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| Swinging at Home/Clubs/Parties/Resorts Questions and comments regarding swinging & entertaining at home, clubs, parties and resorts. |
| View Poll Results: How do you like to see people dressed at clubs? | |||
| For women--show that skin (tiny skirts, backless tops)! | | 26 | 39.39% |
| For women--dressy and sexy (form fitting dresses) | | 14 | 21.21% |
| For women--casual and sexy (tight jeans, tanks) | | 7 | 10.61% |
| For women--mystery is nice ('regular' clothes) | | 3 | 4.55% |
| For men--show it off (tank tops, tight pants) | | 2 | 3.03% |
| For men--dress to iimpress (trousers, button down shirt) | | 8 | 12.12% |
| For men--causal chic (jeans, button down or polo) | | 4 | 6.06% |
| For men--it doesn't matter! | | 2 | 3.03% |
| Voters: 66. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 303 Location: Philadelphia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ivorytowers
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So we went to our first on-premise club Saturday and while we had a great time, we were amazed at the variety of clothes people were wearing. We got into a discussion about what outfits are the sexiest and so we thought we'd post a poll. For the record, Mr. Ivory like women who wear sexy dresses with some skin, but not showing everything. Mrs. Ivory likes her men wearing casual (jeans, button down shirt) but well fitting--why doesn't the oversized trend just die already?! |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 322 Location: Central, NJ Status: very happily Married couple
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How about as little as possible! Seriously, as you mentioned a sexy dress with some skin showing with more to follow.
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I responded to the men.......Jeans and a button down polo...think that was the choice. I think personally its much sexier. Unless its a "formal" event I much rather see a guy in a good pair of fitted jeans! Actually, that was 1 of the deciding factors on where to go NYE for us. Hubby is a better dresser as far as formal...He is as comfortable in a suit as he is in jeans but personally I am not. Now, I will wear the little slinky dresses however "after 5 formal required" isnt something I could be totally comfortable in. Probably could for a couple hours but not for an extended night out. Melody |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 121 Location: Southeast Michigan Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:PleasureDroids
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I like women who look like they enjoy being women and dress the part. It doesn't have to be short or skimpy, (although I won't complain!) but I like to see women in skirts, hose, ankle bracelets & heels! And she can wear something on the top half of her body, too... ![]() Given the choice between a nicely-dressed, but "ordinary" woman and a supermodel in jeans, and I'll look at the nicely-dressed lady all night long! |
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| Shy but brave Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 254 Location: North Dakota, where freezin's the reason! Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:MrEssex
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The post should have been multiple choice. But I like business casual with fewer clothes as the night progresses. You don't want to dress too casual, but the party girl/hooker look (IMHO) isn't very attractive. Bottom line, you should dress in a manner which shows the way that you want to be approached. So, if you're looking for someone who's ready to fuck at that very moment, go ahead and put on a mesh shirt and leather mini. If you're the type of person who wants a little bit of back ground information about your partner for the night, sporty casual works, and it can be quickly altered (unbutton your shirt, let the jeans lower enough to show off some butt, etc.) as you begin to feel more comfortable with your partners.
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| Your Tent or Ours? Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 706 Location: mm Status: Couple
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I said show us that skin, ladies. Leave something to the imagination, but not much! I love to look at women - I just love it. And the more you're willing to display, the more I'll look. This is exactly why I absolutely love spring - it's my favorite time of the year. People have been bundled up against the cold of winter for so long, the shorts, short skirts, sundresses, and tank tops come out, and I'm in heaven. Something I've always wondered though - don't mothers inform their daughters that in certain lighting conditions, white pants/shorts/skirts become almost transparent? Not that I'm complaining, you understand - I'm all for it. But be warned that sometimes we can tell that 'the carpet doesn't match the drapes,' if you get my drift... |
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| Pussy on the Prowl Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 305 Location: Central Europe Status: Single Female
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I like men in thight boxers and tanktops Or leather pants and an open shirt I would never feel like hitting on a guy who dress to impress as you Americans seem to prefer (trousers and collar/button shirt) even less so if he has a wife on his site who showes a lot of skin It looks like he does not even try to get some play |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 303 Location: Philadelphia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ivorytowers
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Men may be MORE visual than women, but some women like to look too! Honestly, if a man is completely covered up and his wife is wearing a tiny skirt and tube top, he looks more like her pimp than her partner. | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,252 Location: North Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncmd_couple
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As a man, I have also noticed that the guys tend to get dressed right away after playing or being in the hot tub. So I am not over the top if when I get out of the hot tub that I just wrap a towel around my waist for the rest of the evening? S |
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| Where's the party? Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 172 Location: Paradise Status: Couple
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She likes men in linen pants (gropability) and soft, silky shirts. I think I made up a word. LOL | |
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| Your Tent or Ours? Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 706 Location: mm Status: Couple
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To be honest, I've never really thought about how I dress. Ok, maybe a little - I mean, I don't dress like a slob or anything - I go casual. I'll wear a pair of nice jeans (blue or black - not baggy, but not painted on either) and a golf shirt. I prefer a golf shirt to anything I have to tuck into my pants, only because that way I don't have to keep tucking the shirt in. ![]() One time I went all out and wore my kilt to a local on-premise club, figuring that it would at least be an ice breaker. Boy was I wrong! NOT ONE person said a word to me about it. Man was I disappointed. I figured that with all of the "what's under the kilt" questions I'm asked any other time I wear it, I'd have my hands full - or the ladies would - either way.... Nope - not one person even approached me.What say you, ladies? Would you rather see a nice pair of properly fitting jeans, or maybe some dress slacks, khakis, or maybe something else completely? Keep in mind that it's winter now... |
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312
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Kilts are HOT! Teresa | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,308 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple
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I have to say that I like men's club wear- the nice khakis or dark pants, a casual buttoned shirt, open at the neck, preferably with a soft texture (the Mr got a new one from me for xmas), and good shoes. Nothing turns me off faster than running shoes. Took me about 3 months to drill that into the Mr's head, but now he knows- sneakers are for exercise, not playtime.
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful
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The kilt can be the ice breaker but the personality seals the deal. And I believe I have seen Ted in his and he can seal a deal with his personality. ![]() On dressing at a club here's a pet peeve of mine. The other night I saw two beautiful women dressed very hot!!! And the guy with them was dressed like a bum! Well maybe not a bum, but comparatively speaking... and it was New Year's Eve. Formal attire expected but not required. But, he was bouncing around like he was on something anyways.... |
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,679 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Status: a very married man Swing Lifestyle Name:SW_PA_Couple
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For me, the garments matter little. Any woman who wears a smile is perfectly dressed. ~Michael |
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