First time to Swinger's Club

[crazinred]

Red here. Yes, I am definitely a bit nervous about what to expect the first time in one of the clubs. I guess we will just go hang out have a few drinks then, when I loosen up, maybe I will have some fun.
I would like to thank everyone for all your input on this subject. It is greatly appreciated.

[BiloxiCouple]

And if someone is naked or alot of people are naked, after a while you get used to "seeing" them naked. Unless something is really interesting, then look and get over it.


Like looking at 4 wheel drive tires. Alot of them look the same (especially the smaller ones) and once in a while someone comes up with a unique tire. The biggest tires I ever had were 40's. When I saw a truck with 48's, WOW. Then they were just tires again.

[MrkLin]

We've been to several clubs over the past 8 years, and have seen people walking around the common area of the club naked only one time. That couple lost a game of pool, and the bet was the losers had to walk through the whole club bare-assed, and say hello to everyone in the place. Other than that, nudity is usually kept to the play rooms. It's not like it's big open-air orgy, or folks are just standing around in the buff. For the most part, the common area of the club will be like any other night club. There might be some flashing here and there, but that's about it. The only difference is that nobody will get kicked out or arrested for flashing a bit of nipple or tushie. Now if you go into a playroom, you will probably see people completely naked. That doesn't mean that you have to get naked yourself, but others who are playing probably will be.

If you see anyone naked out in the common area of the club on your first outting to a club, I would be very surprised. You will probably see some very sexy outfits, maybe some lingerie, maybe some very revealing tops or skirts - but as far as people walking around starkers, I seriously doubt it. And even if I'm totally wrong, and there are people milling about naked, then just sit back and enjoy the show. It sure makes narrowing down potential playmates a lot easier...

One of the reasons some couples go to clubs in the first place is to be watched in an environment that's open to that kind of thing without fear of being hassled or arrested. Yes, they want you to look, so don't feel embarrassed by it. Relax and have fun.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by crazinred

Myself and Red got to talk some finally and she expressed one of her concerns with going to a club. She is unsure of being in a location of naked people walking around everywhere. She understands she doesn't have to be naked herself but thinks she will be uncomfortable around others being naked. So my question is at most on premises clubs is there open nakedness in all areas or just mostly in the play areas.

This is a normal worry, but there's no need to worry. As MrLkn said, it's really not common to see folks walking around in the common areas naked. Now if you go into the play areas (assuming it's an on-premise club) you will see naked people and a whole lot more. Typically, though people put their clothes on to walk back out to the general areas (or at least a robe). That said, you will see boobs... it's not at all uncommon for the women to end up topless at some point in the night. In all the times we've been to our favorite on-premise club I can only recall one time that I remember a woman running around the dance area naked... she must have started really early!

Originally Posted by crazinred

Red here. Yes, I am definitely a bit nervous about what to expect the first time in one of the clubs. I guess we will just go hang out have a few drinks then, when I loosen up, maybe I will have some fun.
I would like to thank everyone for all your input on this subject. It is greatly appreciated.

This is the best approach. Go with no expectations and just have a good time together. Sit back and watch people and get a feel for the place while you enjoy each other. This is what we did our first time, and before the night was over we ended up upstairs playing with each other. It took a couple more times to really get our bearings and really feel comfortable, but now it's nothing to us. Of course, every new club we visit it's like starting over again.

[crazinred]

Ok our plan is to go to a club for the first time tomorrow evening. Our Choices are Temptations and Club 101 both in Dayton OH which is very close or Klub Layden in Muncie IN 1 Hr away. I have heard a lot about Temptations and Klub Layden but nothing about Club 101. I know Klub Layden has a lot going on tomorrow night and I have seen nothing special going on at Temptations. Club 101 shows it to be Meet and Greet night. Anyones input on this would be great.

[crazinred]

Well we decided on Temptations as it was the closest to home. It was a great choice. We met alot of new friends and had a absolutely great time. Red was in pure heaven for a while receiving a full body massage. And I must say I loved it to. We will be going back there and many other places. It just was a perfect match for the 2 of us and I only see it getting better.

[MrkLin]

I'm really glad to hear you had a good time! It sounds as though Red got over her fear of nudity in a big way (Good for you Red!) As time passes, and you get more comfortable with the club and the people there, you'll wonder why you were ever nervous in the first place. Have fun and enjoy yourselves. Great first experience! Way to go!

[crazinred]

Originally Posted by MrkLin

I'm really glad to hear you had a good time! It sounds as though Red got over her fear of nudity in a big way (Good for you Red!) As time passes, and you get more comfortable with the club and the people there, you'll wonder why you were ever nervous in the first place. Have fun and enjoy yourselves. Great first experience! Way to go!

Well not much nervousness left in Red now. With the 4 day weekend We spent 3 of them somewhere. 2 clubs and 1 house party and every time we had a great time.