel]

We are new to this and wonder if it is acceptable to just watch and be watched in a place like Desire.

[CXXC]

I can say, from personal experience that, if you go to the hot tub at 16:00 till 18:00 and again from 20:00 till ------ You will be able to watch and be watched till your hearts content.

The hot tub can be an all out orgy to a quet BJ on one of the beds. I have personally been in the middle of the tub attempting to get a drink from the bar when (the tub was wall to wall people) there were people in every possible configuration and sexual act imaginable. I nearly go pulled inot the action but had the resolve to get Mrs. CXXC a drink and return to her! WHEW! It was a close one!

Truly, if you want to have sex in the open and be seen, that is the place. If you want to meet a couple, and take them to your room for the same activity, I am 100% positive you will be able to. DSR is aobut moving at your own pace. No one will force you to do anything you dont want to. Remember, No means No!!

Who knows, you may find yourselves becoming full swap in the first couple days! ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!

[Sonny&Chanel]

Do you think we would have luck finding multible couples to come back to our suite knowing we just cared to be watched and like to watch?

[CXXC]

Originally Posted by Sonny&Chanel

Do you think we would have luck finding multible couples to come back to our suite knowing we just cared to be watched and like to watch?

Watching people have sex is like going to the movies. Who does not like going to the movies. If you invited a group of people to watch you have sex, I am certain, if you ask enough people at the right time of day, they will be more than happy to do so. However, I give you one bit of advice. Make sure that everyone knows that you do not want any involvement from anyone other than your wife and yourself. Someone my mis-interpret your invitation. Be clear on everything regarding the Lifestyle!

[T-Rex]

Before you go to Desire you may want to start with something simpler...say going up the road to Freedom Acres for the evening to see how you like sex in a group setting. Or go to Sea Mountain for the weekend (Friday and Saturday nights) and get a sense of the atmosphere. Remember, swingers come in all shapes and sizes. As in life, the most "beautiful" people may not be the people you enjoy the most.

You might not want to host a group thing in your room if you don't plan to join in...either your guests might think you plan to party with them, and could be a little put out when you don't, or if you are clear at the beginning as to your intensions, you may not get a lot of takers. At most clubs/resorts you don't need to host a party in order to maximize your enjoyment of the place.

At a club like FA, you can watch all you want, and participate only to the extent of your personal limits.

[WildMiCouple]

Originally Posted by Sonny&Chanel

Do you think we would have luck finding multible couples to come back to our suite knowing we just cared to be watched and like to watch?

That's a tough call. You might be able to find one or two other couples that are into watching, but doubt it would be any more than that.

But what you can do is check out the playroom off of the disco. You can go in there and watch others as you two play. Kinda the same thing as your suite, but more beds and couches Though you probably wouldn't know all the other couples in there, it would be very close to what you're looking for......a chance to watch and be watched by multiple couples.

You will have an absolute wonderful time at Desire. No real need to check out a local place first, as it won't compare. A completely different atmosphere and vibe than what you'll find at Desire.

Brett

[celtic239]

Sonny and Chanel
My wife and I have been to Desires three times (Cancun twice, Cabo once). The resort has certain rules concerning PDA's (public displays of affection) stating that they are limited to the playroom and your private room. We have been there when there was a partial takeover and when there was just the "regular" crowd. As Wild stated the playroom is just behind the disco and depending on the type of crowd (as there will be more group activity if there is a Lifestyle group in attendance) as well as the place for such activities (the hot tub and adjacent beds at the times stated by CXXC) your voyeuristic urges can certainly be satisfied.
As for people going to your room, you need to tell them upfront that you aren't into any form of swapping.

[CXXC]

I had not noticed the change in the topics title before. You question the attractiveness of the guests at DSR.

Like every resort in the world, you will find people who are appealing to your tastes and those who are not. This is all based upon YOUR TASTES. This is a rather ambiguous question. I don’t know what you find attractive. Some like people show are large. Some like people stick thin. Some prefer blonde, redhead, etc... You see where this is going? Your question is easy to answer really. There is something for everyone. All ages, shapes, sizes, and cultures. If you like it, you will probably find it there.

Is everyone at DSR a super model? No. but then again, how boring would that be? Sure it would be nice for a while but variety is the spice of life.