House Party Rules

[JustAskJulie]

For those who throw (or have thrown) house parties, what are your House Party Rules?

I was thinking if we threw a house party here, we'd need to do some rearranging but the rules in general would be the same as they are for any party...

Smoking must be done outside
And unless we turn out all lights in our sunroom, no sex in the sunroom (it's in the front of the house).

If you had a sunroom in the front of your house, what would you do? It seems like it would be a great place to play, the idea of feeling like you are outside, but in order to make it workable it would either have to be pitch black (which isn't possible without turning off the lights in the house as well) or we'd have to close all the blinds which would take away from the feeling that you were outside.

[havefuninsun]

We are going to our first house party in a few weeks, and we're totally looking forward to it! It's a bummer that the sunroom is not in an ideal place ... if it were us, I think we'd have to say it was off-limits, unless it doesn't bother you if the neighbors found out.

[cplnuswing]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

If you had a sunroom in the front of your house, what would you do?

How high are the windows? Do they wrap around on top?

If so, maybe cover the windows up to head height off the ground, leave open above that, and look at the calendar to pick a night with a full moon, early moonrise, and hope for clear skies. We have a small transom window in the bedroom that on nights like that if we don't completely pull the shade will make it like daytime inside the room.

Aluminum foil works great for temporarily blocking windows. Easy to put up and since it blocks all light, no chance of the neighbors getting an eyeful from backlighting inside the house resulting in a silhouette peep show. Drawback is if you don't get it down by morning it gives the front of your house that cool spaceship look that will probably be the talk of the neighborhood

[BiloxiCouple]

Closed doors remained closed.

[LikeMinds321]

I think it would be very hard to open the sunroom for play at a party.

You can't count on people to obey the rules and someone could turn on the lights and that's all it would take for the neighbors to pull out their binoculars. Your neighbors will know a party is going on - with all the cars in your drive and in the street - and neighbors are nosey, I'm am.

You'd be worried that someone would turn on the lights in the sunroom or the house and light the sunroom up enough to reveal a naked body or two, and that would interfere with you being a relaxed hostess...and it would get the neighbor's talking.

I would plan a party that offered you the optimum way to start out comfortable and with privacy in mind.

Use the sunroom at another time, when you have one or two couples over to play privately, and you ALL will know how important keeping it dark is. You'll be able to control a smaller play situation much better and enjoy your sunroom, too.

LM

P.S. I like the idea of using the sunroom when the moon is full.

[JustAskJulie]

What other rules would you guys have if you were hosting a house party at your house?

[olycouple]

No drinks on the edge of the hot tub

[TNT]

Clean up after yourself...I'm not your maid. (Used condoms go in the trash, not on the floor).

BYOB

No means No

My house, my music...ask before you mess with the program I have running, I don't want any of my songs deleted by accident.

If you're watching someone have sex, be naked.

Be nice, respectful and leave any drama at the door.


Teresa

[sexcupid]

Interesting topic...I would like to host a house party sometime.

I agree with most of TNT's suggestions. I do NOT want to be wandering around picking up used condoms...ick.

So: No means No.
BYOB and I'll have common mixers and plenty of munchies.
Little trash cans and wet wipes in play areas (and maybe condoms and lube depending on the size of the party).
Don't touch the laptop/Ipod lol.
No smoking in the house.
No wandering outside naked (we don't have a covered porch or a high enough privacy fence).

Now, I like the idea of the sunroom, even if it is on the front of the house. Some material, shades, or the foil idea to cover high enough that folks can walk around and no one can see in but you still have the overhead visual of the moon and stars is pretty nice and still allows for some low level lighting options without giving the neighbors a free peep show.

Maria

[SCcpl40]

Pay homage to the host, be personable with all the quest, help clean up afterwards.

[fun4Ds]

No parking in the yard. Or at least have designated parking. It just draws attention.

[des1re06]

When everyone arrives we show them around, and point out:

the stacks of hand towels and baby wipes,
bathrooms and showers,
large towels for placing underneath (in case of squirting),
mixers and shared booze,
where to store their personal belongings,
where the private rooms are versus the group room,
the "conversation room" for talking, please no loud talking in the sex rooms, as it's distracting
how to operate the sex swing
ask about allergies (we store our cats in the garage). one lady is deathly allergic to peanuts, so no peanuts anywhere

rules:
smoking is in 1 room only or outside
don't have sex on the kitchen table (old, antique)
don't go naked on the back deck (neighbors)
condoms are required for anal, and please don't go from one woman to another if you participate in anal
please wash or shower between each partner
no drugs are allowed
no cameras unless you ask first
no means no
participate at YOUR comfort level
if a door is closed, don't go in

Please let the host/hostess know if you need anything or if anyone gets out of line.

We have a large sunroom that we have blinds on the windows for parties. If you don't have blinds, pick up some inexpensive sheer fabric (Goodwill has tons of curtain sheers), tack with thumbtacks and drap in a sexy fashion. Get some of those "candles" that are battery operated. We found them at the dollar store. Take the bulbs out of the other lights in the room. It could be your sexiest room.

As for neighbors, get "happy birthday" balloons or a banner. It takes some of their curiosity level down a notch.

Have fun!

Mrs. D

[cplnuswing]

Originally Posted by des1re06

As for neighbors, get "happy birthday" balloons or a banner. It takes some of their curiosity level down a notch.

Now that's clever

[largdad]

Since we live in the country off a dirt lane, neighbors not a problem. We have our gatherings in the basement so the good furniture does not cum into play.

No Smoking,
a no is a no
since we have no rooms, except for hut tub and shower, everything is in full view. So if a spouse thinks someone is doing something out of line it can be corrected.
Mr Larg is the enforcer and to date no problems.
New couples must get an approval before even getting close to this house by all guest.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by SCcpl40

Pay homage to the host,

Care to elaborate?